Guys do you like girls who play ‘hard to get’?

[belle_x]

For example. A girl and guy are flirting a lot over text and something sexual comes up and so the girl says “your gonna have to wait” but in a flirty way and the guy goes “I will be waiting” in a sexual way too. I just didn’t want him to think that I’m easy to get and easy to fuck etc so I wanted him to think like ahh. Lol If you no what I mean. However, I don’t always play hard to get with boys it’s just this one guy cos he gets a lot of girls and does fuckboy things. The girls literally obsess over him and bumlick him and he knows I don’t do any of that to him I just keep it subtle lol. And so he is just used to girls who run behind and chase him but I can promise you I’m the only girl that doesn’t chase or run after him😂.

before anyone talks about my age I’m 17 and 18 in a few months :)

[serious]

Not about your question but the answer to your title question is a big NO. Talking about myself, I will never appreciate even making an attempt to play hard to get or playing any kind of mind games with me. I am very strict and intolerant with certain things and hence this is something that is unacceptable.

I don't need proofs and confirmation on this ( for certain things only) and for me careful observation and noticing her actions by the choice of words ( online) and if in real life her actions in person. That is enough for me. The moment I am confident that the woman is trying to play any mind game with me then the next instant she will be out of my life forever. It will not take a second to remove her out of my life.

Doesn't matter who this woman may be to me, even if she is just an acquaintance. There are certain things I will not accept and tolerate, means I will not. That's it. If a woman does that to me then she has to face the consequence for her actions. Simple

[bklynbadboy1]

Your 17 your right you should be hard to get. It's funny guys say they dont like girls hard to get but if your easy then your a slut or hoe. So continue to be you be stingy with it

[belle_x]

THANK YOU!!!

[jsincal]

Let me tell you a true story. I dated a girl that played hard to get with everything from the beginning to the end. I was young and dumb. I didn't know any better. But she did this thing where she would get me aroused and then not want to do anything sexual. After a while I stopped trying. Even then she didn't realize she primed me to not take her seriously when we were actually getting serious.

So she would have to try even harder to get he to stay hard. Again this was only with her. This did hurt her self-esteem. I suppose it was really Karma at play.

So do you wan't to be taken seriously? If so, then it's probably better not to play games.

After all, those who play games end up getting played themselves.

[belle_x]

when I mean sexually I meant like nudes. I’ve never sent them in my life and I would never but if it was sex then that is different :)

[jsincal]

Hmm... I see. I’m not sure if you’re from USA, but women have to play that role of not looking too easy. But for me I like a woman that knows what she wants. Someone that isn’t afraid of her sexuality.

We live in a society where men judge women for likening sex. And if women like it then they are considered “easy” when in reality She really likes a guy. I had great relationships from ONS and it never occurred to me that they were easy.

If you go to Nordic Countries (Norway, Sweden, etc.) women are actually more liberated sexually. And they usually make moves on guys because men hardly make moves. This is frustrating to women there. But they usually hook up and have ONS before a relationship. No one is ever though of as easy.

But since you’re dealing with a boy, there is a huge immaturity factor. And their brains aren’t fully developed. Women are more mature than men, beyond years. So you will be disappointed. In fact probably the lesson you’ll learn from this is never like a guy because other girls do. It’s really your imagination you’re attached to.

Now if the question is, are you getting the attention you want from him, then yes because you stand out like a sore thumb. And He will want it until you give in fully. But if you’re worried about being easy... he’s probably too immature for you.

[MrTuxedo]

I prefer not playing hard to get at all, but I've experienced many girls who played hard to get. Not over text or anything like that, but in person. And you know, exactly the same scenario you cited up there. Some girls who play hard to get can be difficult to get, but fun at the same time, at least for me.

All in all, I like it when girl plays hard to get, but not too much or for too long.

[belle_x]

yeah exactly. I do it playfully but not too much cos it’s annoying and would wind me up too aha

[MrTuxedo]

Don't tease him too much ;)

[belle_x]

lol I won’t :)

[letssee89]

No, I hate girls that play hard to get. I don't mind if a girl actually IS hard to get, but no need to play hard to get. I'm too old to play those games and I'll move on without a second thought.

[belle_x]

tbh I worded it but wrong I don’t play but I am hard. That’s fair enough, but if girls are full on we get called nasty names. Your ‘too old’ for those games but your 30 so lol that’s a bit accurate. I’m 17 almost 18 I think I’m doing well at my age :). But thank you for your opinion

[letssee89]

I'm too old meaning that girls my age that play hard to get, despite being interested. I'm too old to put up with that.

As for those nasty names girls get called (seemingly mostly by other girls), just don't jump from one relationship to another to another and you should be fine. If they still call you those names, just remember that they clearly aren't your friends.

[belle_x]

nooo I don’t get called nasty names by my friends or by anymore lol. I was just using an example

[LiamSawyer]

Just keep doing what your doing! You have a very mature and good outlook for your age especially in these current times.

[belle_x]

thank you!

[genericname85]

no, i do not. if you have standards, show me that you have standards and don't just randomly make it hard for me, cause i will count that as a sign of desinterest, no matter what your intention was.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes sounds okay to me

[thisisausername9999]

no thats lame

[Anonymous]

No. Dumb.