Boredom, unfortunately. I won't deny it.
Everything gets repetitive once it stops being new, and the same goes for relationships. It the same reason you always hear those jokes which typically start with *sigh*...the wife.
Everything stops being new eventually, and that's normally when a guy settles in and is comfortable. You shouldn't look at a guy getting fed up as a negative thing, you should view it as a guy being fully comfortable with their girlfriend, being able to both put them out of their mind (at ease, as I'd call it) and also loosen up around them and perhaps snap in irritation at something they did. Call it nasty or unfair, but it is a part of life.
Think back to when he was just a nervous little skittish thing, blushing when accidentally catching your boob when cuddling. Now he's sitting on the couch not paying attention, or making snide remarks. He doesn't hate you - he's comfortable around you. :)
Either that, or he's just an asshole. I'll let you make the call on that one.
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I personally don't, but I'd say for people that do, it'd be because... things may have changed, as in the start of relationships are exciting and physical, but a year or however long in some may just lose that initial spark. Maybe routine has become boring, in the beginning you have a lot of things to find out, you don't know a lot about them and you want to know more. But when you know everything about them, then there's nothing that you don't already know about them, dull conversations. Finally, if someone 'better' comes along, if a guy is with a girl and he likes her, she's pretty and so on, but if he see's a really pretty girl who fits similar personality categories and so on, he may get bored of who he's with and go after the 'better' version.
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when our girl is
i)careless
ii)boring(not talking abt sex just that she showing no love towards us)
iii)stupid
iv)just craving for attention and using us as a tool
v)think were her dog
vi)when she only into sex etc. I'm sure there more !I think most guys get bored and want to do something new or to know others but I think sometimes the girlfriend herself is the reason
Mainly if she turns out to be bat sh*t crazy.
when she gets mad at me a lot for being stupid.
She's a girl. That means a lot.
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