Men, Would you rather have a in shape older woman or out of shape younger woman?

[AlongCameCindy]

So i asked this because on my poll of do men prefer older or younger women, younger women won by a landslide but i am curious how much this has to do with looks rather than other things, but if you had to pick a out of shape (overweight) woman who is young or older who is very into looking after herself who would you pick? neither are unattractive just one is more in shape and looks after her body better. Guys do you prefer older or younger women?

overweight young woman

in shape older woman

[The_Sword]

to generalise your question beyond your two pictures.. it really is going to depend on many unique factors to each guy judging. Firstly, some guys prefer voluptuous women, this used to be the ideal beauty standard. So it will always depend on personal taste in terms of the aesthetic attraction. Also its possible to get into shape, but it's not possible to grow younger: and this might be a fixed constraint on choice, because older women generally demand serious commitment sooner, and for many men, who might want a family some day, but are still developing their careers in order to be able to possibly provide for a family life, an older women is going to impose further complications to any life plans that require time investments. Younger women are more free to invest into their partners, because the extra time they have is a cushion against having to find a new partner, so the relationship is less constraining from her point of view. If family life is never what the relationship was going to be about, then all the stuff I mentioned is irrelevant: but sometimes, people like to be with somone where there are still open possibilities, the dreaming of more possibility makes a younger woman more attractive (if time poses a real constraint).

[Stockton]

I would rather have a older woman In Shape or not because young women ain't got no sense older women the brains work and tell you what that's a big bonus older women know what they want they've been to the circus I've seen the dancing bear they got no use for bullshit. Well most of them anyway.

[Anonymous]

Now I question how many are choosing the bigger younger woman because of her boobs I wonder if they would choose her if her boobs were only an A cup and not F or G cup

[Guardian45]

I think it depends on the guy

[sean1234]

I just want to be with a woman my age. If I was a few years younger I would have no problem marrying a woman a few years older. I mean she can still have kids, I do want a family after all. More realistically, I will probably be with a woman a couple of years younger, hopefully not too young.

[sean1234]

Oh and over weight is not attractive at any age. I find overweight women gross. Its no big deal, just eat right/ do fasting, go vegan and exercise and they won't be fat anymore.

[MannySimms]

For me it's "skinny fit" no matter the age. I've been with women who tipped the scales at 100 to 300 pounds so my opinion is based on research and objective.

[Anonymous]

Older vegan women tend to look much younger. And vegans are the only group who average a healthy weight. So the choice is obvious for me. Older.

If it's s choice between two meat eaters, one 50 years old caked in makeup, and one 20 years old but 200lbs, I would chose my hand.

[Opinion Owner]

Choose*

[kangy]

Lolllll

[LexyIsSexy23]

Vegan diet is not realistic for most people. That's Hollywood not suburbia

[Opinion Owner]

@Lexy a vegan diet is by far the cheapest diet by a long shot. All the cheapest foods are vegan. Rice, beans, pasta, vegetables, potatoes, oats, nuts, seeds, etc.

And the most expensive foods are meat, dairy and eggs. Utterly unnecessary for health and actually do a lot of harm.

And a b12 supplement costs a few cents per week. (Anyways supplemented to farm animals. Vegans just cut out the middle man.)

Vegans have by far the lowest risk of heart disease, stroke, diabetes, cancer and a ton of other stuff. I wouldn't to be sick that no matter how broke or famous I was. But especially when broke and not having money for treatments and time off work.

[Opinion Owner]

The proof is in the pudding. An estimated 15+ million vegans around the world. Unless we all work in Hollywood, your claim is false.

[LexyIsSexy23]

Look at the Midwest and South's vegan population compared to whatever coast your on.
I'm not being hateful the numbers are very, very different and I'm sure it's healthier but it's not even optional in many places. Go anywhere in Oklahoma, Kansas, ext,,, there's no vegan anything. You would have to go to a health food store or a grocery chain that's 10* higher than a average store

[Opinion Owner]

Show me one person in the western world with no access to a store that sells rice, breads, grains/flour, beans, pasta/noodles, vegetables, peanut butter, hummus, jam/jelly, potatoes, yams, oats, nuts and seeds, etc.

Vegan burgers are not hard to find and are also really easy to make from scratch.

Every human in the world with access to a basic food store and a simple b12 supplement can easily go vegan. And again, it's by far the cheapest food.

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you offering me Elizabeth Hurley? :) :) :)

What do you mean by "older" woman. I am 69 years old. I don't want an 87 year old woman who is in shape. As muchas younger women are physically attractive, I don't want a relationship with a younger girl; it wouldn't work and wouldn't be as satisfying as a relationship with someone in my age range.

My fiancée is 60 years old and that is MY younger woman!

[ZackBan]

Look in these specific cases I chose the older woman.
But generally speaking it depends on how out of shape and how old she is.
I don't mind overweight by I do mind very fat girls.
I don't mind older women but I do mind a granny.

[madgoat]

Funny. That 'older woman' really doesn't look very old to me.

[AlongCameCindy]

she's probably late 40s in that photo or early 50s

[madgoat]

She done well to keep her stomach in such good shape then.

[LEADFOOTboi]

Looks 30s to me... Not older than 40s

[beldath]

For most men, it's mainly about looks.
It is becoming more common for people to be more attracted to overweight women. I believe it's because that's what they grew up with, and there are far more overweight people than not.

[WalterBlack]

How much older? I'll go for the older woman if she is only a year or two older than me. Otherwise, I don't like either if these options.

[ohshee]

I think they are hot in there own way it has nothing to do with age it has to do with the way they see and feel about life

[Ripper_E]

I'm good with either if it's just sex
if we're talking an actual relationship it would depend on how much older, if a lot older, then the overweight young woman because I am also young.

[bamesjond0069]

Neither. Both are undateable. I find fat gross. And an older woman is not acceptable for a serious relationship. Now if you said a plain looking average young girl and a hot older woman id tell you the plain average young girl... in fact i had this same decision about two years ago and i chose the average 18 year old over the super hot 35 year old.

[kangy]

why older woman is not acceptable for a serious relationship

[bamesjond0069]

Yeah fat is not the same as not attractive. These results will not give you the conclusion you're looking for.

[bamesjond0069]

@kangy well id like to have 4 kids. So fertility is a top priority for me. I also dont like girls for serious relationships who slept with other people... most older girls have slept with more men than most younger girls.

[sean1234]

but ironically, YOU would be one of those older people the 18 year old was with.

[sean1234]

I myself in a grocery store at about age 28 came in contact with an 18 year old beauty, I thought she was too young for me and left.

[JamesBlackDragon]

She's overweight now but with the right motivation she can be in shape and the older woman is in shape now she can easily gain weight

anyway if I had to choose it would be which ever one is the better person

[SirRexington]

That in shape older woman is fine! Holy goodness. But I'd still prefer a younger girl who's out of shape. I like big girls.

[Lliam]

Without question, I'll take B. Plus they have more experience and know how to make love right.

[Anonymous]

even though she is older than me, it means she still keep the effort to be in a shape (and healthy), to "compete" to other younger women.
this is a respectable, admirable decision

[John_Doesnt]

A young woman can exercise, the old woman can't turn back time.

[EABsTUQ]

Both girls are cute. And the young girl could lose the weight but I'd pick the older gal based on the pics.

[Anonymous]

What part of if an older woman is. Extremely attractive like 9 and up she beats a regular and beautiful woman for a little while maybe even long enough to find love.
As long as she doesn't have surgery done. You need to be a selma Hayek or j lo or halle berry, marisa tomei level hot.

[alleng12345]

In shape all day. If you can't take care of yourself, then you don't care about yourself, and neither do I...

[kangy]

I agree with this logic

[worldscolide]

if i HAD to pick one, it go with the older woman.. But damn based on pics id want both.

[LexyIsSexy23]

🤣🤣🤣

[Itsonlyjustmee]

The older woman is Elizabeth Hurley I’m seriously surprised no one has recognised her

[LexyIsSexy23]

@Itsonlyjustmee no fing way? Noo😳

[worldscolide]

I knew it was.. So hot