What he means is: it's probably best if you abandon hope of having a relationship with him. Yes, if you maintain a friendship with him, he MIGHT have a relationship with you in the future, but even that probably has only a 10-20% chance of happening, so the odds are pretty stacked against you.
At least he's being honest with you and not stringing you along with lies. The question is: will you listen to him and believe him, or will you rationalize staying to yourself because of what you HOPE will happen, despite him telling you not to have that hope?
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Either he is going through something that is going to take a lot of time and effort to solve before he's ready for a serious relationship
Or
Its a cop out because he doesn't want a relationship with you and doesn't want to break the bad news to you
Either way, its not something your gonna change easily and probably won't be able to change at all.
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