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For 99.9% of human existence, sex was expected to result in pregnancy sooner or later (usually sooner), and given how short the average life span was, because of deaths from disease, hunting, war, famine, exposure to elements, etc., having sex and having children at very young ages was the norm, and men having sex with as many women as possible was also the norm - it helped widen the gene pool and make it less likely that one disease or genetic defect would wipe out ALL of his offspring.
It takes over 1000 generations (or, approximately 20,000 years for humans) before such base instincts adjust to new situations, so our instincts still reflect human existence from 5,000, 10,000, and 20,000 years ago.
The very same situations are what caused women to desire relationships and to be choosy about who she picked to father her children, and to care for him and motivate him to provide for and protect those children: because if she chose poorly, her children were much less likely to survive. They might starve, or get eaten by a large animal, or be killed or stolen by a rival tribe.
Just because we have a modern society with computers and satellite communication and so on doesn't mean we're above our instincts - our instincts affect us all every day whether we realize it or not.
Because men are biologically hardwired to have as many partners as possible. Men can, in theory, sire multiple children per day. Women can bear children every 9 months. So men optimize their chance of passing on their genetics by constantly going through women. Women on the other hand, prefer to have a stable mate since pregnancy is a considerable investment of time. Now, in becoming civilized, mankind repressed these animal instincts to build a society, but as that society breaks down we return to acting like animals.
quality might be most often said but im sure its more as long as the quality is average or more
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Where that is true it's usually because they just want sex and don't want to have to wait a month or two for that to happen. It's like asking why people go to McDonald's to eat when they could go to a gourmet restaurant. Sometimes you just want to eat with no fuss and no delay.
Some might argue they get quantity of quality. All I know is the women mostly chose me and who am I to argue with them. I was not going to turn down a woman based on being picky. What would happen if that average to below turned out to be the best thing that ever happened?
Because they figure that if they aren't finding someone that really sticks out to them, then maybe having more experience will improve their chances of finding that keeper.
Interesting
I'd prefer quality if she existed... Right now it's hard to find a girl let alone the right one :)
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Why do girls ask questions assuming facts that are not based in reality?
Same reason men are cranky for no reason I guess?
No one's cranky, unless you are.
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Always quality.. It took me until I was 29 to find my wife.
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Because sometimes we have to go through a quantity of women to find that quality one. Sometimes you just want to bust a nut. Sometimes he’s mad at women cause someone cheated on him. There’s a million reasons.
Because guys get rejected way more then women will ever realize
Who said they do, that’s immature guys. I’d rather one down ass chic and share awesome experiences with
Surely not applicable to men in general. Yes some men may be like that though.
If one acts up, can easily move on to the next one without a care in the world
That’s one reason. Another is that it could be sanity, safety caution situation. Not saying it’s ok to cheat. But what I mean by my previous statement is that, they could just be terrified of being hurt again. So, they get more than one girlfriend in case one hurts them, they have someone else to fall back on so they don’t have to deal with the emotional stress of a breakup. People handle pain differently from others. You’ll only know why they do what they do by figuring out what kind of person they actually are by understand their heart or just they way they deal with everyday life. Takes a lot of observation to figure it out.
Who says? I much prefer 4 hours of slow sex over getting off in 5 mins every 6 hours.
what makes you say that? I don't feel that way at all
Average number of partners men have compared to women in their life time
Most guys prefer quality, but get rejected more so they go with quantity. It doesn't hurt to have more pussy.
Same reason why girls prefer quantity over quality regarding of guy's wallets.
I'm s not hard. if your superficial. A real man only judges the Hart! But most just Lustful.!
Its natural the badest buck breeds all the does in the herd
I'd rather Quality over Quantity any day.
That's not true at all
I don't believe they do
Not true for me at all.
I only go for quality for everything in life
that's false...
I prefer quality
I prefer quality
I didn't know we did?
Most do
MOST
Yes.
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We don't!
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