Guys, Why am I so dense sometimes?

[Anonymous]

Am I the only girl here who chooses not to believe that a guy likes her. I was going over my chat log with this guy I'm talking to on Facebook and as I look back on it, this guy has liked me this whole time. I will provide the screenshots but I don't want him to see it. He wrote down, "I like u." My response was, "That's cool." Then he said, "great." When a guy says they like you, they mean they ACTUALLY like like you? And not just like you as a friend? When he said that, I assumed that he likes me as a person because I was nice to him. This was back in 2016, and I just got out of a relationship at the time. My ex and I broke up in 2015, and he wrote that 6 months after my break up. I admit that I was slow to pick up on it, and I'm just now seeing it. Someone told me I was naive.

[Plumizz]

Hahaha you remind me of my very younger self, I went back and I did somethint kind of similar. This girl was being all interested in me and shit and I was kinda rude cuz I didn't understand what she meant. Dont worry about it, it ain't the end of the world but yes if a guy says he like you high chance he meant it the way you think it is

[Anonymous]

Could mean anything.

Nothing in this world is black and white and one size does not fit all.

Just because one person might always mean like like when they say like doesn't mean that another person can't mean like when they say like.

Stop limiting yourself and other people with rigid and closed minded thinking.

[Avicenna]

You must be one of the oblivious ones. It's usually guys that are oblivious though.

[Asker]

Well, at the time, I was. I’m not THAT oblivious. Usually I can tell if a guy likes me, but it’s not easy online.

[Avicenna]

It's harder online, that's true

[winterfox10]

Lmao you're wondering if you're the only girl who does that? Honey, this website has taught me that your whole gender suffers from a more debilitating lack of self worth then I could have ever imagined. Like I honestly had no idea, and now that I know; everything E. V. E. R. Y. T. H. I. N. G. Makes so much more sense. Sometimes I have the nerve to be shocked about it too

[Cryptic-Game]

Maybe you don't realize dangerous situations easily.

[Iron_Man]

Beware of sex users befriending you for sex