I'd probably have to tell the Mrs. But for you, get a good pregnancy test and see for sure. See you doc for confirmation. Assuming you want to keep it, discuss with your guy.
I would take on my responsibilities and be a Father to the Child i would much rather the girl come to tell me that she's pregnant than to leave me with living a lie.
What do you want to do? What do you want with your life? Forced motherhood is not a good thing. And if you’re not very far in your pregnancy, its basically an embryo without brain function. Just saying...
It's obvious. You 2 need to get married. You shouldn't of been having sex outside of marriage anyway but if you're claiming to be Christian then you only have 1 option.
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I'd probably have to tell the Mrs.
But for you, get a good pregnancy test and see for sure. See you doc for confirmation. Assuming you want to keep it, discuss with your guy.
Two stable jobs, a stable relationship, getting married in your mid 20's. You are sensible. 😁
Good luck, miss anon.
I’m 4 months pregnant. When did you have sex? Wait 2 WEEKS before taking a test because it’ll come up negative if you take it before 2 weeks
Pop off into celebration and hope one of my work buddies doesn't mind that I am going to be raising his kid.
I would take on my responsibilities and be a Father to the Child
i would much rather the girl come to tell me that she's pregnant
than to leave me with living a lie.
Dump that cheating bitch and tell her she should go let the father know. I know for a fact it isn't mine.
Personally I would dump her because I an congenitally sterile so it would mean she is cheating,
If I weren't, I would support her through the pregnancy and support the child after the birth, if the child were mine. Yes, I would order a DNA test.
Try to make the relationship work. While trying my best to help her raise the child.
However it can add stress to a relationship.
The first thing you should do is tell him so you can deal with this together
What do you want to do? What do you want with your life? Forced motherhood is not a good thing. And if you’re not very far in your pregnancy, its basically an embryo without brain function. Just saying...
Have you talked about having kids at all? Not necasserily together, but in general?
It's obvious. You 2 need to get married. You shouldn't of been having sex outside of marriage anyway but if you're claiming to be Christian then you only have 1 option.
I'd be happy. Not sure about the marriage part, though.
I would start planning to live together. And plan our future together. But that is just me.
I'd wonder a lot, because it's hard for me to make her pregnant. It's a lot easier for me to get pregnant.
"Especially Christian guys" ... why would that matter?
Anyway, I dunno. Freak out a lot probably. Want to run away.
I'd be happy. Not sure if that's a reason to get married, but I get it. Good luck and wish you the best.
What can I do?
Nothing, just support her with her decision to keep or abortion...
Just tell him as soon as you know, it is to late for thinking now... Do not suffer in silence alone... I would hate, if my girlfriend do that...
Step 1: Run!
Step 2: Realize that you can't run and pretend to embrace
Step 3: As time goes by, very nicely ask for a paternity test
Step 4: Be a Dad.
I'd be asking her who the father is because it sure as hell ain't me.
I had married her - to accept my responsibility in this.
It was a mistake.