Why don’t a lot of guys think plus size girls are attractive? (Page 2)
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Because different people find different things attractive. The girl on the pics is attractive to me but we all know that not every plus size girl looks like her...
It’s her body shape
Every one in this world have some type they most like, so it depends on every single person... so you can't really tell if everyone likes it or don't likes it.
Moreover If one person won't find you sexy, thousands would! Never let one person make you insecure.
Can I tell you a secret? A LOT more men find plus size women attractive than will ever admit it in a venue where other men may see, because of the social pressure to perform sexuality in ways they can use to compete with other men!
Do you mean they are only pretending to like thin girls so they can compete with each other? I feel like I'm reading this wrong, but it sounds interesting.
It means they're attracted to a lot more diverse body types. Thin and fat and pearshaped and hourglass and athletic and dainty and short and tall etc. They have the capacity to be and ARE attracted to a lot of types. But they only TALK about the attractions that they feel are socially acceptable in their circles.
Don't really agree with all of that other than that we have a more diverse taste than believed.
Have only stumbled in to a handful that is in to it.
Disagree on this point.
On the other side some tends to ignore it when they are desperate, gotten feelings. even those that doesn't prefer but can go with it sometimes.
@MorticiAddams let's not confuse a "i would hook up" with finding them attractive
@crazy8000
To get fair L, if guys were attracted to types they don’t discuss openly with other men, then you wouldn’t know 🤷♀️😊
@VIVANT
No need to feel offended if you really did since it isn't meant to target you as a person or hurt you. 😉
Very few say it to preferred gender since it is seen as something you shouldn't do.
on the other hand many guy's say it in some way to each other just like girl's.
many humans say a lot of thing's/nonsense/white lies/leave out to the other one in the moment to trigger certain feelings that are preferable.
it's how our society works.
some doesn't fallow those untold rules and are seen as awkward odd funny.
You also have the effect that many humans have a tendency to mostly get surrounded with certain kind of individuals.
I like the girls on the photos, and I know many men who likes plus size women, question is... Do you like plus size men?
I'm not, but most plus size men I have found see it as normal and they don't give that issue so great importance, so, have you ever tried to talk with them?
Because it takes a lot of work to successfully have sex with such women.
I had to give up on a plus size girl myself I was trying to fuck because I just couldn't find her vagina. Her ass and breasts were huge. I just gave up during foreplay. Too much work.
I never thought about that issue of a big woman. I guess it could be hard to actually find her lady parts, especially in the dark.
Physical attraction is not something that we think about and then make a decision. Do you think that guys need to justify their lack of attraction? And if you don't like their explanation, then what?
That's what I've always thought. We don't decide which physical attributes or fetishes we like, it usually just happens.
Same reason women don't of guys lol. But for me personally, they can be, it just depends on the person (more to her than that). Also for me how attractive her face is. But I've been attracted to all sizes before. But there's also the health side of it. One of my ex's was a little overweight, and appearance wise as far as attraction, it didn't bother me at all, but I was concerned about her weight for her health.
But when you look at the media, you can't make the mistake of taking their views of "beauty" and what guys see/want. They are often very different, as with women and guys.
what's attractive about being fat?
why are WOMEN plus size models on the front page but MALE plus size models are nowhere to be found (i'm thinking feminists and their pressure on every media outlet in the USA)
She’s not really fat
compre her to someone like a Victoria's Secret model... she's fat "plus size " is a nice way of saying it.
just like when you call a fat guy a "strong fella"
Victoria secret models are starving themselves and they are unrealistically thin I’m sorry I’m just saying
and there is a middle ground between starving yourself and being unhealthily eating 3 Big Macs per meal...
Not all plus size models eat 3 Big Macs everyday wtf
not every day i said "every meal"
All I’m saying is that Victoria secret models are unrealistically thin and that’s making young girls starve themselves to look like them and it’s just destroying their body and health
and fat people are doing the same in the opposite direction : destroying their bodies and health all the while making people believe that fat is attractive... except it's not.
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forcing the world to see that she is beautiful is nothing short of insanity
I’m not talking about that crap I’m talking about real curvy women like the women in my post and the women in your text she’s not what I’m talking about she’s the type of woman to change the real meaning of curvy and I can’t stand that
The woman in your post is fat, her skin is more toned than the woman in my picture but both are fat. Deal with it
I’m sorry bud but you’re delusional
It depends on how many pluses actually. I prefer a woman with a full figure even sometimes one that others might consider a little fat but I'd be turned off by an obese one who can hardly get out of a chair
there are plenty of men who like plus sized girls. plus, females with fatter asses make smarter babies because there's more fat to help with brain development and making connections :).
Whoa where do they come up with this stuff
it's called science :)
Scientists just said the other day that breakfast is bad for you, what do they know
haha ok fair enough
be surprised how many actually do but don’t wanna get judged by their bro’s... that’s the #1 conflict... #2 just goes down to preference tbh... and what u like and don’t like
They don't want to disappoint what society expects them to go after which is the ideal female based on what media defines that to be. So, they talk down to plus size girls that more of them would've put in their pool of dating choices if society a. k. a the media or "daddy" didn't shun it.
Can you explain why 'the media' would do this? What do they benefit from this? Surely it would make much more sense commercially to encourage people to be fat so they consume more of your products? Or make whatever is the most common body type the ideal so you have the largest possible audience for your clothes or product? It makes zero sense to promote a rare body type when you are selling a product unless people already found that to be the ideal due to evolution. We are wired to find health attractive, there's no conspiracy against people who like food more than they like looking good.
i knew this smoking hot girl about 5 years ago. she's plus-sized (or what i consider) now and i have zero interest.
why do people think obesity is attractive?
What is her current weight?
@MissBollinger12 based on looks to high for me, but i'd guess 150ish at 22 when she was 115 when i knew her
Wow, that is a BIG weight gain.
@MissBollinger12 yeah, considering her weight gain started at 18. she gained 10 pounds a year and looks completely different. her mother is hotter than her lol
😂 lol
She is better looking for a plus size girl. Not every plus size girl looks like that
It’s her body shape
The reason is , in my opinion, most men usually find woman who are capable of maintaining a healthy body as stronger willed making them more attractive
+Evolutionarily speaking women with healthier bodies probably have "better" genes, aren't likely to have many diseases, making them naturally more attractive than girls who have higher or lower body fat.
Some feel like they aren’t pretty enough or would be looked at a certain way for being around them at one point it was me in life but now that I know my type of girl that probably would give me a chance I just learned to stay in my league with social groups and females and hopefully I won’t have to deal with alott more rejection then I already have I just understand now my preferences of females were a little to heigh so.
Neither of these girls are plus sized. They all look to fit into the normal size range. Plus size is what people who is really fat call themselves neither of these are fat but neither are slim either.
Because they are light minded people. Size don't matter to me. Personality do. And all girls are beautiful and attractive. You're as attractive as you think. So don't worry about what others think of you. Just enjoy the life and good company.
'Plus size' according to the fashion industry covers most adult females, and in any case, I don't believe your premise. Look around you. Most women find themselves a guy whatever their size.