What's a guy's texting behaviors if he he likes you?

[Anonymous]

Does he text you everyday?

What's the signs for if they're just being a player? Do they flirt nonstop?

[Mystique01]

IMO, as long as he's still willing to have deep conversations with you and is opening up himself, then I don't see a problem.

Most guys tend to see the "physical" or outward appearance of a girl first, but as the guy gets to know her, he starts to see that she is MORE than just a "pretty face". So, if he's stopped complimenting you, it doesn't necessarily mean he's lost interest, but more so that maybe he's trying to see what type of PERSON you are beyond just the physical.

Now if you said that he has not only stopped complimenting you but is also avoiding you/your phone calls/text messages, or has stopped having deep conversations with you at all, THEN I would say that maybe that guy has definitely lost interest.

But for right now, it's just too early to tell I think.

Just continue being yourself and enjoy your conversations!

[tacopirate2589]

From my own personal experiences:

A guy who really likes you will get to know you before he starts showing obvious signs he likes you. He won't rush into a relationship and try to get things started fast, he'll take it easy and make sure your right for him. He may text you every day, I'd assume pretty often, but he won't be asking you inappropriate questions or complementing you a bunch and he'll try to seem genuinely interested in your conversation regardless of the topic.

A player will rush a relationship. When you first start talking he will compliment you a lot. He'll text you a lot too, but may be flaky about texting back if your not flirting a lot. He'll ask personal questions about your sex life within the first week or two. He'll try to be around you as much as possible so he seems interested.

[Asker]

Hmmm but what if a guy compliments you a lot at first, but then as he gets to know you he doesn't , and just has deep conversations? It seems kind of reverse :/

[Eiffelgirl21]

He could be backing off a bit...Maybe you are being too attentive to him? I know from my experience that when I would act all into him, he would back off. Guys need to "chase" a little bit before settling down with you. Maybe if you take a step back from texting him and calling him so much he might act more interested again...Of course this is if you are doing that.

[pintoes]

Yea I had the whole player situation recently. He was all over me the first 2weeks. I was with him everyday. Now he just texts me everyday. I told him I wasn't going to have sex with him if he doesn't date me, but he still texts me. I don't understand him. I've seen him once in the past 2weeks. Also, when I see him he's always staring at me for a long time. I don't get this guy.

[Zirdz]

A guy who likes you will likely be attentive but try not to be needy. A player will never appear to have any kind of vulernability.

[Asker]

So if he's texting you nonstop for weeks then all of a sudden starts like randomly not texting you back after talking for a couple hours or something... That's him trying not to be needy? This guy also used to be super flirty but now is just really friendly?

[Zirdz]

Maybe he's suddenly gotten busier. Or maybe he's been seeing no signals from you and has given up relationship-wise.