Why do guys leave after a hookup?

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Does it mean I'm ugly?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Guys leaving after a hookup can have various reasons, and it's not necessarily related to your appearance. People have different motivations and intentions when it comes to casual encounters. Some may not be interested in pursuing a committed relationship, while others might be looking for something more casual. It's important not to jump to conclusions about your attractiveness based on someone's actions. Remember that self-worth isn't determined solely by how others react to you in such situations. Communication and mutual understanding are key in any kind of relationship.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not necessarily. Could be that they’re already w someone. A girlfriend or married. Maybe they’re not ready to be w someone just yet. Maybe they’re scared of getting hurt like in a past relationship. Maybe they’re just seeing how many chicks they can bang. I myself never considered a one night stand for a serious relationship simply because I thought to myself, well if she’s hooking up at bars, how many other men has she been w? Men usually don’t want a girl who’s had more meat in her than a freezer.

KrazyCatKit · Accepted Answer

I don't think that's the only possible reason, could be because maybe he just doesn't want to get attached or something else entirely? Maybe he is known to be a "player"? You can still be really pretty and have this happen to you, or any other girl from what i've seen!

strawberrybaby3 · Accepted Answer

No, it could mean a bunch of things , but one could be that he was just looking to hook up with you in the first place so there’s nothing left to say or do. He got what he wanted.

Der_Ritter · Answer

If you want a guy to stick around don't go slutting it up. If you treat yourself like a sex object, so shall the men you find treat you. If you want a long term relationship you aren't gonna do it by offering yourself up to fuck on Tinder.

Nothing to do with how you look, you hookup because you wanna get laid, he did cause he wanted to get laid, you fucked and he left cause the desire was fulfilled and that desire was a one time romp.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

It's a hookup. That's the point. You didn't call us over for Netflix and chill or dinner at your place. You called us over for one task, we accomplished that task, we're trying to get out of your hair and handle it like professionals so you'll call us again for the next hookup.

Lionman95 · Answer

No it´s more them thinking that it was just about sex. For a guy a hookup is all about sex so he leaves when the sex is over. The point for hook up is cruelly spoken to get sex without feelings and responsibilities, he can use you for sex without feeling guilty. Since you´re partaking says to him it´s ok for him to go when it´s over.

DollarBillcheapman · Answer

Lots of ways to diagnose yourself. Step one, don't listen to any female friends. Step two rate yourself on hot or not. Maybe ask guys you don't know at stores to rate you honestly. You can work on some stuff. Or even date down. If the 4's don't leave after, you'll have a better idea. If you're getting 6.5/7 or higher, then there is a personality issue to work on. Good hunting.

DextroShade · Answer

If you were ugly they wouldn't want to hook up in the first place. The guys leave because they either aren't looking for a serious relationship or they saw red flags with you that made them put you in the recreational use only category.

SamIam96 · Answer

It would be surprising if your looks had anything to do with him leaving. There are so many reasons for him to leave. All are quite boring. You're asking so I assume you want to see him again. DM and I'll relate a relevant experience.

AviatorTom · Answer

The guy is there for a hookup and when the sex is over, there's nothing else he wants, so he leaves. You should expect that. If you want somoni to cuddle with after sex, get a boyfriend, not a hookup.

Sour-rose · Answer

It means you was his booty call... booty call complete.

EmmaMary · Answer

Sadly this is an usual case of ‘WHAM, BAM, THANK YOU MA’AM’.

Billlewis · Answer

I usually leave because I want to get some sleep, and I always sleep better in my own bed.

Nik1hil · Answer

No, it means a relationship is too expensive for a man to afford.

Starrrboy · Answer

Because it was a " hookup "? lol..

Anonymous · Answer

Does an airtanker just hover over a forest fire after it's dropped it's payload? No! That'd be pointless.😆

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Because you are a "hook up" hook ups by nature are a hot sexual short live flame.

In_Trance · Answer

Probably because you don't show them you have anything else to offer

WhiteSandyBeach · Answer

Are you serious?

Snakeyes7 · Answer

Because a hookup is not a relationship

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Because probably give it to them too easy

Anonymous · Answer

It means you were a fuck n chuck a pump n dump

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

NO---

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