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When it comes to lust, yes. It's our "hunter" instincts to seek with our eyes.
Why is everyone so misinformed that women are any different?
I have pictures of hot guys saved all over my computer. Its not only men that are like that.
An aesthetic appreciation that never extends beyond the boundaries of your imagination is very different from an actual physical hunt.
Most of us are afraid of these "physical hunts". Both guys and gals.
Correct, but the nature of that fear is different. If a "hot guy" offered to bang a random girl, she would likely say no. But if a " hot girl" offered to let a random guy bang her, he would likely say yes.
Girls are largely aware that about 70% of the guys they see every day want to bang them. The only reason it doesn't happen is because girls are afraid of it happening. The thing guys fear, however, is rejection.
Thats because you don't understand the reason why women don't want to have sex with random guys. Its because girls don't like empty sex. Girls want to be loved, and valued as individuals. Guys will bang absolutely anyone. All he just want is some relief from their horniness. Most guys that are obsessed with sex don't get to be picky. They have hard enough time finding 1 person to bang.
And you're wrong about girls not wanting to bang a hot guys. I knew of a hot guy who just broke up with his girlfriend. He has a line of girls who want to bang him. He tells them that he doesn't want a relationship yet and they were all ok with it.
Whatever delusions that you learn from the media is all false. Nothing from the media is true
You seem to be thinking that we're disagreeing about something? I wasn't attempting to explain why girls don't like "empty sex," but rather pointing out that they typically don't as an explanation why a purely aesthetic "hunt" would be meaningless.
I'm just explaining to you the details that you don't know about. Its not an ego fight or based on who is right or wrong. But this fake delusion that girls don't need sex or that girls never chase hot guys, girls don't care for hot guys... needs to stop. Nothing the media says is true.
Okay, but that has so little to do with anything I said, I guess I don't understand why you chose my opinion to go off topic with.
Because I think there are many people out there who are clueless about these things.
I doubt many clueless people read my opinions, let alone the comments under them, but okay..
Well one of these clueless people were you but you just wouldn't like to admit it.
Oh, I wouldn't say clueless. I just find it easier to take trolls at their word when there is no evidence that it matters.
Its never easy to admit that you didn't know something.
Only for those who are insecure about their ignorance.
"Girls are largely aware that about 70% of the guys they see every day want to bang them. The only reason it doesn't happen is because girls are afraid of it happening"
Girls aren't afraid of anything. They're just turned off. This is why I corrected your misunderstanding.
Grow up
Eh. Poor choice of words, I guess. But I tend to use "afraid" for just about everything that isn't boredom. And while you could switch gears again and say it is boredom, I guess I still don't understand what you are trying to accomplish here.
ok. Just like I had sensed, its very obvious that you're just an immature child who can't admit he's wrong. Not gonna waste my time with you anymore.
I love admitting I'm wrong, when I'm proven wrong. But random internet trolls who can't keep their stories straight are rarely credible. Sorry. Not sure if you're trolling on purpose or just have somehow managed to live your whole life without anyone brining up the possibility that you have no real authority to speak for anyone besides yourself, but I guess it doesn't matter either way.
This is entirely untrue.
I have, and out of say 7-8 times, 6 ended in us having sex.
You're dreaming up constructions and rules that only exist because people subscribe to them. It's not evolutionary or natural in any way (just as 'the two types of guys, one you bang the other you marry' dichotomy is - young girls hear it somewhere and start to think it's wisdom.
@nella965 That part is also not universaly true - in my case, being good looking and starting to be interested was enough of a reason to have sex. And it wasn't making love, it really was just mediocre sex, nothing wild - but both sides were happier to go there than spend the night (and then some more of them) alone.
@nella965 Indeed, the 'I'm a horny monkey' behaviour is most often a turn off. Genuine interest isn't more than half of the time (depending on the rest of the circumstances).
You're going to have to rephrase that, as I can't understand you..
I think so... women are visual too, but they aren't really looking for a singular thing in all guys. It's more like a super specific thing that's unique to her, that only she cares about.
Sure, but it also depends on your job. Guys don't want a dead-end girlfriend. Guys want girls that care about their future and not settle for scraps.
There are girls out there thinking they're "out of our league", yet they are working the drive-thru window at McDonald's lol
Guys with money could care less. Esepecially if your hot. I know from experience👍
There are also guys with ambition that want to be the "power couple" where both partners are making bank. They're out there too.
Do you look at a man in moves with six pack abbs, and chizzeld chest, everyones fucking visual, if not
you woman be fucking the nearst retarted man you saw.
Who hurt you
just stateing a fact, and punching holes in your question
I am visual to an extent. Then the thought of the act we’re going to do will get me to the next level
Im that way too👍
Yes I’m the initial attraction but after that it of course comes down to personality
Can't object to that. But visual fade as time passes, so what stick around.
Visual only fades as time passes if the woman can't keep up with her appearance
True true
Ya but that doesn’t mean women aren’t visual to some extent too
We definatly are
You especially? Lol
Lol yes
Yes men ate visually stimulated
Woman the Brain
Looks first, brain second
Always looks 😍
Attraction to me is not as simple as looks, but the visual is absolutely relative and crucial. I check out every inch if I'm interested right away. I'm not sure if I'm looking for positives or negatives in my eye. It's both I'm sure. Yea it's both.
Not really but they put more importance on a woman appearance than women do. Women care more about a man personality than his appearance and as they get older they care about his financial stability for future children.
Most popular and most common thing that I often hear from girls,
I literally never feel any sort of sexual attraction towards a guy based solely on looks. I don't check out random strangers or anything like that. I only feel attraction towards guys I have the right chemistry with. I can look at a guy and acknowledge that he is conventionally attractive, but I don't feel attracted.
How can girls not like men overally physically yet still say they are attracted to MEN?
Guys feel unresponsive/nothing when do we see chair, table, pen, bag, shoes and other neutral objects. But when do we see our opposite sex we experience sexual attraction (had a physiological response eg. Blushing, heart fluttering, pulse racing) to anyone we consider 'attractive'. Women also say they feel nothing. When do they see chair, table, pen, bag, shoes and other neutral objects and also their opposite sex they feel nothing. They can detect the objects, that's it. If there is no difference between seeing neutral objects & seeing opposite sex then how do a woman get aroused by a man? If women are blind to visual attraction they how do they know about their sexual attraction?
Before meeting this stage how did you find out whether you are attracted to guys or girls, how did you find out you are attracted to sexy guys or ugly guys?
Women have to walk up to some guy and carry out a conversation only to find themselves suddenly attracted to him? If women aren't visual then in which way women are different than demisexual?
@SoniaPinky Guess majority of women are demi sexual then.
I check out guys in the street personally and when I find a guy attractive and he talk to me I get very nervous and cannot think so I begin to ramble sand say stupid things.
But I know it's mainly teen girl that feel like it and no reason I guess women are more "cold" in this aspect and think more rationally when it come to relationship.
Personally I always been attracted to guys and especially blond guys with pale skin and muscular arms / shoulder.
It's about the same except women are less likely to admit this lol
I guess I did have a little extra input to my comment..
I'm a photographer so the visual will always play a part. But it's only part of the equation.
😄makes sense
I think men have more depth vision than women so when they look at something they tend to focus on one thing instead of on the whole so that makes people think men are so visual.
Yes, men are hardwired for visual-orientation. It's in our DNA.
Afterall, if you're being hunted by a sabre-toothed lion, you had bettered be able to see it!
Men would fuck anything, but if ur sexy as fuck your personality is literally irrelevant lol. there's plenty of guys who'll fuck a girl even if she's the shittiest human being. If she's a 10 she will have simps on her daily
Your age shows in this.
Perhaps, I've seen a lot from the amount of times I've lived.
u mean saps or simps is that a new new stuff that I don't know
Sexy ass what he said is true on 80% of guys out there might be a little higher than that be honest with you there are gentlemen out there
I first noticed the shape... Your figure is what attracts my attention first, the I can look out for your looks and reception... Your character then comes to play when I want to get serious with you
Absolutely. Hopefully, the guy in question will come to see the inner beauty of the woman on whom he gazes.
There is more to attraction than a visual aspect. There is a mentality. Inner connection that comes with bonding and enlightenment.
Some of them are, other prefer to know the personality. Which is more valuable and worth it (emotionally).
Dunno bout other guys but I’m only visual,
When it comes to sex all I care about it if the girl looks hot or not,
I couldn’t care less about her personality... if she’s hot and a major bitch... I would still fuck her
Your def 22. But men with money are also like this
I don’t see why her personality has to count towards your sexual attraction and go to your genitals also?
I thought how sexually stimulated someone is strictly to do with looks only!
Do people really see a hot looking, but annoying bitch and think “eww, wouldn’t wanna bang her, she’s too annoying “
? Really?
Either people are lying... or I’m just weird
It’s like most people link personality and looks together when personally I separate the both
I would form a fuck body with a hot annoying bitch
And then a romantic relationship with a nice sweet girl
I think they are, at least at first, until they get to know you.
A lot of men are for sure, nice profile pic speaking of ;)
Looks set the bait; personality springs the trap ;)
I don't know. I can tell, you I can certainly see a hot guy and appreciate him.
I would say yes at first but once they know about the person that will be a factor too
You're asking this question when you already have that profile pic?
Seems so.
Yes we are I love look in at my girls vagina and asshole too...
Lol one of those
She says why u looking at it like that? Lol...
Good looking guy sending you messages: lol ooooohhh (don't) stop!
Less attractive guy sending you messages: stop harrassing me incel creep douche!
So no, men are not more visual, we simply don't lie about it.
Yes, we are visual first, if we like what's on the outside, we explore to see if we like the inside too.
the first what a man do is to watch the woman he like and if this test is positive he start flirting. visual attraction is important.
Yes, seeing is important for attraction, but a good personality is important for... everything else. lol
Yes men are very visual. Stunning beauty is nothing if there's no beautiful soul. Too many women have been letting thselves go however
They say we are but i doubt it. We can be that shallow. I mean really... Oops sorry a hot babe went by Anyway so yeah i doubt it. 😎
Women are just as visual as men but they pretend they are not. What's the best place to confirm it? Tinder.
basically to first attract someone yea most likely, is it true women are more emotion?
No women just have more factors they like to consider. For example, a guy wouldn't reject a girl because he doesn't like her friends
Why are there so many decent looking guys with ugly women?
Ask her
The fact that women demanded - and were granted - the privilege to emotionally bully men, and be always and in every regard right - just by insisting on getting what they want.
Everything gets presented gently to a woman - look at female-oriented sex articles - you, honey, are allowed to enjoy it all on your terms (only). Look at the male ones - first, start feeling guilty about remotely thinking sex, then, if you get really lucky, she might let you near - but don't do anything stupid because we told her to kick you out as soon as she feels like that might just be the rights disciplinary measure
I think we are more visual when I love what I see and then talk to her it comes together I'm a person that loves body mind and spirit if her walk and talk match great if not something wrong
If u mean visually attracted to dicks and asses and assholes, then yes.
Attracted to your asshole!
Go away.
😤😤😤
guy's who are attracted to assholes are weird, but there are guy's who like that. I don't know why some dudes like some things and yet I'ma dude myself
She called you gay by the way
Science states that yes, guys are more visual animals when it comes to attraction.
Because women go out of their way to look beautiful...
For sure... why do you think we are the biggest porn watchers
Yes. This much is true. I would say the majority are.
Not only when it comes to attraction but a guy can feel closeness visually and love through the act of sex.
Just as a woman can/does
Yes, I like to have only attractive women with friendly nature in my arms and bed. Even in my thoughts.
I would say we are nearly 100% visual. It really only matters what you look like.
Men are VERY shallow and superficial looks are the most important thing to 99% of men that is why they cheat they’re primitive creatures
Actually it's Biologically proven
No. In my experience women definitely are just as visual. A woman recently told me attractiveness is a huge factor in choosing someone. She said 80% attractiveness 20% personality.
But you gotta admit that it's according to what you want the guy for. I think women like a balance of good looks, brains, personality. If a guy's a great looking dumb bunny, might be OK for boy toy, but nothing else. If he's great looking but shitty personality, might also be ONS, but nothing more. But the whole package is important. You a nice looking (not gorgeous) guy with a head on his shoulders and personality will win over a model with no personality, no brains. You have to weigh all factors. If it's only looks, everyone likes a pretty man or woman. But when someone opens their mouth and it's duh, that dilutes the attraction asap. Men might overlook this. Women, less likely to.
Yes, Not with good morals tho, Women judge more so on looks, that's my opinion tho
Ye for sure but not always sometimes ya just ain't in the mood
It goes both ways... but men cud be more at sometimes
Yes, We look at you first to see if we find you attractive then we find out how you treat us and how you talk to us then.
Im pretty sure Girls do not do that.
We do do that
I know (not think) that men are more honest and upfront about their visual nature where as women are more dishonest and cowardly about their visual nature.
I dont know what women you talk to. Ill preach all day i go for looks. Im aware im superficial
Yes I already know that. I also know that you care about far more than just a man's appearance.
So what was the point in going anonymous if you “already know how i am”
And yes i do care more then just the appearance but appearance is #1
Wtf does my anonymity have anything to do with this? LOL
you're speaking of me like you know me and you go anonymous. If you know me so well, why go anonymous. Thats weird in itself. Seems to me your the cowardly one, can't even stand behind your own comment. OK👌
Yep, it's how we're wired. Complain in church.
Im atheist❤️
Jeez, another of my quips destroyed! But it IS how we're wired.
Party on!
Yes and it sucks because it is so easy to trick the eyes these days.
I can't wait for AI to advance to the stage men can wear a personality the way women wear makeup.
I know i am mesmerized when i see a beautiful woman. But its not just her looks. Its how she is dressed, walks, sounds and more...
Would you have a profile picture like that if it were not at least somewhat true?
I already know the answer, i just asked.
I think so, women are more emotional about sex, we’re more visual.
Lol i must be a dude then
It’s a generic rule of thumb. I actually think women are just as into sex as men.
Id say so!
A lot of the time in would have to say. Like right now, I'm attracted to your breasts, are they real?
They are not