What does it mean when a guy starts distancing himself?

[Anonymous]

Usually?

If they have liked you and they are distancing themselves CAN it mean that they got to know your personality more and didn't like it? Or does it usually mean they don't want to get led on..and all that?

Didn't like your personality anymore

Don't want to get led on

Realize its pointless to like you/stopped trying

Found someone else

Updates

+1 y

If they've already said they liked you and you told them you just wanted friendship

Updates

+1 y

So today he gave me a Christmas present out of nowhere and is back to being really flirty more than ever. I don't know how to react because Ialready said I just wanted friendship and accepting any of this makes me feel like I'm leading him on

Updates

+1 y

This guy just got really grouchy to me and seems to be avoiding me, the way he talks to me is like he strongly has something against me. How do you react to this? He was nice to be on friendly terms with but I feel like he has something against me now..

[ap1100]

I hate to say it, and I feel badly, but there was one girl I went out with after my biggest relationship ended. I liked certain things about her, but I didn't really like her. I gave her one or two dates like I would anyone else, but I dragged it on a few days after that, but with far fewer phone calls, texts, etc., because it was nice to have someone interested and someone to talk to every once in awhile. But it could also be he was hoping for sex and didn't get it and bailed.

[greenout420]

we just gave up but its not our fault that's just our nature were not very persistant creatures especially if a girl tell you she's wants nothing more than to be friends but we get over it and move on some fAster than others

[AmberChick]

I find it super interesting that 0 guys chose didn't like personality anymore, but 10 girls did... most guys chose C. So, they still like your personality but find dating you pointless. because? the girl says they want nothing to do with them. So, the girl gets to dictate the relationship or what? I am sort of confused by this haha

[AmberChick]

Because what if she says later that she wants you? Then, the guy doesn't want to put in the effort because she goes back and forth, I am assuming...

[smokahontas]

He gave up,doesn't feel like its going to work so why even bother.

[Anonymous]

it probably means he doesn't see a future with you

[music4life]

I totally agree with anonymous.

[blufrenzy93]

Regarding your update: he thinks it doesn't make sense to continue any "courting" since you've told him you want to be friends.

[emilyzenella]

well if you told them you just wanted a friendship then they don't want to be led on

[emilyzenella]

I would just say that even though you accepted the gift, you're just friends.

[anonymous_girl]

simply that they have stopped trying...

[Priyu]

he is not interested in you now

[Ugliness]

Depressed