Are men really more “visual” when it comes to attraction?

[SexyAshh]

[FamilyFreud]

When a man is staring, believe it or not it's often unconscious. The evolutionary mind of a guy is set to fixate attractive women. The reason for that is that our minds associate "attractiveness" with "fertility ", and it has been that way for thousands of years. You can see it as a "scanning" reflex to spot potential mates, which males from many other species also have. The use of it was to promote survival of the species. Although, even if we’re not on the brink of extinction, this behaviour has been passed down from generations to generations through "Natural Selection", from the caveman until now.

This can also be shown in the many speed dating studies conducted. With so little time to dive into interests, values, hobbies, etc. Attractiveness remains the number one factor that will determine if the person wants to proceed to a date beyond the speed dating. Still, men have a higher chance to be interested than women being interested, not because we’re ugly, but because women are less visual than men. If we look at Tinder statistics, men have a way higher "like" frequency than women. All that to show that men are visually more stimulated than women. On the other hand, women are more mentally stimulated than man. This explains why on one hand, male pornography is generally very visual, whereas female pornography is often found in books where women imagine scenarios and sensations. This also explains how a guy gets aroused simply by seeing his partner in her underwear, whereas a female usually takes much more than Calvin Klein’s underwear, but we will not dive into this discussion.

Now, evolutionary psychology is not a reason to be disrespectful, but even the gentlemen of this world will often stare at someone who’s attractive, but will resort to look away when he's consciously aware he's doing it.

Hope this is helpful and interesting!

[SmokyEnrique]

Sorry disagree, it depends on the guy

[SmokyEnrique]

Girls also like quick sex

[FamilyFreud]

You’re right, it depends, and there will always be exceptions. It’s It’s like saying some people don’t get lung cancer from smoking. Doesn’t change the nature of the cigarette causing lung cancer.

On girls liking quick sex, I don’t have the studies to back me up here, but I think it’s evident that it’s very less common than men. Again, from an evolutionary psychology point of view, girls had more to loose than men did back then. A guy could have babies with, technically, any numbers of mates that he wanted, while a woman had to wait 9 months between each. A male has been wired to focus on QUANTITY, while a woman was wired to focus on QUALITY. Now, luckily, things has changed from the uncivilized to today’s civilized. But that’s a strong reason why today’s women are still more selective on their partner than men are. Not to mention that a lot of women does the “quick sex” in hopes of creating something more out of it.

Again, yes there’s exceptions, but I answered the general question with a general answer.

Cheers

[amandeep017]

They are but at the same time they're not just looking for big boobs. Like have you ever noticed that some men would leave right after having sex, like right after they cum they're thinking " Ohh, I gotta get out of here.". Yeah, it's because they don't really like hanging out with them.

Post Nut Syndrome is real af.
Most of the time, men think with their penis and it's not our fault tho. We just have to sleep with you so that we could see for ourselves if we like you or not cause most of the times it's our dicks talking to us

[SexyAshh]

Lol i must have that syndrom then too😂

[amandeep017]

Really? Your dick talks to you too?
You must be getting some real good D

[SexyAshh]

Im saying i leave after because i dont care to hang out with them any further

[amandeep017]

I'm just messing with ya, Ik what ya meant😂🤭

[Rocky_Jocky57]

Yes and no.

Men, they fall into lust faster, the visual is what drives a man to want to get to know a girl. The gurls personality can also play apart, but mostly, for guys, if she can make his dick rise, she'll do. Thats why you see guys with many types of women, even, if you wonder why he is with.

Women, we are also visual, we usally won't give a guy the time of day if we don't find him to our preferences, however, to want to have sex and be ina relationship, good looks is just PART of the pie. Women, take a lot of emotional and almost spiritual level to how we want to make love with a guy, not just a quick lay. Those who don't fall for peer pressure, want to make sure the guy is worth taking such a hige step.

[SexyAshh]

By far the best responce. Yes yes and yes👍

[Rocky_Jocky57]

Aww thank you rorbthe MHO! ❤

[Rocky_Jocky57]

For the*

[brennanhuff]

sounds like you don't believe men are more visual, but rocky's point just exemplified how men are more visual than women.

[SmokyEnrique]

I disagree it depend on the guy

[nella965]

I have heard this stereotype a lot that men are more visual. However I am a woman and physical attraction is actually very important to me. I have to be attracted to him up to a 8/10 score in order to have a romantic relationship with him. So I'm just surprised.
On the other hand, I've had guy friends who didn't really need strong physical attraction with their gfs in order to pursue a fulfilling relationship. I think it really ultimately depends on the individual. You can't stereotype gender populations that way.

[SexyAshh]

Agree❤️

[brennanhuff]

that just sounds you're pickier on a man's looks, but not more visual based on lust. Guy's can get turned on very easily by a woman's curves. If women were generally as visual as men, the'd look up porn and not only look up porn. But would watching it and be turned on from the basis of the man's body causing the arousal or a big part. I see women who do watch porn say "it's the sex and all other stuff" and basically the man's body not anymore relevant than female body. Or female body looked at just as much as the male body. Plus straight guys will watch lesbian porn to see sexy women going at it and more breasts, pussy and ass to look at and be aroused by. It seems like it's a minority for straight women to look at gay porn and actually more "straight" women look at lesbian porn.

[nella965]

@brennanhuff If you weren't visually stimulated at all, you wouldn't be picky about how a man looks. You can go out with an ugly ass guy and you wouldn't care. Women get turned on differently but it doesn't mean that I am happy dating some guy that I'm not attracted to. There is a reason why we are picky.

[coachTanthony]

Men are very visual when it comes to attraction but I don't care how attractive you think you look... if you have an ugly heart then all that goes out the window.

[SexyAshh]

True!

[soleil2666]

Which is another way of saying no different to women

[FriedPickles1218]

Pffff. Sexy ash...

Why are you even asking this question? Your like the definition of hot but with an ugly heart. I've seen you on here plenty of times. You make rude comments and put other people down.

[SexyAshh]

If you can't handle handle brutal honesty thats not my problem. Have a good day now🌹✌️

[ElissaDido]

I think men are more visual but also men have more relaxed taste in women.

A man can find different types of women attractive and they don't seem to focus a lot on each particular feature but rather on the whole look.
Whereas women, we care less about beauty and are less visual BUT we have stricter taste when it comes to looks.

[SmokyEnrique]

Stricter taste

[Apope16]

Oh god yeah. Visual shit makes me hard as fuck.

Visual, touch. So hot. Sound too.

[SexyAshh]

Sounds turn lots of people on. I know phone calls just hearing guys voices im into can get me off

[Apope16]

I think girls are most into sounds but guys visual. Like your profile pick is a good starting point for blood flow and throbbing of my vein. Sounds dont do it for mr. Its visual appeal the most. I used to call phone sex numbers and never got off. But i do know that I moan when I cum and women go nuts. Plus I have a low voice. I do like a women saying loving ir sweet things during intimate sex. Thats a turn on. So its more what you say.

[sejla]

I think men are very visual but I think a large percentage of women are too just more discreet.

[SoniaPinky]

Most popular and most common thing that I often hear from girls,
I literally never feel any sort of sexual attraction towards a guy based solely on looks. I don't check out random strangers or anything like that. I only feel attraction towards guys I have the right chemistry with. I can look at a guy and acknowledge that he is conventionally attractive, but I don't feel attracted.

How can girls not like men overally physically yet still say they are attracted to MEN?

Guys feel unresponsive/nothing when do we see chair, table, pen, bag, shoes and other neutral objects. But when do we see our opposite sex we experience sexual attraction (had a physiological response eg. Blushing, heart fluttering, pulse racing) to anyone we consider 'attractive'. Women also say they feel nothing. When do they see chair, table, pen, bag, shoes and other neutral objects and also their opposite sex they feel nothing. They can detect the objects, that's it. If there is no difference between seeing neutral objects & seeing opposite sex then how do a woman get aroused by a man? If women are blind to visual attraction they how do they know about their sexual attraction?

Before meeting this stage how did you find out whether you are attracted to guys or girls, how did you find out you are attracted to sexy guys or ugly guys?

Women have to walk up to some guy and carry out a conversation only to find themselves suddenly attracted to him? If women aren't visual then in which way women are different than demisexual?

[sejla]

@SoniaPinky I have attractions all the time. I call them momentary crushes that might only last a minute or two. I do not have these when I am in love with a man. My blinders go up. I can have an attraction and that is all it is because the person is married, not my personality type, has some sort of red flag issues, too young, too old, etc. Since I don't do casual I just keep myself in check.

[sejla]

It isn't always about the man being handsome but maybe a smile or a mannerism

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Somewhat - most of them are, personally I'm not really visual but I know the majority are.

[rjroy3]

Guys and girls both have traits in a priority list that's specific to every type of relationship. The only real difference is the priority order. Guys have looks higher on their list than girls have on their list. Looks are basically top 3 for sexual partners, girlfriends and just dating interests. Looks fall lower when it comes to friends or looking for a woman to be the mother of his future children. But it doesn't fall very far.

For girls it might make top 3 if she's thinking just a one night stand or a friends with benefits. But by and large several other traits are above looks for women. I'd say for the most part girls have specifically physical appearance more like in a Top 5 or Top 7 list. They might have different things they want a guy to have like a height/skintone/deeper voice. Traits that fit a certain category they like, rather than a guy being more good looking than the next. Like a girl will much more likely pick a guy who is more her "type" than to pick a guy who most would say is more attractive but whonisnt her type.

Guys are far more likely to pick a hotter girl over another girl even if that other girl is more his physical type.

[ADFSDF1996]

Indeed we are.Ever wonder why...
1.) Men get turned on by women in revealing clothes
2.) Men have all kinds of unusual fetishes about women’s bodies (Navel fetish, foot fetish etc). While most women don’t have any unusual fetishes for men’s bodies.

3.) Statistically men watch porn more than women

4.) Men lust after women’s bodies but women don’t list after men’s bodies.

5.) Women rarely make the first move on guys

6.) Women don’t ogle men

7.) Women don’t get wet or sexually aroused by men in revealing clothes.

8.) Men are more willing to perform oral on women than vice versa.

Yeah, in general have done very little to prove that they are just as visual as men are. Except for a few studies here and there. Women are visual just no where near as visual as men are. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/universal-desire-men-and-women-respond-identically-to-erotic-images/

A woman’s visual nature is like an amateur BJJ practitioner at a local bjj gym, while a man’s visual nature is like a Olympic gold medalist BJJ practitioner. There’s a big difference there.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/A9WZFeA4FzIhttps://www.youtube.com/embed/dlZsGpWJmos

[SexyAshh]

Lol this was very insightful and true

[Screenwriter]

1.) Women get turned on by men in revealing clothes
2.) Just speaking personally, I love men's shapely legs and a curvaceous butt. Strong forearms are a turn-on too. Many women cite biceps and chests and six pack... I think women have "fetishes".. but are less vocal about them.

3.) Statistically men watch porn more than women. The porn men watch is made by men FOR men. Though there are some women doing porn.. they too are making it for male audiences. If there were better actors and storylines more women would watch films that have hardcore sex in them ALONG with a plot, not hardcore sex for the sake of it.

4.) Women DO lust after men’s bodies. We talk about men's bodies all the time.

5.) Just because women rarely make the first move on guys has nothing to do with how visual women are. Women have to be more careful in their choices because men CAN be physical threats to them. This is rarely the case the other way around.

6.) Women do ogle men. They are very careful about doing it.

7.) Women do get sexually aroused by men. Sometimes they're in revealing clothes, other times it's their faces, voices, the way they stand or move.

8.) Women performing oral sex on men, again, has nothing to do with women being visually stimulated by men's bodies. Women, again, have to determine which men are safe to date, get to know and eventually have sex with. It takes more time with women. They have more to lose.

[ADFSDF1996]

@Screenwriter There’s always exceptions.

[Screenwriter]

What I'm saying is, this is NOT the exception. These are the rules. Women notice men's bodies, we talk about them all the time, we are turned on by them. We talk about how turned on we are about men.

[ADFSDF1996]

@Screenwriter Only some women do.

But for most women, it takes a lot more to get them wet than just a picture of a guy in a speedo.

[Screenwriter]

Since you are not a woman, I defer to my long experience and talks with women to get a more general view of what they share with each other. You are mistaken, sir.

[ADFSDF1996]

@Screenwriter It’s understandable for most men and women to keep quiet about their sexual interests in public.

But online where they are protected by a few layers of anonymity, only men seem to be more about their sexual attraction towards women. While women still deny feeling any sort of sexual attraction towards men, despite also being protected by anonymity.

[Screenwriter]

There are issues I won't discuss about sexuality even UNDER the veil of anonymity. I think many women feel the same. I had some guy probing me about a sexual issue and I refused to discuss it with him because it's private and I don't discuss it with anyone who is not a close friend. Some personal rules are rules.

[ADFSDF1996]

@Screenwriter Almost nobody discusses sexual issues. But that’s not the point here.

Why are guys more likely to talk about their kinks than women?

[Screenwriter]

A "kink" is also a sexual issue. Unless it's something innocuous, I'd be loath to mention it either. Maybe guys are bragging about how kinky they are. It's more manly, or such. You talk about that, guys are attracted to it like flies... Oh, she's a super freak... Lemme talk dirty with her... Not my slice of pie.

[ADFSDF1996]

@Screenwriter I’m not specifically referring to this site. I’m referring to other websites where people post kinky content. It’s very rare for female users to express their lust in the comment sections.

[Screenwriter]

I agree with you there. Unless posting anon.

[ADFSDF1996]

@Screenwriter They are all anon.

[Screenwriter]

Well, they may have the same opinion as I do. Even when posting anonymously, they're not going to reveal certain information they consider too private.

[ADFSDF1996]

@Screenwriter Using an anonymous account to acknowledge that certain types of erotic imagery on those websites doesn’t infringe on privacy.

You say that it’s a matter of “privacy” but in reality it’s the simple fact that simple imagery of the male body does nothing for female sexual arousal.

[Screenwriter]

And if you do post such kinks, even anonymously, a woman will be inundated with men seeking to have discussions about their kink or other sexual discussions. Few want to invite this kind of response. I don't post such stuff but every now and again I get a follower saying Hi who seeks to ask a question and invariably it's some sort of explicit, raunchy sex question. I simply preface everything with I don't chat about explicit sex questions. It 's entertainment/turn on for guys moreso than for women. Sort of word porno. THAT's what's different for me. I generally don't get turned on by talking about sexual things. Visually yes. Talking with a strange guy, mostly no. I need to have a RL connection.

[ADFSDF1996]

@Screenwriter Many of these websites allow users to turn off private messaging and comments.

The only other possible explanation that could support your claims of women being just as visual as men is that many women in these sites pose as males to express their lust more freely. But I seriously doubt that.

[Screenwriter]

I've got no issues with private messaging. But if I haven't solicited sexual questions, why would someone ask them randomly? My life experience BEING a woman and having sexual discussions with women is what supports my claims. Knowing that women like sex with men. Knowing that women like good looking movie stars/boyfriends/husbands... Otherwise, they'd never bother being with attractive men. It's clear you simply don't believe this, so I give up. Good luck...

[ADFSDF1996]

@Screenwriter Then why do statistics show that women prefer to watch lesbian p*rn?

[Screenwriter]

That survey wasn't done by a reputable statistics group. It was done by a porn site! Maybe the women who frequent that site watch lesbian porn. Straight women I know don't. I don't either. And there is the point that women might seek fantasy in their porn choices where men may not. Or they may choose less threatening porn... There is no study of why women would choose lesbian porn over straight porn. There are far too many variables to consider that have not been explored.

[ADFSDF1996]

@Screenwriter If most women truly desired the aesthetics of the male body as much as you claim they do, then most women would be watching gay porn rather than lesbian porn.

I’m not denying that you and your friends like the male body but again you and your friends are merely exceptions. In fact, the second highest porn genre watched by women is “gay male”. But that doesn’t change the fact that every nsfw website from Deviantart to fetlife is full of women who could care less about the male body and instead lust after the female body.

And who ever said men don’t experience fantasy, of course we do. Why do you think kink men have all sorts of unusual kinks?

[Screenwriter]

You just said the second most viewed porn that women consumed was gay porn. Are you correcting yourself now? Yes, I have watched gay male porn. And I was just watching the Las Vegas rodeo finals. What a display of macho men in tight jeans. And again, Dennis Prager is NOT a psychologist, and he's offering his opinion of why men look at women etc. I wouldn't base much on his opinions. If you had a collection of women you were close friends with who honestly spoke to you about sex, you'd hear more of what I'm talking about. It's unfortunate you don't. Women DO look at men's legs and bodies and body parts. Some more than others, but all women look. When we're busy or distracted, we don't look as often as men. Platonic female friends who trust you will tell you this. Make some and learn! They will be invaluable to you. Good luck.

[ADFSDF1996]

@Screenwriter Who’s to say those women who watch gay porn don’t also watch lesbian porn?

I trust Dennis Praeger over most psychologists, considering that psychology is prone to politicization.

[Screenwriter]

Watching two men together has little in common with watching two women together. I've done one. No interest in the other.

[ADFSDF1996]

@Screenwriter No, what I’m saying is how are we supposed to know that all the women who watch gay male porn in those statistics don’t also contribute to the number of women who watch lesbian porn in those statistics.

[wingattebaby16]

yes... 100% accurate..

guys see better than they can think.

tbh, at the beach or the pool, guys are gonna notice that sexy curvy girl in the bikini before they notice the chubby mom in a one piece wearing a hip wrap.

Women's clothing reveals a lot.. it is made to show off our figures; hips, butts, thighs, boobs, and most of it is tight, so guys can see our lady parts molded in a tight dress.

they will judge and ask out a pretty woman way more than a skinny petite stick girl or chubby girl.

[SexyAshh]

So true girl❤️

[lightbulb27]

How can we possibly compare to a female, we only know ourselves. As well, I'm not sure if that is "baked" in or if it is cultural training. e. g. an early thing I noticed was "bugs bunnys" girlfriend... check her out... she was HOT!:) It wasn't about her personality, but curves. I responded to that... baked in or trained? I think we are different in that we "objectify" things. Maybe that goes back to our "hunter" type focus? Our common thoughts are "she looks good".
But after we get smacked in the head a few times, we start to wisen up and I've never been drawn to the really attractive ones, I like certain personaities. A very attractive female can bomb out very fast just by talking or how she carries herself. So action and character dominate, but attraction is still of course important.

If a guy says to another guy..."hey my new girl is really smart and kind" everyone assumes she looks homely:) So I'm voting yes on this, but it is more the start, not the only attribute:)

[SexyAshh]

I would assume she looked homely if that was the way described as well🙈

Thats why i stick to the three S’s

Sassy, smart, sexy.

[lightbulb27]

those are good S's, would work for a lot of guys. Id go more... to some C's...
Classy, Character, Charisma, Integrity, Sexy, Smart

[SexyAshh]

Id say im most of those

[Old_-_Soul]

I am going to give a personal and mixed response.
I read the answer @FamilyFreud gave and very much agree with why men are attracted to certain women more than others.
I am going take the answer to your question to agree on looks being Major in what attracts me, and add the idea of identical twins walking into a room with all things being equal to the eye about them. There is only one difference between them. One is very confident and comfortable with herself and the other is utterly awkward, with no confidence whatsoever. Sitting equal distance from the entrance and equally visible to those in the room; the one who is confident in herself will have more men both eyeing her and moving over to talk with her. Her twin who is awkward will primarily attract guys who want to control her AKA a very unhealthy relationship.

Are men attracted to looks, yes. The looks will catch the eye, the woman's self confidence is what will get her more than a one night stand.

[Sensmind]

I honestly have no stats to back it up but my guess is "Yes" - In the analysis of erotica, the belief that men would be more visual, straight into the action whereas women may go for stories with plot, build up to the action then action so that suggests there maybe an appetite for instant visual gratification but with maybe experience?/maturity?/compromise? men go down the road of exploring more patient gratification/exploration/experimentation/attraction principle, many men go on to enjoy that journey.

[5points2gspot]

Yes I believe they are.. I was in a store & some guy said I was fine & wanted my # to date me.. Asking questions about me to my roomie if I was single n what not.. But like okay you don't have the slightest idea of my personality.. But you wanna date me? 🙅🏼‍♀️

[SexyAshh]

Lol it happens to the best of is girl!❤️☺️

[SoniaPinky]

Most popular and most common thing that I often hear from girls,
I literally never feel any sort of sexual attraction towards a guy based solely on looks. I don't check out random strangers or anything like that. I only feel attraction towards guys I have the right chemistry with. I can look at a guy and acknowledge that he is conventionally attractive, but I don't feel attracted.

How can girls not like men overally physically yet still say they are attracted to MEN?

Guys feel unresponsive/nothing when do we see chair, table, pen, bag, shoes and other neutral objects. But when do we see our opposite sex we experience sexual attraction (had a physiological response eg. Blushing, heart fluttering, pulse racing) to anyone we consider 'attractive'. Women also say they feel nothing. When do they see chair, table, pen, bag, shoes and other neutral objects and also their opposite sex they feel nothing. They can detect the objects, that's it. If there is no difference between seeing neutral objects & seeing opposite sex then how do a woman get aroused by a man? If women are blind to visual attraction they how do they know about their sexual attraction?

Before meeting this stage how did you find out whether you are attracted to guys or girls, how did you find out you are attracted to sexy guys or ugly guys?

Women have to walk up to some guy and carry out a conversation only to find themselves suddenly attracted to him? If women aren't visual then in which way women are different than demisexual?

[Guardian45]

Yes, we see you, react first. Later, we reassess & modify our behavior.

[davids88]

@SoniaPinky Tinder is the best way to test how visual women are. Women are just as visual as men but they never show it and struggle to hide the fact that they are just as visual as men because of dating apps and sites.

[soleil2666]

Just the same as women do

[brennanhuff]

@davids88 Tinder and Bumble can mean it's looks, but not completely, it depends. You can have very handsome guys not do well because their profile is bad and average looking guys do alright because they have a really interesting profile. It's hard even when trying to stand out as a guy even if a profile is witty with good pics because there are so many men on them and the ratio of men to women. But I've had matches, and likes, some not so cute, some fat, but others very hot but very sporadic and why I think location is key too.

I think dating apps are best for guys using who live in a big cities. If you live in a small city, the number of women is just not that high. I've had some where it seemed to go well and still have never gotten a date from it. Many guys seem to have the issue of getting a date. But yet irl, not talking to a girl, I've had enough googly eyes, flirting, being checked out, from very cute/pretty girls and hot girls. Not to mention people mention in a matter of fact manner of me being handsome, yet like I said online dating hasn't worked for me, but I do live in a small city too. If I was "average" that wouldn't have happened and all the other stuff.

[FakeName123]

Yes. Man's main purpose in procreation is to find a woman who is healthy and fertily (which is why most men prefer younger women since it combines the two). Judging a womans health and fertility can be done pretty accurately on visual sight.

Women on the other hand do have to worry about protection, providing, etc. - thus their sexual attraction is less visual and also can be influenced. There are several studies showing how social status of a man makes him more or less attractive to women. So does money. Doesn't work the other way around, though. A woman could be a billionaire or a secretary and it makes no difference of her physical attraction to men.

That's also why men consume more visual porn while more women read porn. Erotic novels are pretty much solely purchased by women.

[heavensgift2girls]

Men are clearly more visual. Women care about looks too, but they also care about things like his education and job, etc more than men do. Those things don't generally make a woman more attractive to men. This is why women are constantly shocked that her career and income don't make her more attractive to men, the way a career and income make a man more attractive to women.

[SexyAshh]

Im never shocked about that. I've dated enough well established men to know they dont care🤷🏼‍♀️ some do though, hence power couple

[AlmondSoup]

110% Yes. Initial attraction to a women is 100% visual and physical. After that you can build something emotional within a relationship, but it NEVER works the other way around. We never somehow get emotionally attracted to a girl with no physical attraction then somehow come around. It 100% starts out visual and usually the very first time you see them👍

[SexyAshh]

This is same for girls, but sometimes we dont find someone attractive but something about there aura makes them way hotter. Its weird.

[AlmondSoup]

You say Aura, but all it really is is how a guy presents himself... confidence, passionate, motivated, driven, positive... that's what makes the difference between just being hot and being hot and attractive.

[SexyAshh]

Thats the same for women though? Our minds think a lot more alike then y'all would think

[AlmondSoup]

I never said I don't think girls are the same. I absolutely believe they know within seconds of seeing a guy if they are physically attracted... girls just tend to want a little more emotional involvement early on. Guys can tend to hold off on the emotional portion for a little longer.

[SexyAshh]

Lol maybe thats why i get along with men so well,. Usually they spill emotions to me eventually because i never show any🤷🏼‍♀️ I've been told im aloof, indifferent

[Oram52]

Both genders are visual. If women weren't visual then why would male attractiveness have any impact? Wouldn't we see mismatched couples when it comes to looks? Research is also proving it to be true. Online dating is clear proof.

If you adjust for money and status, looks are as important to women as men. Proving women are also visual.

Would you date or hook up with a guy who is considerably less attractive than yourself.

[Piteka5]

Yeah it's true there's still individual differences but overall, it's more women being more psychological than men being visual I would say. Studies show that things like erotic stories have a way greater impact on women, and not on men, for example. Also, when it comes to feeling betrayed, women answer that they feel betrayed I their man thinks of other women, while men say they feel betrayed if their women actually goes out with other men. As always, not everyone will say that, but the results were solid and the studies were published

[serious]

Yes we are. We men are visual when it comes to attraction. Anything that doesn’t physically appeal to our eyes and mind we won’t find it attractive.

Sure there will be men who would be exceptions to the above sentence but I am not referring to such men.

[hollowo]

Yeah looks do matter, for most of us, as per one's preferences. It's a basic thing to get into someone and then comes interacting to get to know one better.

As always, there are some exceptions as for some people give more preference to how the girl would be as a person.

[Impalitteri]

Initial attraction is visual but as @coachTanthony said, once you show that ugly personality your no longer attractive in the slightest. Physical attraction can disappear as quickly as it occurred.

[SexyAshh]

Id say this depends

[Impalitteri]

yeah, I mean it depends on the person of course. I personally can't tolerate anyone who would belittle or think themselves above others.

[SexyAshh]

Depending on the hotness of the girl or how good sex is, i know from experience guys will endure a lot

[coachTanthony]

Men will endure a lot if they are super hot... High Value Men won't put up with it for very long.

[SexyAshh]

Must not be very many high valued ones then🤷🏼‍♀️😄

[Impalitteri]

I don't participate in casual intercourse. If there is no connection it is not enjoyable for me, reguardless of how hot she may be.

[coachTanthony]

@SexyAshh I thought I responded to this lol You are correct there aren't that many high value guys out there. 100%