Told my guy about previous sexual experiences?

[JustJen]

I told my guy about some pretty wild previous sexual experiences of mine. He didn't comment that night, but the next night he asked about it. Meaning what? He has sometimes been telling me I'm ladylike and well behaved and says he likes that. Does he now see me as the daytime lady - nighttime whore? Will it put him off from wanting to pursue a long term relationship with me?

[Anonymous]

Since you've already kinds screwed stuff up a bit by telling him that stuff... just don't ever bring it up again. When you're in a relationship it's not good to get talk about the sexual moments or situations in the past like telling stories about them with your partner unless they asked you if you liked past experiences or something weird like that. It's not good because it can make the other person feel a little sad or self conscious like hmmm am I good enough... does she still think about the moments she's had with these other men etc. It would be the same way if your boyfriend told you about his past things unless you really wanted to know. Unless all of your past experiences really sucked and you were just saying yeah they all sucked lol let's talk about us... I just don't think it's appropriate to do that in a relationship... maybe if you had a fuck buddy and you guys were trying to improve things sexually or learn new stuff together then talking about past experiences would be fine...

[Bandit74]

Possibly.

Most men don't want a girl who was really wild and slutty with other men but well-behaved/lady like for them.
That's like the complete opposite of what men typically want.

[JustJen]

Lady in the daytime, wild in bed. I think that's kind of what I've been with him.

[Bandit74]

Are you equally as wild with him as you were with the exes you told him about?

[JustJen]

Yep, or wilder because I'm more confident with him

[ItsTheNephilim]

Yeah, probably. Wait for him to react more relevantly.

[Andres77]

It all depends on the guy.
I love hearing about wild sloppy adventures. I'd get even more excited and fuck harder as she shared that intimacy with me.

[Thatsamazing]

Uh... okay. Bad move.
"Will it put him off from wanting to pursue a long term relationship with me?" Probably.

[Numbnuts89]

I've a question

why is it, if a guy and girl are "just friends", she's allowed to start telling him sexual things, but if he does, she's "creeped" out

[oncpl]

Wait patiently for her reaction. He will come up after a few days to tell you what does he think of your past and future relations with him.

[leftis25]

Ok look.. if u wanna something serious with someone u never talk to him about this stuff.. if u want just sex with him and nothing more its ok

[JSmuve]

It probably will put him off, especially if you've been a nighttime whore with different guys.

[Anonymous]

yeah pretty much. If you told him some pretty sexually wild stuff the type of shit you see on porn sites then yeah he would think of you as a nighttime whore.

[In_Trance]

Yeah, I think that was a bad move. But who knows; maybe it'll work out

[Fuentes]

If there that wild and u gotta share every detail you a floozy n i ain't Wifin shit

[MiamiMadness]

Some things are better left watered down