Why are men so shallow and only go after beautiful faces and sexy bodies? (Page 2)

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Even they don't look that great themselves

seriouslyIf · Answer

Sorry to break your myth but biologically, both men and women go for bodies and faces and as a matter of fact, women are more lookist as you can see dating apps surveys. The reason why it appears it is only men who go for bodies and faces is guys are blunt, while women don't say directly about looks because they would be seen shallow by society. Besides, women's SMV peaks in their 20s, which is a short period after which it declines and since they have pressure to marry and have children soon, they have to ignore looks over resources which is more helpful in long run. Choosing resources over looks due to biological and social constraints, makes it appears females are less shallow.

Sorryfurries · Answer

I don't I am decent looking and the girlfriends I have had both looked good and had amazing personalities but I dumped 1 of them for cheating and the other dumped me because I had a large argument over a book (similar to a flat earth argument) so my girlfriend dumped me because I couldn't get along with her friend and we had been together for over a year. Holy sh*t women are confusing

RolandCuthbert · Answer

haha!!! Good ole' GaG!!!

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Women seem to be the same way... depends on what they're after. Just like a guy will drop cognitive standards for a hawtie, so too will a women drop physical standards for money or cognitive ability... depends on what they're after.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

It's the " eye candy " that initially entertains every human being's brain. The brain sends signals to the individual's genitals. The genitals send signals to that person's heart that starts  beating  because it thinks it's "fallen in love" and insists... "Follow your heart."  An ugly face or unattractively unfit body can't catch that kind of attention.

Anonymous · Answer

''Men are more visual than women. So while we're focusing on a guy's features, is he relationship material, and does he like us, men are mostly focused on how attractive we are 🤦‍♀️ ''

https://www.youtube.com/embed/aXQYWh3Ha0s

And yes, I know you said ''most men'' not all.

RedHigHeels · Answer

Those are the laws of attraction not relationships and testosterone is attracted to fertility... Male wiring in any species tells them to procreate. In the end its personality and then the rest... at least for a relationship

Poppykate · Answer

People like who they like! Physical attraction alone is never enough to hold a person’s attention long term... there has to be more substance. E. g. common goals/interests, compatible personality etc. 99.9% of people know this!

burlen · Answer

If men are shallow for going after physically attractive women, are women also shallow for going after tall guys? Are women shallow for going after guys with high economic status? Are women shallow for going after guys of a certain race or ethnicity?

risha196 · Answer

Not only boys but also girls want her boyfriend to be physically attractive as well... I think physical appearance is the first think you see when you meet a person... I mean you can't know about the person's personality at the first meet... So I think your physical appearance makes the first impression on people... But after getting to know about the person it's different thing... You can then judge them on their personality as well

Hermes-Paris · Answer

We're just wired that way. We are collectively working on improving it because we know it pisses women off. Our current mathematical models show that this particular trait of modern men should be bred out of us by the year 1,846,985.

mattmanyah2 · Answer

... I don't, why do women go after men with money/potential or looks? Maybe it's a universal to look at the people judge them based on wants and decide if you want them... Im very chritical of personality.

MalcolmNZ · Answer

It appears shallow but it is the way we are wired to attract a healthy looking partner to breed with. Just like woman look for providers in the main, security.

All comes back to our cavemen days. Us humans are pretty much on autopilot in life at times - along for the ride.

Christsdisciple15 · Answer

One thing I’ve noticed is that the standard for men is way different. You often see (conventionally) ugly men with (conventionally) attractive women, but rarely see the opposite. I’m not really sure why..

UncleJessieRabbit · Answer

LOL, here we go again with this "why are men/women so and so..." generalizing questions. Both genders are shallow. This is a joke. And are you saying that the guys in the pics aren't good-looking?

tye1984 · Answer

Sad that people make judgements about who’s attractive or not. Blind people are the only ones who truly get to know WHO someone is not if they are physically pleasing. Men do it cuz women do it every bit as much. Worse even. Consider this. Average females won’t look twice at someone their friends think are ugly to look at. Not one will approach the guy to bother even knowing his name b4 dismissing him as ugly. Bottom line is the shallow end of the pool is overcrowded👍🏻

MemeMaester · Answer

Why are women so shallow and go after money?

jazzyk55 · Answer

That’s just the way it is nowadays unfortunately- however I don’t really care too much about looks since they only get you so far - a kind guy who is okay looking is far more attractive than some dude who just wants to get physical

Bigg_Brother · Answer

I don't. I look deeper into them regardless of what they look like. Do the ladies want someone to treat better and show depth of emotion or do they want one to treat them the same as the last one?

"Even they don't look that great themselves"

Ugly guys love the hardest, act the quirkiest and have more depth to their themselves than they may appear. The girl in the first picture must have been sick of the way most men treat her, which is why she chose him instead.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I can recall countless woman that aren’t that pretty, wear a lot of makeup. Are short af, have no career  And only want tall, handsome & successful men.

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