Why do guys stare at me but never make a move?

Question

I always notice guys checking me out, guys staring at me, staring at my lips, but they don’t really make a move. I’ve always wondered why?

NativeAlaskan · Accepted Answer

Maybe it’s the life’s parody of wrong place and wrong time.

I've gotten signals from women throughout the years that I did not act on. I have gotten the highest form of sexual signals such as her arms intentionally brushing up against mines, but still did not act on them.

For my case, it’s the wrong place and wrong time. The reasons I come up with: My breath stinks (lol), I didn’t take a bath yet, I wasn’t confident with what I was wearing at the time (I thought I didn’t look presentable), I was extremely horny, or I had drank 3 cups of coffee so “issues” down there might arise. Also, my friends who go the gym a lot tell me digestive issues is a main factor.

I don’t know what the safety bracket is for guys to take a chance, but mines would be 90%. If there’s a 50% chance, I still would not take it. Rejection is the main factor but there’s also other factors. If someone told you that there’s a 50% chance that a bowling ball will be dropped on your head as soon as you walk out the door, you wouldn’t walk out the door lol. Only stupid people or reckless people take risks. So that’s about it.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

You must be very beautiful guys will look at a beautiful women and smile and saying to themselves she has to be married or your very hot and sexy. With a naughty look and a guys mind will think of everything he would do you in that Moment and look at your lips thinking I want her as he smiles and walks by I would have to see what you look like

Yads_Is_Back · Accepted Answer

Maybe they find you intimidating? Well, I see it as if one doesn’t then somebody else will. A man who makes his presence and interest known is the man who has my attention.

kinkycouple93 · Answer

You know it takes some real balls to just hit on a random girl. If a gorgeous girl walks by, I'm probably going to look. In my head I might think how awesome it'd be to start chatting and see where it goes. But I'd also feel rude to approach a girl and say, god you are so hot I couldn't stop staring.
It's much easier to look, stare and appreciate from a distance.

Avi56 · Answer

1. The male ego of getting embarrassed to the possibility of being blown off.

2. If the women is pretty and feels she is way out the league.

3. Some places approaching a girl is now considered harassment.

4. Each woman is totally different than another. The pickup lines mean different for different women.

BrianRyans · Answer

Some women I rather look at them from afar then get close to them

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe they consider you as too beautiful, and that's why they probably think that they don't stand a chance.

mich15smith · Answer

they are either too scared or too busy when they see you

GreenGold1992 · Answer

they're just perverted cowards simply checking you out with no intention of making a move

Fuentes · Answer

You must give off vibes that ur not wit it

Bandit_Beef · Answer

Just make your move then...

Juxtapose · Answer

Same reason why you don't make the first move.

Kamikaze00 · Answer

Love you too much to avoid you and have another.

rroyy · Answer

bcz they r afraid u might get angry

Anonymous · Answer

because they're shy

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