What are nonverbal signs that a girl is upset or angry with you?

[martyfellow]

Gestures, or a certain 'look'.I know I've missed some of these signs and regretted it!

[ColoradoSoundsNice]

In case you TRULY miss the signs, here they are: sometimes instead of coming out and communicating what is on our minds, we flounce around the house, we slam things on the counter, we're short on the phone, we say "that's fine" and "whatever " a lot, we put our hands on our hips and lean to one side, raise an eyebrow, tighten our lips, stick out our lower jaw, do he Cher tongue-roll against the inside of our cheeks, sigh a lot, roll our eyes, become VERY stiff, cross our arms tightly, and become UNUSUALLY silent. Trust me, we want you to get it, pick up on it, and throw us a sympathetic bone. If it's a public scenario and out of decorum we cannot say anything we will just stare at you, and when you ask us "What's wrong?" We wait a several seconds before responding with a tight-lipped "nothing." These are all classic, but if she's experienced she'll USE WORDS to tell you what's up, or lay on the non-verbal cues pretty thick as to not waste her or your time. My guess is you didn't "miss" anything. If a woman's pissed at you for missing these cues - then she's either inexperienced, OR is actually upset about is the lack of attention you give her, her not being a priority in your life, etc. If we (women) can point out things that you missed or were oblivious to, we can make you second guess yourself and feel like an inadequate boyfriend, and therefore step it up a knotch out of guilt. Then we get more romance/attention. Yay.

[martyfellow]

Thanks, I hadn;t thought about deliberately making us second-guess...maybe we aren't always missing these signs.

[Anonymous]

if she is mad at you and you turn in her direction to look at her, she may cross her arms around her chest and look at the opposite direction. She may roll her eyes at you and she may try to purposely bump into you. She will set her mouth in a hard line if you know what I mean by that. there are other signs but it really varies from girl to girl

[Akikosmile]

For myself, when I toss my head and make my hair fly around, this is a sign to WATCH OUT. I only use this on guys.anger directed at other people or issues doesn't make me do this.

And if I do it two or three times, it's like a cat swishing its tail.! ignore at your own risk!

[Badbruce]

I've found that when they get a little tongue-tied.it is because they are suppressing anger, so watch out for that.

Also, tossing the head, especially when a girl has long hair, is a sign of anger most often, although it can also be other strong emotions.

Most of all, any time they stare at you fixedly, it's time to watch out!

[Tonyitaliano]

i've found that a violent toss of the head is a prelude to something awful. Both my baby sitter and my Vietnames girl friend did this.right before they spanked me.! so watch out for that one!

[martyfellow]

No one can top getting spanked by their girl friend..now THAT is MAD...

[Akikosmile]

Well, I didn't get best answer, but I'm glad you found out what the head toss might mean!!

[paulthree]

Watch their eyes. If they sort ot get a fixed expression, or sort of glaze over, it's a sign something has upset her.

Also watch for changes in her voice. Any flattening of the tone is a sign of anger. I'm sure you know that one! although they sometimes try to disguise that, it's true

[Newport100]

I would say a gasp and a look of disbeleif. Like you stole something from her.

Then, being ignored and you find out she is telling everyone that you are a f***face. those are good signs.

[martyfellow]

I should have made clear I meant fairly subtle signs....obviously some things are clear!!

But women being generally polite, these overt signs are not always there, are they!

[Newport100]

Hell hath no fury than that of a woman scorned, as the saying goes(if I quoted it correctly)

When a female feels slighted, especially from a person she has feelings for (from a boyfreind/husband or just a really close friend) ohhhhhh, you just opened a can of whoop-ass!!!

I never accidently hurt a female friend without her being very clear about how I made her feel. When those bad emotions get stirred up, women can be anything but subtle when the fury is in her.

[pwl0lwp]

i find a stinging sensation on the side of my face is a good indication, especially if accompanied by a red mark ;)

[martyfellow]

Well, I got a whole lot of stinging on the rear when I missed the signals...!!!

[Donna-la-Bella]

I also give the head toss, I guess it woldn't work with short hair, but with long hair, it's a way to get a guy's attention!

Another sign is clenching my hands into a fist.not subtle, is it, but guys miss that one with girls!

[l-hedoniste]

Don't worry about it. A man who doesn't know how to speak his own mind deserves to be rattled.

[lefthand]

flying projectiles is generally a bad sign.