But I don't feel like waiting. He's kind of shy and I know that he probably won't take the first step himself.
What should I do, how should I tell him ?
Thanks a lot ! I think I will. Should I tell him I like him, and then ask him out right of way ?
Yes, definitely, but don't just say, "Will you be my boyfriend?" or "Will you go out with me?" If he's shy and low in self-esteem, he's probably afraid of getting into a relationship in which he can't hold up his end. Ask him something more specific, like "Will you go to the movies with me on Friday?" This should make him feel more confident (even the least self-confident person can probably see himself going to the movies once with a girl he likes), which will make him more likely to say yes.
Thank you ! I probably will but I'm planning on talking to him a few more days to make sure that I'm not missing a proof that he doesn't like me, you know ?
That's what I was going to do before my friends started making me insecure about it. It's the first time I'm actually going to ask someone out face to face, so I don't know how I should say it, and if he likes me back, should I ask him out right the way or wait a few days ? I feel clueless.
Hmm...I know how you feel. If he doesn't really know or have an idea that you like him, try flirting it up a little bit to let him know you're interested and see how he reacts. If he reacts positively, go for it! If he seems a little hesitant, don't let that get you down. Maybe he just wants to get to know you better.
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