Not his type, should I be worried I am not attractive to him, he likes other girls photos?

[Anonymous]

I have been in a relationship for a while. We share a flat. Anyway, I am 5”7, blonde, large boobs and smaller booty. My boyfriends “type” is dark haired, short, big butt and he doesn’t care about boobs. Sometimes I don’t feel pretty enough for him. He is constantly liking other girls photos on social media (something I would be ok with if it wasn’t so constant, and “spamming” all of there photos from months/years ago, clearly trying to catch there attention). I don’t worry about him cheating on me, I don’t think he ever would, but I do feel worried I am not pretty enough for him. I would compare his type to be somewhere between Megan fox and kylie Jenner and me more to Brooklyn decker (obviously being pretty generous here haha). I look after myself, get my hair done, get my nails done, tan, always buy new clothes and underwear, shower daily, I don’t show off my body too much in public to keep something just for him. I don’t really know what my question is here more just looking on people’s opinions/advice :)

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I forgot to mention:
He tells me he likes natural girls, so I wear less makeup but the girls he “likes” on social media all have very caked on makeup faces. I try to make a effort but I just worry it isn’t enough, for the main reason of not having a curvy butt.

[Nawlins34]

"Sometimes I don’t feel pretty enough for him. He is constantly liking other girls photos on social media (something I would be ok with if it wasn’t so constant, and “spamming” all of there photos from months/years ago, clearly trying to catch there attention)". - This is a huge red flag.

"I don’t worry about him cheating on me, I don’t think he ever would" - You don't? Because unless you set specific cheating parameters at the beginning of the relationship, he's cheating right now. Time spent looking/liking those photos is time he could be talking to you. He's disrespecting your relationship and you're allowing it.

"but I do feel worried I am not pretty enough for him." - Everyone has insecurities, that's being human. It's another thing when they are triggered by someone who supposedly loves you, this is a problem, lady.

"I would compare his type to be somewhere between Megan fox and kylie Jenner and me more to Brooklyn decker (obviously being pretty generous here haha). I look after myself, get my hair done, get my nails done, tan, always buy new clothes and underwear, shower daily, I don’t show off my body too much in public to keep something just for him." - and his response? liking other girls photos on social media! I want you to look at his actions, they say he doesn't care.

I don’t really know what my question is here more just looking on people’s opinions/advice
I've given my opinion, Here's my advice. Drop this guy.

You have to understand not every guy does this. There are plenty of guys who have want what you self-describe and have no problems with that and have NO PROBLEM leaving the girl photos to your soon-to-be ex.

You should want better for yourself. You're culpable here as well though. You didn't set boundaries here and let him know from the beginning he can't do that and keep you. Change won't occur until you're willing to end it and he believes it... and at the end of the day, do you really want a guy you have to threaten to leave to get what you want?

Do what needs to be done. Good luck and be safe.

[spartan55]

MHO him!

[zeitgeist057]

I’m not sure what the question is, he likes other girls photos? Seems like the answer is yes, he does like other girls photos.

sounds like your guy is also attracted to other women, but I don’t necessarily take that as he’s not attracted to you. Just that he likes more than one person at a time potentially.

I come from a perspective where I am polyamorous, so I totally understand this. I can have a girlfriend who am I find attractive, but at the same time I can find other women who may or may not look like her, also attractive. I think lots of women are beautiful for lots of different reasons. I like a short girl with big boobs, a short girl with small boobs, a girl with a booty on her, a girl with a more pert, tight butt. Blonde, brunette, redhead, pink/blue/purple/dyed hair, short curly, curvy, straight, up in a bun, they are all cute looks. I like a pixie cut, but I also like long hair.

maybe your guy is a guy like me, who likes variety? To be honest, most guys are, but they’re not going to tell you that. They pretend to be monogamous and like them never find anybody else ever attractive, but that’s sort of a lie. That’s why we have so much cheating, divorce, and all this drama in relationships. Because people can’t admit to the fact and be honest that they are not actually monogamous by nature or in their heart. To be honest, most guys are, but they’re not going to tell you that. They pretend to be monogamous and like I’m never find anybody else ever attractive, but that’s sort of a lie. That’s why we have so much cheating, divorce, and all this drama in relationships. Because people can’t admit to the fact and be honest that they are not actually monogamous by nature or in their heart.

[AmeerX]

You need to create a craving in his mind for you. You really need to make him think he could lose you forever if he doesn't pay attention. I know how guys react after that once they find out a person is not going to remain in their life if they don't do something.

If he likes you even a bit it will boost his affection for you otherwise it is going to be a do it or lose it type of thing.

By the way, I can't believe a beautiful girl like you is practically throwing herself for him. I know I would really appreciate a girl like you 😅

[TremorJay]

It seems clear to me that he's not satisfied with what he has. Otherwise, he wouldn't be so focused on other women. Take it from someone who left a wonderful woman, because he lacked appreciation. You never know what you have until it's gone. Let him go explore the other side of the fence and learn that for himself. Just my opinion

[Jerre]

Sounds like he doesn’t know what he really wants. Am sure there are lots of guys out there that would love to fuck you the way you are.

[RHK36]

Sounds like you need to have a conversation with him about it.

[BoobMan]

5'7" blonde, big boobs and a smaller booty. Good god! You sound pretty freaking ideal!

[Anonymous]

Aww u sound good to me and I’m not much into big boobs either. I do like a nice ass though. And ur height is nice too. 🙂

[mich15smith]

you should talk to him

[Asker]

I don’t want to seem crazy lol! 😜

[mich15smith]

you should be able to be open about how you feel with your partner as long as you aren't too on him about it