Why most conversations of some men begin by sex?

[Anonymous]

Do I attract pervert? Cause seriously there's not even one too caught the other , from my experience? That's why I don't date and after they ll be saying that is why , you are going to stay alone all your life

[igaveyouanickname]

Online? Cyberdisinhibitionism. That's why. They need to train boy and girls in school how to properly interact with each other. Heck, proper and socially-appropriate seduction should probably be a whole class.

The problem these days is a lot of people under 30 didn't have enough parental involvement in any aspect of their lives, so feral children grow-up to be clueless, feral adults. This results in billions of people who are just useless liabilities, in my opinion. Ignore them all and focus on the fewer cool people.

[Asker]

Thank you very much, you're right.

[igaveyouanickname]

No problem.

I apologize on behalf of my gender for all of your past and future bad experiences. Cherish the good experiences.

Another thing to consider is to make it a leadership opportunity and a teachable moment to interrupt these guys and explain to them how it would make them feel if you started prying about money immediately. (That has happened to me probably 1000x with the "So, what do you do?" awful opener.)

[Avicenna]

It’s because they are immature and think girls also constantly think about sex

[igaveyouanickname]

@Avicenna
They are desperate and trying the scatter-gun approach rather than understanding women and the specific woman as a person.

Interestingly and on the contrary, I think it's offensive when a woman presumes a man is constantly thinking about sex or that he must be into her simply because she's female.

[Asker]

I agree with that.

[Billie_]

A lot of men are like that, and believe women to be sexual objects for their pleasure. Its not your fault, we all go through it! You will find there are gems though.

[Asker]

Thank you :-)

[igaveyouanickname]

Yes, it's true.

It also works both ways. I was chased around the playground and corned by girls, and other nonconsensual things happened. It still happens that I get hit-on by women who don't want to know a damn thing about me. It breaks your trust in people and adds suspicion as to whether they are being genuine about their intentions.

[Asker]

I'm sorry to know that.
I hope someday you find your person, not all women's are like that and I do think same for men despite all these bads experiences.
Thanks for your answer.

[winterfox10]

The kinds of men who approach you to talk about sex are more likely to be the kind of men who approach every woman. They lack a sense of boundaries.

[Asker]

I agree

[igaveyouanickname]

@winterfox10
There maybe some nuance missing.

Anyone who talks too soon about sex or uses lame pickup lines doesn't want to treat a woman as a person, but as an object.

Someone though who talks to every woman may also like talking to women and be a very social person. Hopefully, they have the sense to talk to every man as well. It maybe meant that they talk to every woman because they are looking for using a woman as an object, rather than meeting and knowing as many people as possible.

[winterfox10]

@igaveyouanickname okay, fair point

[Joe1956]

one track mind... sex first is a sign they are not interested in quality
in my opinion

[Asker]

I also think same.

[Anonymous]

Because they are pigs

[InferiorElegy]

Most don't, you're just attracting the garbage.

[Asker]

Good to know.

[Smirnoff23]

Not all guys are the same

[Asker]

I know.
That's why I said some men.

[TurkıshGladyator]

Because we have a dick

[Asker]

So that's mean? Like is it normal to just text people for the first time and asked for sex video call? Why can't they be gentleman? Is it because you think with your dick? Some girl need respect

[TurkıshGladyator]

Sex is not unrespectful thing.

[Asker]

I didn't mention that it was, but thank you very much for letting me know that some men think with their dick.
If you read my question and the why , I asked it, you would have known what I was talking about and not everyone want to talk about sex and just because " some men's" have dick that's doesn't justify the fact that some of you consider women as just sexual object , we are not. So before talking about sex I think there's a certain closeness required.

[TurkıshGladyator]

Odayı

[TurkıshGladyator]

Okay

[igaveyouanickname]

@turkishgladyator

The message maybe correct, but flashing your junk doesn't persuade anyone to its merits.

The French have a saying: "Baiser une femme, c'est l'honorer."

"To fuck a woman is to honor her." (It is assumed to be consensual.)