This guy kept looking at me after he dropped things in front of me several times. Why would he do as such?

[Anonymous]

This guy who looks like a shy guy, kept dropping things in front of me several times. He know I was there but didn't look at me when he dropped the things. But a few minutes later while I was slightly away, he looked at me...

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Thank you guys for the response. However, I'm confident he didn't do it for some negative purposes. He looked quite nervous & he didn't seem to purposely do it.

[willgua]

He's a beta and non-confident guy... if that's what you like, go talk to him. Oh And by the way, he likes you.

You see, an alpha man, a leader, would simply approach you and start a convo. Would be masculine and take you out, simple.

But it clearly seems that he isn't a leader, he isn't that type of guy. Also he seems afraid of 'what you would say' if he approached you.

As I said before, if that's the type of guy you want, go ahead and talk to him.

[willgua]

When I like a girl, I just approach her. If she likes me fine, we hang out, we hang out and if I like her enough, we start dating.

If she doesn't like me, even better! I had the courage to talk to her and know that I would waste my time with her, bc she wouldn't be interested.

I just say that girls love confident guys and they like them even more, when they realise they are good guys and confident. Not fuckboys.

[Asker]

I mean like I'm okay with him acting like that. Its actually cute. But what makes you think that he likes me?

[willgua]

Girl I've been a man for 23 years. 😂

When I was insecure, a beta guy and 'cute'... I was like that!

But that technique stopped working a very long ago. Now I'm so different, I am in total control and my dating life is better.

But yeah he likes you.

[Asker]

But I mean like doesn't mean he's a beta or looks insecure means he likes me?

[willgua]

If I like someone I don't become insecure or shy. I go after what I like. The result depends on what happens.

I am confident in that area cause I am confident in all areas of my life.

When someone is not like that in other areas, they will for sure act very shy and insecure when they like a girl.

[willgua]

Also has a lot to do with not truly believing in yourself and also don't have any idea on how to sell yourself as a man (relationship-wise)

[willgua]

PM me if you want more advices.

[Asker]

How would talking to him help in the situation? I mean like would he even want me to talk to him? Also would smiling at him helps?

[torgor67]

Well in my mind the first time he did it could have been a legitimate accident but then once that accident occurred it led to the situation you described so the other times he could have done it on purpose while keeping that nervous façade from the first time it happened but with other intent on the other times whether it was malicious or pervy. But like you said it might have just been nothing!

[Gorlll]

he wants you bend and perverly look at u
THE BEND AND SNAP

[BeingAnzalKhan]

It's a sign of making one believe that I am not focusing on you.. But from inside he does. Go and talk to him straight way. It's good to be friend.

[Asker]

I don't quite understand what you're trying to say. Care to explain further?

[BeingAnzalKhan]

He is pretending not looking at you but instead he is looking. He must be having some glitches or confidence issues while talking to girl. So, you have to take a step further and talk to him.

[Asker]

But how do you know if he wants me to talk to him?

[BeingAnzalKhan]

By his act as you said "several times".. It's not a matter of coincidence.. Try out with just a "Hi" and a smile.. see how he approaches..

[Asker]

Hmm, but how does saying hi & smile help in the situation?

[BeingAnzalKhan]

The intention of that person will reveal. He is just trying to communicate with you.. May be shy or confidence level is not allowing him.. may be.. so try with hi

[BeingAnzalKhan]

Then let's see what hapoens

[Anonymous]

because he wants to see your hooters when you bend over to pick the things up

[loooooop]

People tend to look at other people