Girls do you sometime play the damsel in distress to get a guy?

[Anonymous]

Alight so i think this girl might like me. So this happend 2 times. She texted me saying her car won't start and that she wanted me to help her out. I told her "how about your dad?". Anways she kept telling me excuses (i think). Both times there was nothing wrong at all, excpect her car was leaking oil but that's about it. Both times when i went to her house she was like "In the morning it would't start, oh well. Wanna come inside?" I mean i'm a nice dude and always going to help people out no matter what and will come to her rescue but from what i saw, her car is ok even though it is old. I think she is playing damsel in distress

What's going on here, is she taking my kindness as a joke? I live 15-20 minutes car drive away.

[SweetDeeWannaBe]

Sounds like she is using you, or she very well could truly be making excuses. Is this girl hot, or out of your league? If so she might be stringing you along to see how much you will do for her. I say ignore her, or tell her no.

If she continues to text you, still ignore her. After awhile she will want you truly, or she is going to give up. More than likely she is going to want you, women like when men tell them no, or play hard to get.

[Asker]

She is good looking, I don't know about out me league. We went to school together and I don't know maybe she likes me. She invited me over a total of 10 times since school began. The last time she texted me for her car she sounded all cute and was like "my poor little car won't start, i need you help". So you say not to text her back? She did tell me she wanted to come over too, she came once and met my parents and were really nice to them. Also I don't know if you girls do this or not but all the times when i went over i don' think she wore a bra cause her boobs were out there lol. Again maybe at home you girl dont wear a bra I don't know, but again she's a good looking girl.

[SweetDeeWannaBe]

All I am saying is girls like a little resistance. I always thought it was normal that men would do stuff for me for no reason, until I was older and I realized they were just trying to sleep with me. You my friend, are in the friends zone. A girl who is truly attracted to a guy doesn't ask them for favors.

If you resist the urge to go after her and tell her no, she will start to go out of her way for you. She will question why you have stopped and said no to her. She will then try to attract you because she will feel like she no longer has control. Women, especially good looking ones, are the easiest to catch because they're so used to people doing stuff for them, if you tell her no, you stand out.

[Asker]

i'm in the friendzone? :( She even asked me if i wanted to come swimming with her this Saturday if the weather is good. So how can i get out of it? by not talking to her? So for her to like me, more than a friend, i must ignore her?

[Anonymous]

She's doing this to test your abilitys and see if you actually care? I would definitely do this to test a guy and see if he's actually a care hearted person who would sorta be like superman and save me.

[Asker]

ohh i see, so do you think she might like me? she invited me over again for this Saturday to swim with her.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm assuming she has some feelings and they are probably growing, so I'm going to say that's a yes. Get to know her and see where everything goes naturally with the two of you.

[Asker]

She told me she wanted me to see her car again cause it's making weird noises. But last time i was there it was fine except for the exhaust cause it was about to fall off lool. But i mean should i try and make a move on her? she does seem flirty when it's us two.

[Opinion Owner]

Take it slow, don't move to fast. Eventually moves will be made naturally without it being planned.

[Asker]

alreight, thanks

[harakiri]

LOL. yeah, i think she was doing that... i don't think i do that, i wouldn't want a guy to think i was dumb or weak. but this behavior isn't unheard of.

[Asker]

is this bad? is she using me? does she like me maybe?

[LittleSally]

Sometimes... but nothing serious or really planned.

[Asker]

is this bad? is she using me? does she like me maybe?

[LittleSally]

Not sure what she's doing here... Maybe she's not bright and knows nothing about cars?

[Asker]

well both times it started up fine but again has an oil leak but with all old cars it's like that, i did notice a lot of smoke so there could be an issue, but her dad would know this stuff i assume. We've been talking since th start of school and she does seem flirty sometimes.

[LittleSally]

Well... this one is on you to figure out. I really can't say for sure.
I'd have to see her and study her actions and movements, but mostly her facial expressions and body language.

[Asker]

she smiles at me and when i went over to her house she was more touchy

[Klaatu51]

" but from what i saw, her car is ok even though it is old. I think she is playing damsel in distress"<--- not a good sign dude... she considers u a fool more or less ;-)

[KDA20]

I have seen girls do similar.

[Asker]

Is this a bad sign?

[KDA20]

It is usually the girls personality - It could be anything from mild attention seeking to victim syndrome.

[Asker]

oh damn