Why do guys say they leaving , but then always come back?

Question

Can't they made up their minds or can't they resist?

chistonejr · Accepted Answer

When we feel held against the wall and angry, our senses become dull. If we really love you, we don't actually mean that we are leaving. When we leave, we really mean that we are going to get some air and calm down. Guys aren't big fans of confrontation and drama and when we actually face out, we could black out and not want to deal with anything anymore, but as long as you have always been good to us and mean a lot to us, we will always come back. We literally wouldn't have much of a reason to leave. But never use that against us because that will give us a real reason to.

Jean-Marie_Céline · Accepted Answer

I'd say both.

justheree · Accepted Answer

They do that because we as humans forget to set boundaries. This comes to any type of relationship that is somewhat not making the effort to be there through good and bad. We deserve honest humble hearts to express what they desire. When someone sees no boundaries their tendencies never really change.

SpacedCharr · Accepted Answer

Because they're stupid, and they miss sex. Only reason I can think of for wanting to go back to a woman who keeps rewarding that behaviour.

lightbulb27 · Answer

connection and attachment. What if he saw in her the woman he thought he loved? he just gonna run? Nobody likes pain and suffering, but after we stop hurting, we go back, or get pulled back.

can't just run away every time we hurt. but after enough pin pricks, one starts to decide if they like pin pricks rest of their life... some don't.

locoloco68 · Answer

More than likely the grass wasn't greener on the other side and I was at the song going it's on a Greener where you water it if you got somebody like that that leaves and comes back you said always so I presume it's happened a few times I take it you better off cutting it loose Love Hurts definitely if it's only one-sided

TheLawAroundHere · Answer

Because we can only see as far as the end of our dicks. We slam the door behind us, yell "fuck you!!!" as we are walking to our trucks. We then look down after a quarter mile and notice that u aren't giving us head. We have to fix that. Thats when u hear a knock on your door.

zenbullet · Answer

Guys just say they want to get back together to get laid

But also if it was a psychologically scarring break up, they may intellectually want to get back together but their reptile brain is still afraid and will sabotage it any way it can

JohnDon9 · Answer

Beause he does not actually mean , instead what he needs more is your attention , we guys screw up when it comes to put up how we feel infront of our girlfriends

vondam · Answer

It can be very complex, they want to go because of other reasons but they can't live without you. But sometimes guys can use this as a form of control which is horrible in itself because people who feel have a genuine reason to leave are slated for it.

NYCstreetPhotog · Answer

I've never come back to someone I've left, but I have come back to someone that's left me. Maybe it has to do with the differences in the feeling of loss. With leaving someone, you have less loss, but if someone leaves you the loss is more poinient.

Dongtai · Answer

I don’t know what guys you’re referring to but this one has never gone back after he left.  You get one chance to break my heart. Just one. When I’m gone, I’m gone.

Jjpayne · Answer

Mind games but then sometimes they also have time to think about it and choose to try to make it right

winterfox10 · Answer

Trust me, it's either because they can't make up their mind, or they haven't found something that's actually any better. Coming back is not the compliment that a lot of women seem to think it is.

Hazelstar · Answer

Because he was bored and he had no one.. You were there so that's why he had come back to you

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Same reason why girls keep saying they're leaving but always come back. Girl: *moody* Guy: you OK? Girl: i'm fine just leave me alone Guy: ok Girl: GO AHEAD AND IGNORE ME YOU S. O. B.!!

COMMODOREII · Answer

Our hearts make us care and want to come back for love. It sucks.

lofii · Answer

He realized he couldn't do better so he had no choice but to return

MementoMori_ · Answer

They think they can do better but then find out they can't and come back begging.

OnitheWanderer · Answer

Well, I think that's more vice versa. But I think it's more about ego and pride on both parties. When they use that phrase "I'm leaving"!

nateliftsalot · Answer

They realize it's not that easy to get laid once they leave.

soleil2666 · Answer

Lol - because they are generally not as mean as women to actually leave (when something is still there)

colivares878 · Answer

Most want to see if it's greener on the other side and once they realize that it's not they want to come back

Manuel2 · Answer

I usually come back as the woman has changed for the better. But usually when we get dumped, why try an easy lay to go back too

Alearu · Answer

We come back only when we're horny/lonely/both. Don't believe the lies. It's also right about women

Fuentes · Answer

This only happen twice other then that im a cold sick puppy and dgaf

Cleo81 · Answer

Cause your their back up girlfriend if their one in now doesn’t workout.

Anonymous · Answer

Actually I never met a guy who wanted to come back with the girl tho lol

October808 · Answer

They forgot their car keys.

rapfan107 · Answer

😂😂they're wimps if I say I'm leaving you bet I'm not coming back ever

outside_Toronto · Answer

Because you allow them back

dragoblack · Answer

Like everyone else, they don't want to be alone

Anonymous · Answer

Because it’s hard to take women seriously, they’re so pathetic

reptocarl · Answer

Because women are stupid enough to take us back

maxgdek · Answer

It's a reoccurring motif and many many movies

Ripper_E · Answer

No idea, because every guy I know will just leave.

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

They just cannot make their mind up

SouthBpund557 · Answer

Maybeing they are on the fience

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I have NEVER come back to someone I left. Hell no.

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

Often it’s because they left beer in the fridge

Liam_Hayden · Answer

I don't. When it's over I'm TF out of there.

Exorcist_Rampage · Answer

Many men can't make up their mind.

Agem123 · Answer

They might come back for the sex.

Anonymous · Answer

They only come back if you allow them in

MountainDewMan1 · Answer

They don’t always come back

Luiiiiiii · Answer

Maybe he's still in love?

sydneyboy · Answer

Maybe he's using you as side piece

haioria · Answer

The is no men , that is menvigana

dman2796 · Answer

For attention and attempting to manipulate you.

crazy8000 · Answer

Beats me.

GreenGold1992 · Answer

in what context?

Anonymous · Answer

For attention

Anonymous · Answer

People do weird shit

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