What can you say about Indian men's mentality and character as a human-being?

[sdtabot]

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I was hoping to know about your personal encounters with them, not how you see them in general. I know that it is not good to generalize. Others have shared their encounters - positive and negative. Can we treat it more like a research where we share what we have observed, specifically information relative to this that we gained *first hand*?

[ecfresh]

I met several Indian men irl and they seem to have a different cultural set of values. Hard to tell if it was just the people I interacted with but have also heard other people give similar feedback. One example is these Indian men seem to believe it’s ok to lie and cheat to gain a competitive advantage. Winning at all costs and they could care less who they hurt in the process. Seemed selfish when compared to my set of morals and the traditional Western character traits of truth and decency for others in society.

My personal story to exemplify this attitude is while at college a programming professor called me into her office after class. She showed me a programming assignment I had turned in and a complete copy of my assignment submitted by an Indian student. She warned me if we cheated again she would throw me out of college.

When I got back to my dorm room I was upset and tracked down the person who had clearly copied my work; he was a friend of my a Indian roommate. I expected him to feel guilt with an American sense of ‘his hand being caught in the cookie jar’. But instead he was very arrogant and explained he cheated all the time and it was my fault in his eyes for not having a pass word on my desktop computer in my dorm room. So again in his eyes cheating to get ahead was ok and if it meant I would be tossed out of school he could care less.

[sdtabot]

That's really awful 😔

[ecfresh]

Yes. I see this attitude when the Indian guys mistreat women online and demand sexual attention. That objectification and aggression is pathetic in my opinion.

[Iron_Man]

Well according to this site there's numerous amount of complaints that their sex freaks and they bother American girls on this site in private messages but yet they never bother other indian girls here

[sdtabot]

That seems to be the case. They bother girls from other races but not their fellow indians. I wonder why is that... 🤔

[Iron_Man]

They respect their own but they probably think American girls are wild according to Hollywood movies and the questions on here as well

[sdtabot]

They also harass non Americans...

I don't think they respect their women either. When I talk to any of them, they always call them gold diggers and they bad mouth their women.

[Iron_Man]

All know is all the complaints come from American girls on here never Indian.

[sdtabot]

Okay. Thanks for your input. Where to find those complaints btw?

[Iron_Man]

You're welcome. Been here for 9 years they are in old threads I dont follow those kinds of threads. Some might have been removed because they are controversial and probably got reported by other Indians

[Iron_Man]

Ate they bothering you sexually?

[sdtabot]

Most of them, but I found a few who are decent (not on this app tho).

They are begging and acting like I should take pity on them and do indecent things for them. Then, they say they'll stop acting like a pervert but they always go back to that same kind of talk.

[Iron_Man]

That's low class desperate behavior on their part

[Anonymous]

I have a very good friend I met online who happens to be Indian. I have nothing but positive things to say about him. Standup guy, very nice, respectful of women etc.

[winterfox10]

I've met a few standup gents, but generally I have not had good experiences. They have generally been petty and cliquish. There's a weird dichotomy between the guys who are efeminate but trying to come across uber manly, and then the actually masculine guys.

To be fair though, the manliness thing might come from the way the women treat the men. Indian women are extremely dominating (again, that's just my experience).

[DanOh2018]

Hmm I've only interacted with a few of them. Guys we outsourced our corporate IT to. Utterly useless, I suspected fake qualifications.

I worked with one Indian guy who grew up in Canada and he was fine to joke around and have lunch with.

I'm thinking it's a culture of dishonesty and corruption over there. Lot's of faked credentials.

[legalboxers]

Im born and raised in NYC, 1st generation Indian/Portuguese. I never associated with other Indian people. For the simple fact, especially the men, think their shit dont stink, they are better than anyone and everyone else. And when they are wrong, and proven wrong, they will keep on harping on they are still right.. but when they are wrong.

[TonyBologna25]

They have a strong work ethic, and are generally very humbled. They are typically friendly as well. I love Indian culture, but they seem to perverts on the internet lol.

[theChineseWASP]

I think Indians are really funny and goofy. Of course there are some bad things but I would rather just think about the good.

[samratmotilal]

I'm an indian guy. I'd say the mentality is very diverse and it's still changing. It has been known to be very negative but the newer generations don't think that way. There's a lot more respect and understanding and equality in thought process.

[MannySimms]

Never ever met one with any good values.
Caste system, right?
They don't think they're better than you...
They KNOW it.

True 100% of the time for me.

[Anonymous]

Nothing really, as that would only be a generalization; and I prefer not to make those and even less to share them.

[Opinion Owner]

Replying to the update. The handful of guys that I have dealt with have been very friendly and hard working; they also are family oriented and spiritual in their mindset. I've only worked with 4 guys from India and haven't had any interactions via school. So my experience is pretty limited.

[Shah11]

You can see top USA richest companies run by Indians. Lol

[sdtabot]

Is that why most of them act like they're better than everyone?

[Shah11]

Nope never. But others think that Indians are assholes n idiots just bkoz they can't beat them. Indians are humble n low profile people.

[sdtabot]

I see. So, in reality, many are good but because of the few online, they are viewed negatively?

[Shah11]

It's happened everywhere... not your all fingers are same it's just state of mind dear.

[sdtabot]

Oh, I see. In general, most of the people I know personally thinks poorly of indians. So, I wonder why. Do you know other reasons why people think they are assholes? These people weren't even in a competition with them but they still think that way.

[Shah11]

I can give u many examples. US people lives depends on unemployment stimulus checks. And Indian give stimulus to the govt. So there is no point of comparison btwn Indian n Americans. And not everyone have great choice.

[Shah11]

Life's*

[sdtabot]

Buddy, don't focus on US. I don't live there. Also, I wasn't asking you for any comparison.

Are you an Indian/us/neither citizen?

[Shah11]

No I'm not talking about you I'm talking about in general. I'm comparing the most powerful country why we need to compare with peanuts country. Yeah I'm Indian. 😂

[sdtabot]

I knew it haha.

Anyways, I wasn't talking about politics and economy. I'm talking about mentality.

There's something about Indian men's mentality that people all around the world hate.

[Shah11]

People always use to hate expensive stuff.. no? And if you can't get hate than you're not doing something great. 😂

[sdtabot]

What? You mean when you are hated that's only when you are doing something great? That's not entirely true.

[Shah11]

I mean successful people always get hated by losers. Lol.

[sdtabot]

But there's a difference between being hated for being successful and being hated for their character.

These Indian men whom been hated by many seem to belong to the common, average indian men who hasn't achieved much yet in their lives.

And I think those successful Indian men which you mentioned actually inspire people. Not all but I'm sure, they inspire someone, Indian and non-Indian, out there.

It's not some hatred pointed towards these successful folks but it's more pointed towards the commoners - the typical Indian men living in your country.

Your country is big with a big population. The ratio of successful people to the overall population isn't 50:50, and the number of successful Indian isn't greater than the number of those whom your people would call unsuccessful.

As far as I've seen, most men from all races exhibit pride and ego to protect their manhood; but there's something about most Indian men which go way out of bounds which makes them unlikable. I'm not saying all Indian men are terrible. I have a few Indian friends. I have also encountered a lot of unwanted attention from other indians.

The thing is it's not only about their sexual aggression online. There's more to it.

[sdtabot]

Real life samples:

1. One of my best friend who was working in a call center often remarks how Indian clients would often sexually harass then.

2. I know an Indian whose parents purposely forged his birth certificate making him a year younger in the documents to have leverage in the future.

3. I know Indians who would not accept any help from anyone even when they can't resolve the problem on their own anymore. It's not that bad and I know there are people like this in all races. But a person should know when to ask for help.

4. They become aggressive when someone's perception or beliefs go against theirs. I know there are people like this in all races.

5. Most indian men don't know how to respect women or how to talk to them. Then, they badmouth their own women.

It seems like Indians are raised to do everything on their own to achieve success regardless of the method which leads to corruption and deception. It also seems that Indian culture still can't bring forth gender equality as part of their norm because most of their men still think that men is somewhat better than women and that women owe them something.

Indians show superiority complex. Most of the people would even criticize and are against interracial marriage. To them being mixed with other races seem to be some sort of unwanted impurity.

[Shah11]

Well I think you have half knowledge about India... it's k it's your point of view of looking Indians. by the way Indian woman reach to the moon. Well I guess it's enough to answer all your questions. by the way from which country you're?

[Shah11]

And what is the definition of "MOST OF THE MAN" who told you to go to all Indian men? Stick to the one man woman than see how Indian will protect you and give u life of princess. 😂😂

[sdtabot]

Most men (plural), not man (singular) - most men means majority of the male population.

My first encounter was online. I liked the guy but he wronged me. He only used me for his sexual pleasures. At first, I was actually defending him. But now that I look back, I regret liking him or even sticking up to him.

After him, I met more. I am not going after them but they seem to always find me in the games and social apps. Most of it are traumatizing for me. Anyways, I still met a few good Indians (2-3 out of 20). So, I know not all of them are animals.

[Shah11]

Animals? To harsh. by the way your country?

[sdtabot]

They claim they have no control over their desires like an animal so I said "animals".

Philippines.

[Shah11]

Lol I was 99% sure that you were from Philippines. 😂

[Shah11]

Anyways I guess you get seriously hurt from fellow Indian. 😂

[EnglundUberAlles]

I can't say anything. I might as well say the English are all assholes but I'm English so I'd be disproving my own statement.

[sdtabot]

You mean everyone is an asshole?

[EnglundUberAlles]

No, I mean it's impossible to make blanket statements about a nation.

[sdtabot]

Oh, I see. What can you say about those whom you've met so far?

[EnglundUberAlles]

I like them.

[rullysyske]

Toxic beta male complex. They know they're small, undernourished, repressed, socially unskilled men, and they are constantly angry about it

[7771999]

Perverted

[sdtabot]

Can you give more details?

[7771999]

Like. Sexually frustrated

[sdtabot]

But have you conversed or mingled with them personally or online?

[7771999]

I know

[sdtabot]

Okie 🙂

[7771999]

😬😅

[KrakenAttackin]

Dot or feather?