Are you serious, you're over 30 and seriously have no idea.
Ok then here goes, he's developed feelings for you and knowing that you don't or can't reciprocate them he's distancing himself until the emotional response wears off and he can see you as a friend again.
He's met somebody who is fast becoming his world and he doesn't want to ruin it by making her develop the feeling that she has to compete with another woman even one who is a friend, women are the worst of enemies towards each other and jealousy doesn't care about rationality.
You screwed up in some way and he doesn't want to say anything while he's angry about it because he still values your friendship and he's taking time to cool down
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I'd say it's likely one of two things
1. He has strong romantic feelings for you, and seeing you with your boyfriend is soul destroying for him.
2. He is busy with someone (New girl) or something (Project or hobbie) and doesn't have much time right now.
Assuming you have been in a relationship for a while, it wouldn't be that, which could rule out him liking you romantically. Although maybe he only recently realised he has deeper feelings for you, that could do it.
Need more info really, like what changed between your last coffee with him and him avoiding you.
I think that it's pretty clear that he likes you. When you were single, he was fine talking to you even though he was into you. however, when he saw that you started to date someone other than him, that was a bit too much and he couldn't bear to talk to you anymore. because talking to you reminds him that he can't have you because you're with someone else.
i think i he might have feelings for you, but didn't want to risk the friendship
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he doesn't want to allow the confusion that it could go further
1) He might have started feeling for you and knowing you are in relationship, he is distancing himself.
2) he is just busy and you are overthinking
3) he might be hurt if he is sensitive kindaCould be busy
Maybe he started talking or hanging out with another girl he is interested in dating
Could have started to catch feelingsEither he had feelings for u
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He don't want to come between u n ur partner.There might be chances that he got to know he is in love with you and you are in relationship so he dont have any option except creating distance.
Clearly something did go wrong; you're just not seeing it
U married him or not the first scenario. If u r nnot it is quite possible for ur happiness he is making distance or he attract on another girl..
He knows you are in a relationship and thinks now you are busy with your boyfriend.
He either wants something more with you, or he found someone else he wants something more with. Either way, male-female friendships don't exist
He probably found a woman he's interested in
Maybe he likes you
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