Because looks are all most women have. We don't worry about financial stability, because women don't pay for anything. We don't worry about a sense of humor because we're the ones who are expected to entertain.
So what do we have to go on, other than looks, for judging a woman's attractiveness?
I've never heard a man say he needs a girl with big boobs, a thin waist and blond hair. If a guy said that, he would get a collective eye roll even from other men. I've heard men say they prefer blondes, but I've heard just as many say they prefer red-heads or brunettes. I've heard men say they like big boobs, even though that's also rare (saying they like fat asses is much more common). Mostly I hear women say men say those things, and it's probably because women like entitled men and men who are more demanding tend to get more attention from women.
I've DEFINITELY never heard a man say he needs a woman who makes him feel bigger. I've heard A LOT of women say they need someone who makes them feel small and effeminate. I've heard quite a few women say they need a guy who is at least 6' tall (14.5% of men meet that standard by the way). I've heard women be a LOT more open with what they "need" a partner to look like.
182 cm about. I'm in one of the two hundred logical countries on Earth that uses the metric system, and I haven't been here long, but the stated standard is 180 centimeters here (and men are even shorter in this country).
Well men can sexually desire a woman without knowing her and just based on pics. Women generally need to know a guy's personality how he behaves how he acts before desiring him.
They're not really that much, it's just a social message. Although it is true women will date more for status, I think if women of a higher status were willing to date men of a lower status you would see men dating for status too.
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As long as there is pussy and a good face she is attractive to a guy. Guys can see any girl attractive. Girls have higher expectations when it comes to looks.
Our prehistoric purposes were fighting tribal wars, hunting game and identifying fertile females. None of these have changed in 100,000 years.
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They aren't. Women are. If you've a female relative ask her to go stand among her peers & report back about the comments made about an attractive man. It'll be ten pages long.
Because most markers of female breeding success can be assessed visually. Youth, health, symmetry, ... But women are at least as influenced by looks as men, probably more so.
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To me personally you have to be visually attracted to someone to like them romantically however knowing a girls personality can make her more attractive I'm mainly attracted to faces and hair anything else but health isn't important
Because women like seeing us that way, it flatters them (yes, it does, yes, the vast majority if them other than the freaks).
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I am a woman and I'd say from my experiences we are more visual and judge a guy by his looks. "Is he cute? Is he hot? Describe! Show me a pic of him!!"
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Because looks are all most women have. We don't worry about financial stability, because women don't pay for anything. We don't worry about a sense of humor because we're the ones who are expected to entertain.
So what do we have to go on, other than looks, for judging a woman's attractiveness?
Bc they got in their heads that a girl needs to have big boobs a thin waist blonde hair. Thats the "norm"
You shouldn’t drink and type at the same time
What about being tall?
Tall for a girl or boy
Either
Lol i dont think wanting a tall girl is a thing
Kind of is
Dont guys always say that they wanna be bigger than the girl it looks kinda weird if the girl is bigger than the guy
I’m open to either height
I've never heard a man say he needs a girl with big boobs, a thin waist and blond hair. If a guy said that, he would get a collective eye roll even from other men. I've heard men say they prefer blondes, but I've heard just as many say they prefer red-heads or brunettes. I've heard men say they like big boobs, even though that's also rare (saying they like fat asses is much more common). Mostly I hear women say men say those things, and it's probably because women like entitled men and men who are more demanding tend to get more attention from women.
I've DEFINITELY never heard a man say he needs a woman who makes him feel bigger. I've heard A LOT of women say they need someone who makes them feel small and effeminate. I've heard quite a few women say they need a guy who is at least 6' tall (14.5% of men meet that standard by the way). I've heard women be a LOT more open with what they "need" a partner to look like.
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I’ve never heard a woman in real life who says she’s needs a man to be 6 feet
What is 6 feet in cms
Like 1.90
@ajc997 did you hear it in a dream then?
182 cm about. I'm in one of the two hundred logical countries on Earth that uses the metric system, and I haven't been here long, but the stated standard is 180 centimeters here (and men are even shorter in this country).
Like 1.82-1.83. About 14% of men are that tall. 1.9 about 4% of men are that tall.
Women are plenty visual. Isn't visual appearance the basis of attraction?
Well men can sexually desire a woman without knowing her and just based on pics. Women generally need to know a guy's personality how he behaves how he acts before desiring him.
@Mamamialetmego No , women can want some man they don't know
Good question— ask Mother Nature. That’s how they’re hard wired.
They're not really that much, it's just a social message. Although it is true women will date more for status, I think if women of a higher status were willing to date men of a lower status you would see men dating for status too.
As long as there is pussy and a good face she is attractive to a guy. Guys can see any girl attractive.
Girls have higher expectations when it comes to looks.
What about if she has a good body but ugly face? Or does it need to be the full package?
@jeb97xo Yeah just depends on the guy. Guys don't need a full package as long as she has one good thing in her appearance.
That’s how men are. It is natural. Men are hardwired to find beauty, gorgeousness of a woman appealing and attractive.
Our prehistoric purposes were fighting tribal wars, hunting game and identifying fertile females. None of these have changed in 100,000 years.
They aren't. Women are. If you've a female relative ask her to go stand among her peers & report back about the comments made about an attractive man. It'll be ten pages long.
Men's brains are hardwired to be more visual based because we evolved as hunters.
So we’re hunting women?
Essentially
It's the T. They are sexually driven.
A man's brain runs on facts and logic.
A woman's brain runs on feelings and emotions.
And ne'er the twain shall meet. ;)
What makes you think men are more visual? We all are the same on this subject. It’s just a stigma that men are more visual
Stigma? How’s it a stigma if it’s common knowledge
No idea, personally i feel like I'm more visual than a lot of men.
Why do you fall for a guy Alice?
Okay we will test this idea. Can you desire a guy sexually without knowing him just based on pictures?
Because most markers of female breeding success can be assessed visually. Youth, health, symmetry, ...
But women are at least as influenced by looks as men, probably more so.
To me personally you have to be visually attracted to someone to like them romantically however knowing a girls personality can make her more attractive
I'm mainly attracted to faces and hair anything else but health isn't important
Health isn’t important? Mental physical health?
Any else but health... Isn't important
We see how you carry your self and look before the way you are.
I don't think that's true.
Women seem to judge physical attractiveness more harshly than men do.
Because women like seeing us that way, it flatters them (yes, it does, yes, the vast majority if them other than the freaks).
I am a woman and I'd say from my experiences we are more visual and judge a guy by his looks. "Is he cute? Is he hot? Describe! Show me a pic of him!!"
Just are. Might as well ask why it rains. It just does.