He stopped responding to my messages after we made plans - wtf?

[Anonymous]

I don't understand this. Is he under the impression that he doesn't need to communicate now that we have plans in a few days to meet up? Am I being too needy by wanting to converse more with a stranger before meeting him offline, in his own place at that? (I know.) I just think it's rude af.

Or is he just not interested?

[victorvolf]

Personally, I rarely communicate through text in between dates (except to set the dates) because I want to keep the topics for the date itself. If you talk too much in between (or before in your case) there wouldn't be much to talk about during the date itself, which is not what we want.

[spartan55]

Why are you meeting at his place on a first date? Bad idea.

[DCooper]

Meeting the first time at his place? Big red flag right there.

[Asker]

yeah i know. unfortunately its super common. I've done it before, but you are right its risky. i honestly dont think im going to meet up with him. I just dont appreciate the lack of communication before meeting. he may have also gotten the vibe that i actually want to get to know him and not hook up. he didn't ask for any nudes or anything but said his roommate would be gone all week when I asked if he had roommates. he may have stopped replying because i dont seem like a sure thing, thats my guess I don't know

what do you think?

[Violetsunshine6]

is he busy? if not, ask him why he did that once u meet

[Meatunnel69]

He’s just gathering up his skin lamp making tools

[Asker]

lolol

[Meatunnel69]

Hard to laugh when you’re stretched over a lamp post

[es20490446e]

If this was real life, how would you behave like?