Guys, Do guys get scared of falling in love?

Question

So do guys get scared of having or catching feelings for a girl... like ok so I've been having sex with this guy for quite awhile and everytime we have sex he acts like its the best thing that he's ever felt but then he disappears for days and sometimes weeks... I just assumed he was crazy or had a girlfriend but he did say to me on one occasion that he would never give his heart to another woman after it got broken in his previous relationship... I don't know its confusing and I need answers

Answer 1

Anonymous

It's very possible. And if they've started for him, he might be keeping his distance on purpose, especially if you haven't said anything about how you feel about him. But yes like women, we can be hurt and reluctant to try again as well. But it is also possible he is crazy and has a girlfriend lol. "The best thing he's ever felt" might be the sex itself he's referring to? It feels pretty amazing.

Asker

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The sad thing is I personally never mention feelings its always him but I truly believe he asks every women he sleeps with do they love him because he always ask me too and every time we have sex he acts like its the best thing in the world plus he's told me how it feels he remembers every single time we've had sex and he talks about it a lot then he disappears until I call him again and I'm like wtf this is not normal nor do I want to hear about all the times we've fuked every single conversation 🤦🏻‍♀️
Asker

5 d
And he remembers in detail he imitates everything I do every moan every facial expression the way my body moves the foreplay everything... im just like why, please shut up about it..

Answer 2

Asker

The sad thing is I personally never mention feelings its always him but I truly believe he asks every women he sleeps with do they love him because he always ask me too and every time we have sex he acts like its the best thing in the world plus he's told me how it feels he remembers every single time we've had sex and he talks about it a lot then he disappears until I call him again and I'm like wtf this is not normal nor do I want to hear about all the times we've fuked every single conversation 🤦🏻‍♀️

Answer 3

Asker

And he remembers in detail he imitates everything I do every moan every facial expression the way my body moves the foreplay everything... im just like why, please shut up about it..

Answer 4

Anonymous

Yes it is very much possible. Guys hate being vulnerable. Being in love means being vulnerable. And it gets even worse when a guy has been hurt in the past.

However, I would have avoided having sex if I feel like the girl is invested in more than me.

Asker

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I honestly think he does not care I also thinks he's really into games I also think he's obsessed with me sexually
Opinion Owner

7 d
Well, you can better judge the situation. Trust your instincts.

Answer 5

Asker

I honestly think he does not care I also thinks he's really into games I also think he's obsessed with me sexually

Answer 6

Opinion Owner

Well, you can better judge the situation. Trust your instincts.

Answer 7

NamerOfStars | 309 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Sure. Love is an unnerving prospect. Doing it in a way that's worth doing means exposing vulnerabilities that men are socially conditioned not to expose. It's scary enough when it's something you have a lot of control over, but when your heart rushes on ahead of your head...

Answer 8

sabwafair

Xper 3

He's a Player looking to Fuck as many girls as possible. He most likely says the same thing to every single girl. Face reality. Find someone who Adores you.

Asker

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I 1000 percent believe this!
sabwafair

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I am only looking out for your best interest!

Answer 9

Asker

I 1000 percent believe this!

Answer 10

sabwafair

I am only looking out for your best interest!

Answer 11

magiusX26 | 584 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

at this point i do. every, let me repeat, every time i have devolped feelings for a woman its has turned out very bad. all i ever dated were cheaters. most were manipulators and fakers. never truly met an honest woman, that includes family members. all those were cheaters too.

Answer 12

DavidFox | 220 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

It’s not confusing, he doesn’t want a relationship and is worried you have feelings for him.

Asker

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Why would that worry him though? I've never asked him if he loved me but he always asks me if I love him its really weird
DavidFox

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Because all to often girls start to develop feelings for guys after they have sex with them. If you honestly feel nothing for him then it’s all good, he could leave your life tomorrow and you proceed as if nothing happened.
Asker

7 d
He knows I love him i told you he asks me everytime I see him... I think he is sick in the head
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Asker

7 d
And I think he is in a relationship
Asker

7 d
Matter of fact he is a bum.. why do I even care
DavidFox

7 d
Ya, why care?
Asker

6 d
Stupidity
DavidFox

6 d
Well time to move on

Answer 13

Asker

Why would that worry him though? I've never asked him if he loved me but he always asks me if I love him its really weird

Answer 14

DavidFox

Because all to often girls start to develop feelings for guys after they have sex with them. If you honestly feel nothing for him then it’s all good, he could leave your life tomorrow and you proceed as if nothing happened.

Answer 15

Asker

He knows I love him i told you he asks me everytime I see him... I think he is sick in the head

Answer 16

Asker

And I think he is in a relationship

Answer 17

Asker

Matter of fact he is a bum.. why do I even care

Answer 18

DavidFox

Ya, why care?

Answer 19

Asker

Stupidity

Answer 20

DavidFox

Well time to move on

Answer 21

Gooblegobble | 100 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 5

You're a hookup. He either has commitment issues, or does not care for you.

Answer 22

Anonymous

ha no

but at your age most men know the truth about you women so good luck

Asker

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U don't make a bit of sense NEXT

Answer 23

Asker

U don't make a bit of sense NEXT

Answer 24

v851234 | 65 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 5

I would guess he isn't interested.

Answer 25

Daniel3035 | 406 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

All the time.

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