i feel sorry to hear that, honestly. I too ask this to myself why men have been acting this way...
here is what I have observed and felt throughout my life so far, belonging to an indian family..
Upbringing plays a role- In a typical indian family (for a long time) a girl is taught to tolerate whatever wrong is done to her, telling her that men will be like this by nature!!! what impression would these words make on a young boy? obviously, he would tend to think whatever he wants he can do... and that's where the inappropriate treatment gets promoted... This is where what we call man-ego rises...
But nowadays, people are getting aware... now the tasks aren't totally distributed on the basis of sex but abilities... still there are some people who can't bear it (stuck with past things)
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I would like to share one more thing about the history that I had learnt in school, in ancient India, it is told that men and women had equal right of education, social duties etc... there are some references too about the ladies from ancient India and their achievements!
somehow in later time, male dominant society came into play and it persisted for so long that made men bahave this way...
Not every indian man is creepy to woman... many of them respect them as a person... and It's actually only about india, such people do exist in other places as well.. I can say bcz I have some female frnds from other counties... But yeah I felt really bad that men from my country made you post this thing and ask why are they like this..
things are changing... it may take some time.. but it will get better...
I guess it is like the sixties in America, guys felt you were either sexually liberated and thus open to everything and everyone or you were a prude. It was difficult for men to conceive of the idea that women did not want it either of those two ways. India similarly is just now shifting towards a less conservative society.
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Because they get nervous when talking to women and they look like they’re nervous it’s obvious, but they try to act cool and that is what people call ‘creepy’. Don’t you think that’s right?
They probably don't even realize how creepy they are. India is the only country I'm aware of that has pornographic statues. They also have the Kama Sutra which is the equivalent of a sex bible.
Their culture must be different from ours. Certain types of behavior must be somewhat acceptable or at least tolerated in India.
People in other areas of the world doesn't find speaking with girls wrong but our indian parents find it wrong to speak with girls and they just assume we r in love with them so when we get to a point of talking to girls we get like super nervous😔
Please don't consider all Indian guy only some are because of desperation, lack of confidence. etc
Don't include every Indian in it
It's a geographic issue, I think
There are exceptions all men are not creepy to women some give then respect
Because avarage IQ in India is 80 which is borderline retarded
Sodont expect much from monkeys 😂
Because Indian men want to lower your credit card debt and sell you cheap medical braces.
i dont know, its like their brains are wired differently
Dating isn't a thing in India in most places, so courting a girl or approaching them isn't something they learn. But then again it depends on the guy.
What happened with you and another guy?
They just don't respect women.
Fault in our stars!.
They aren’t
All of the above.
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