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Maybe some, but I need to know her, and like her, as a person, and that is the best, for me! I care more about what we share together, than any physical things.
Yeah, I'm strange, I know, and I just like being that way, focused on important things.
Yes , she has to catch his attention blown away by her beauty but then it comes down to personality for me if she has an awesome personality that makes her even more hotter if she is a bitch then it makes me less interested , some guys would bang her anyways but I am not like that I need her to be package deal lol
Think about it. To get her in the mood for sex, a woman needs foreplay, romantic talk, touching, caressing, etc., before she's really turned.
But for a guy, when his woman gets naked in front of him, that's all he needs. He's ready to get down and dirty right then and there.
Men are more visually stimulated.
Lol i dont need that. I just need them to act aloof and uninterested... and that never happens soo🤷🏼♀️😄
You are right though. I always wondered how my friends with benefits was always ready right off the bat
LOL :)
It's more individual based than gender.
Have stumbled in to more female's then men that are visual first when it comes to attraction. they usually tries to avoid the subject in different ways try to rearrange focus or lie to not look shallow.
Some even go that far since they are afraid of geting cheated on or rejected that they avoid even reject what they find physical attractive.
I think women are more visual (look at how many colors we know! look how much we love fashion!), but I think we can give a little in the looks department for other qualities like brains, stability, and kindness.
Exactly!
I say yeah I am more visual and I can say the same for most men because a lot of us wouldn't fuck a fat women. We only get less visual as we realize we aren't as attractive enough to get women we want.
I think women are visual but not as much as men.
I'm pretty below average and some women over time after I've talked to them started taking interest in me
Based on the profile pictures here, I'd say it's women who are really more visual when trying to be attractive. Also based on what I notice in life.
Alright?
Why the "?"?
Visual is a must but structural physical integrity and mindful passionate understanding is the most important
What's a guy gotta do to get you to follow him back so he can pick your gorgeous brain
I dont pm. If you want to ask a question feel free here
In men the amygdala is directly behind the eyes. So yes regarding initial attraction men are much more visual than women In general. That’s science.
Amygdala?
www.sciencedaily.com/.../040316072953.htm
Interesting! Never heard of this. Now i know:)
Yes, visual is the first step! Then the personality sets up the rest. You can be the hottest woman alive, but if you have a shitty attitude, that makes her ugly inside, no one wants that. But then again! Women love pretty boys that are bad... Good looking men get away with ugly attitudes, so it seems.
I'm skeptical of that. Women care very much about a guy's looks as well.
Skeptical of?
And yes we most definatly do!
Skeptical that men care about looks more thsn women
I think its pretty equal. I just wanted to see what others would say
I'd agree with that
Yes I was thinking the same. Guess no need for me to comment on the question
I won't speak for all of us. But physical and mental attraction or however you want to call the two are both equally important for me. I don't care how shallow it may seem to people and I fully expect to judged the same way.
I know what I like and want. And I feel anyone should not settle for less thsn what they desire in a partner they plan to spend large chunks of their life with.
Yes, most definitely. Though women are too. It's the hook before conversation.
Totally👍
I am personally a big fan of mommy porn. Take that however you want.
Older women?
Or mom issues? Lol
Actually I was referring to erotic literature. But all the stuff you said as well. It's crazy being me! Literally.
Both men and women are visual when it comes to attraction. If anything, women are more visual because they have higher standards.
Your not wrong
I know I'm not, which is why I laugh at women who get upset that men are visual. I mean when it comes to dating, it's not all about looks, but even when it comes to dating women have higher standards.
I think men are less complicated when it comes to selecting a date. All he needs is some sort of physical attraction and personality attraction. Meanwhile women consider more factors such as his age, income, does he want kids, does he have student loans, where is he in terms of career, would he get along with my family?
But its a fake stereotype that women don't care about mens looks. Trust me, we do. It does matter. You can't stereotype by gender.
@nella965 Yea that can be summed up to just having higher standards. Not necessarily a bad thing, depending on the standard.
@nella965 Yea I know that to be a fact. I have never met a woman who didn't judge men based on looks. In my experience, they are far more picky when it comes to looks.
I feel like it goes about the same for each gender, as in searching through dating profiles the first thing to go off is visual attraction. And even in watching people on the street, either are drawn to those we find attractive
I am not so sure. Men acknowledge it more publicly, but listening to women talk in private, I hear more objectification of men from them than I ever hear men objectifying women.
I talk about it openly🤷🏼♀️
I don't know many girls who are hush hush about it
Overall, yes. I am a solid 5. I have dated women whom other guys rate as 9 and above. If these girls were visual I would have zero chance, unless their "visual" is solely height.
Lol heigth is big for us
But also ratings depend on the people. You could be above a 5 to some people and the supposed “9” could be well below
it depends, like I am mostly unable to talk to a girl I find physically attractive. So that's lust for you. But I always end up thinking the most about a girl who I click with on a more personal level regardless of her appearance. Most of these girls I've never looked twice at but after a bit you start to see their personality in their appearance. if you know what I mean?
At first yes you always want the prettiest I answered a similar question I said a man should go out get the ugliest Beast possible she would appreciate what she has one that would roll up her sleeves and wait for me to say Sikkim