Girls do you regret playing 'Hard to get' sometimes?

[bond_007]

like if the guy left you, and wasn't interested in you any more,

or do you come straight forward to him with no games?

[charlie_girl]

Yes. I wouldn't say it's so much playing hard to get but I tend to back off a bit if I find someone is getting too close. Haven't quite figured out why yet, but I think it's because I'm wary about entering into rships without being 100% sure. I always find guys move a lot faster and it scares me! Guys interpret this as lack of interest or playing games etc which I guess is fair enough. So to answer your question I have stuffed up a lot of potentially good relationships as a result. Would I go back after them? prob not, because it looks like you had a chance and you stuffed it up and now you regret it. Guys have pride too, so if they put themselves out there and get knocked back I'm not sure how open they would be to giving someone a second chance!

[brettb]

Sounds like you need a guy to sort of keep you on your feet then.

[spirit-savage]

This helps me to know that. I will say this, yes guys are prideful. And rarely will I take a girl back who plays way too many games. But with slight misunderstandings, an apology can go a looong way. But here's the deal, girls rarely apologise because they refuse to admit they are wrong too. Humility is the most attractive trait in girls though. Because even if she isn't everyone's dream girl, you know she'll become that if she's humble enough to continue to become a better person than she was the day before, every single day. That is incredibly attractive.

[lala_rose]

Yes I did regret it a lot of times but the guy I was dating, I approached him first because I felt like I should and I don't regret it because if I wouldve not have approached him, we probably would have not have been friends or dating.. Guys, when you see a girl is interested, approach her to the max!

[NotReadyPlayerOne]

We can't even tell if you guys are interested or not. And most of y'all are rude.

[Anonymous]

Yes because it's true that playing hard to get only attracts the d-bags. It takes 2 to tango, and you're both human beings with feelings, so each one of you is responsible for getting the rship off the ground. Not to say that the girl should be too available, but if she makes like a brick wall, the dude will assume she's cold and look elsewhere.

[spirit-savage]

This lady gets it.

[Costello_Rio]

Well, it depends what you mean by left you. If he stopped talking etc then sadly yeah. If he spoke to me about it, I would open up and apologise. But if he left for another girl, I would be confused lol

[spirit-savage]

This feels super honest.

[calialltheway1993]

yes, I do regret it. I regret it sometimes to the point I end up talking to the guy to try and get him back but I give up after days because he ain't worth my time, unless he crawls back just like how it all started lol

[BunnyToast]

I don't regret it. Because either the playing "hard to get" works or I didn't even like him to begin with, and he thought I was playing hard to get.

[salpal243]

oh yes very much sometimes. you miss out on a great guy that thought you werent into him. its sad

[Anonymous]

Nope. In the end I'm always glad I kept my pride.

[spirit-savage]

Aaand this, my friends, is how you stay single. Pride destroys relationships no matter who you are.