Men are losing their masculinity in the west, is there a solution?

[Anonymous]

[englisc]

For society as a whole, there is no solution. Only individuals and perhaps small groups of men can solve this problem for themselves.

This is nothing new. People only think it is because they don't know their history, feminists especially. They want to shape the world based on the way they think it should work, and it's a whole lot of "why can't it work like this?". They think that it's never been tried, but it has. It always fails.

All cultures rise and fall. This rise and fall comes in cycles. In his book "Sex And Culture", social anthropologist J. D. Unwin wrote about his findings after studying thousands of tribes and civilisations of the past. He noticed this pattern, this cycle. The reason I say that there are no solutions for society as a whole is because no society in the past has ever been able to save itself from this.

Some people describe this cycle simply:
Hard times create strong men
Strong men create good times
Good times create weak men
Weak men create hard times

That's the cycle. In hard times cultures always become patriarchal. Think about any natural disaster you see happening today, who takes the lead to save people and get shit done? Who risks their lives to do that? Men mostly. The strongest, most capable men of course, not the effeminate pansies. Men are and always have been the ones to do this, even today in this society where we pretend that women can do anything men can do. The only reason people have such delusions is because we live lives of luxury.

So hard times, men lead, men protect the women and children. In these times people see that masculinity is highly necessary and essential to the survival of those people. Under this patriarchal culture, they eventually rise to success.

Once they reach success, they now live in relative comfort and a time of plenty, as we do today. Not understanding the above cycle, they think that progress is linear. They think that those old values are no longer important, and that anybody who still thinks that they are is "behind the times", again as you see so many people repeat. Now they devalue masculinity in men especially. In fact the leaders of those cultures would rather have men weak, passive, easy to control, because it makes their job easier.

However, those old values were what made those cultures successful. Remove that and the culture becomes weaker and weaker. Then the culture always dies out somehow. It either collapses in on itself, or is invaded by another culture sparking war. Chaos ensues. Afterwards the rebuilding of the culture begins again, the first part of the cycle - patriarchy.

I predict that this will happen in the near future in some way. What we won't see is any great awakening of the people before that happens, a return to sanity, or any of the changes people are proposing here which would be great, but which our leaders will not implement.

As a man, you can only really do this for yourself, and perhaps men who are receptive. Surround yourself and ally with strong men. The men in the video? And the majority of the men here? They're too weak and too far gone.

[Obtuse]

I think it'd be a start if they didn't apply such soft ways in school like giving bonus points for effort absent merit or participation trophies or discouraging boys from being boys. Nuclear families without helicopter parents would probably help a lot but it seems like a pipe dream at this point to expect more of those instead of less and less without intervening in areas like public education.

I've also seen a tendency for young people these days to associate dominance with tyranny instead of the traits of a leader and protector as well as competition to be a hostile activity instead of something that helps boys and men discover what they're good at. I think there needs to be taught (in schools if the parents won't teach this) that there are healthy and noble ways to be dominant and healthy and productive ways to compete.

[ecfresh]

One thing that would be helpful is more 2 parent households where boys and girls are raised with a father and mother. The girls will learn to respect themselves and have high standards in how men treat them and the boys will have positive role models in acting in a mature masculine fashion and how to better treat women. Women will feel safer embracing their feminine energy when they feel protected by an authentic and strong man.

[JackSmy]

Maybe a time of changes, and transitions, and both genders, and the others are learning to live and relate, in this current social structure.
Men 'losing their masculinity?' I doubt that, but maybe other's perspectives, on what 'male masculinity' is?

[Anonymous]

It's another reminder that it has been a common discussion among dating and relationship coaches, self-improvement coaches, that masculinity has been on the decline for several years now or maybe even longer, due to toxic masculinity or masculinity being demonized, several other factors, etc.

It's also another reminder that the way it looks like, is that becoming a man is a process, always has been, but for girls, women, transitioning into womanhood happens automatically, etc.

[Thatsamazing]

This guy's videos are utter trash. While he makes a few good points here about the fact that dudes who worship mediocre pussy are fucking idiots who need to never reproduce, his content is just so fucking stupid that I can't take him seriously.

[TheFlak38]

Yes there is a solution. Take womens rights away, take their freedom away and lock them in the kitchen. No more single mothers raising wimps and no more special laws serving the interests of women exclusively.

[9ncredible]

The solution is to take yourself less seriously. FFS. You sound like some particularly poor bit of Nazi propaganda.

[Asker]

What?

[9ncredible]

If you want to be masculine, be masculine. What other guys do is none of your business.

Besides, I can think of few things less masculine than lots of spoilt men from the First World running around panicking about men not being manly enough.

They should panick about not being intelligent enough.

[Asker]

Simps are rewarding women for bad behavior and it’s fucking up the entire dating dynamic in western society. Progressive leftist are claiming that masculinity is toxic. Testosterone levels are declining at a rapid rate. Society impacts my daily life... and yours.

[9ncredible]

You think men got laid more in the "good old days"? I doubt it. DNA shows that only 40% of men who ever lived passed on their genes. It's always been kinda brutal.

Still, depending on how picky you are, most guys should be able to find a mate.

[9ncredible]

Anyway, I've seen lots of brutes bragging online about how much they can lift, or how good they are at hunting or how little they care, etc. etc. etc. How does that help me?

Masculinity is just another competition where some guys succeed and others lose out.

[MannySimms]

Yes Antnee, there is. Blowjobs. Receiving good ones bolsters masculinity and always has.

NEXT IN LINE...

[Daniel3035]

True tbh I think the biggest issue as well is men on tinder who keep swiping right on girls like have some bloody dignity and stop acting so desperate.

[JimmyQ]

Stop electing democrats. You are killing yourselves.

[Tamera952]

They are? That’s news to me

[Lotusinwater]

The only solution is Odin 👌

[esotericstory]

Society has to become right wing again.

[DutchGuy12]

Everyone is turning into a pussy
Not only men

[maadison]

Feliz cumpleaños

[Asker]

No es mi cumpleaños

[maadison]

It was somewhere between the last time I saw you and today.

[Asker]

Lol my bday was in July

[maadison]

Exactly 🤷🏾‍♀️🎉😂 that's how long I went without seeing your name.. Solo acepta mi felicitación de cumpleaños

[Asker]

Jajaja cuando es tu cumpleaños?

[maadison]

June 12th, don't miss the day

[JuanFrank7]

#MakeMenGreatAgain

[stonerboner]

Move east.