Im a live in nanny and have gotten close to the mom who hired me. I've met her family including older brother whos 49 (Im 26). he's chatty with everyone else but around me he's only said a few things, but I have notcied he's more talkative with me (he's from Finland and Im not sure how much English he knows). However, he is ALWAYS staring at me. I catch him looking at me all of the time, but when I do he usually quickly looks away. he's not married by the way.
We all went pumpkin picking a few days ago and this was the first time he was really chatty with me, making eye contact, and even brushed up close against my back twice. Sometimes when we pass eachother his baby niece he lets my hands linger over his.
But then after we got back he really distant himself from me. He still stares but thats it. Was I just imagining things or is he into me?
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he is attracted to you but chose to separate
Probly doesn’t like the age difference doesn’t wanna give anyone the wrong idea possibly
But is this how guys act when theyre... attracted to you? The age difference is weird but I've never had an older guy act like this towards me... just dont want to misread the situation and look stupid
Yeah don’t fall for anything either just seems strange age is a number yes but it’s weird he acts like your not there when he’s home it’s like he’s trying to make it so your family believes he has nothing to do with you and when your alone he’s nice please just be carful
Ahh okay. Yeah his sister would kill him if he ever put the moves on me haha I have a hard time telling if men are into me or theyre just being nice
Dm me I want to say what I’m thinking but I don’t want the whole internet to read it and get involved and I don’t want to make a incorrect assumption
And I can’t sent a message out so you have to send it to me I just don’t want to make a incorrect assumption and everyone bad mouth the guy
No worries follow me back and I think I should be able to message you
Already following ya
Ah, says I dont have enough Xper:(
W. e I’ll say it I’m saying be carful he may seem nice but what if he tried something because the way he’s acting is making it seem like he doesn’t know or want to know you in front of everyone not calling him bad just be carful please I don’t like shit like that makes me uneasy someone tried to kidnap one of my old friends but we saw through the sharade
I dont think he's a bad guy or would do anything to hurt me. I would just be really embarrassed if I confronted him like "Hey you can't be flirting with me like this, it's weird" only for him to not be attracted to me at all and I completely misread the situation lol
But I will be careful, thankfully I've never been in a situation where I was alone with him nor do I think Ill be in the future
I would honestly just leave it alone just watch your back just in case he may not be a bad person, but do you really never know with people these days and honestly I don’t know you but I’d feel bad is something did really happen and I could have said something
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You are clearly projecting, and he is much too old for you.
I dont really like him myself, he is much too old for me. Im asking because I want to be sure and keep clear from him. Sometimes I can't tell if older men are being nice or flirting with me