Why do men hate men for being simp aka nice/submissive guy but also want women to be simps?

[Anonymous]

So i realize that men like women to be submissive but also call men simp for being submissive. It really annoys me. I mean i also prefere "submissive guys" but hate when people call my man my typ simp. I also made a poll and ask men if they would date a female simp and majority of them would do it. Why does it bother you so much that some men end up being simps?

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Guys, would you date a female simp? ↗

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What i realize is that the term "simp" is overused/misused to the point that you have to hate on women in order to not get called simp. So almost every man get called simp for just complimenting women or for being nice nowdays.

[ColHathi]

Well I don't think "simp" equates to "submissive". As far as I understand, a simp is someone that... okay I guess I see where you're coming from, but the problem with being a simp is the idea that they'd jump off a cliff if they thought it'd make their crush happy. That's too much. That's more than just being nice or submissive. That's being stupid. Moreover, they're doing it because they think that's what you should do to earn the affection of the opposite gender, as if the opposite gender is different to their own and should be treated differently, which is some damn nonsense.

[ColHathi]

I just went and voted "Yes" to that question about female simps. I don't want women to be simps, but I'm not against dating one. I'd just show her why she doesn't need to jump off any cliffs for me.

[Asker]

I Like your reply

[ColHathi]

I appreciate that, thank you ^^

[Dave31989]

simps are desp. people

including desp. women

who want's a desp person?

[MrOracle]

A simp is someone who is actually working AGAINST their own best interests and goals. A simp is never going to get the girl he's simping for - she'll tease him with a bit of attention in return for a massive amount of attention in return from him, and also usually his money, and his defense of her (even though she often doesn't deserve it) if anyone should say something negative about her in public.

A simp is FAR more than just being submissive - it's deceiving yourself and believing in completely false hope at a high cost - not just an emotional cost, but usually also a labor and monetary cost as well.

It's also essentially normalizing prostitution or something approaching it. The number of women who are "monetizing" their sexuality today is insane, and sets an expectation that men are mostly just ATMs that spit out money, and that it's okay to lie and manipulate men to get it because it's easy to successfully pay your bills that way. At least prostitution provides an actual service, but exploiting simps rarely does.

[Asker]

But men love simps. Look up my update

[Stoner710]

There a difference between being nice and being submissive. Submissive men are not men they are boys. Men are supposed to be dominant they are suppose to be strong and take care of there families. Submissive men once something goes wrong they tend to go into a shell and think of only themselves but are to week to do anything about there position in life.

women are different women are suppose to expect there man to be dominant and make decisions that is used for survival if a lion came into camp we fight the lion the submissive runs with the women and then rightfully gets shunned and kicked out of society

[Asker]

Yeah but why want to date simps then?

[Stoner710]

There a difference between trying to make the person you love happy and being submissive. I would take e a bullet for the people I love doesn’t mean I’m submissive. Submissive guys wouldn’t take a bullet. I don’t know if you remember the Thousand Oaks shooting that happened in 2018 during the shooting guys were shielding women with their back knowing it would be better if they got shot they the women they were trying to protect. That’s how men are suppose to act submissive men will be running or hiding not protecting women regardless if there in a relationship or not with the women

[Asker]

So you want women to be simps?

[Stoner710]

I want my girl to be happy being with me, If doing more for me then is necessary makes her happy I’m fine with it. Most guys have 5 simple things they want. 1 food 2 sex 3 clean house 4 the tv remote and 5 children. So I don’t really care of she a simp or not but there are something I would like in a relationship but she doesn’t have to kill her self doing it, if she want to pick up McDonald’s on her way home from work I’ll be fine with that

[Asker]

Wow so you like simp. Interesting

[Stoner710]

Sure if that what it means. Gender roles are important in relationships

[Datboi65]

Men don't want women to be "simps". All a man really wants is a co-operative/feminine/submissive wife, not a woman who will argue 24/7 and challenge him on every goddamn thing he does, trying to emasculate him. That's not a "simp". A "simp" is someone so clingy that will worship the ground you walk on. A desperate/clingy girl is unattractive.

[jasco]

The thing is that most guys are becoming what people call pussy. No longer being able to take care of themselves and there family, becoming lazy and ugly. A simp is someone who is so submissive to the point he be willing to lick your feet for whatever. I have never really used that term before but i do tend to understand why someone whose willing to do whatever a girl wants regardless if it hurts there pride or not is stupid. I feel the same way about women. Have some pride within ya.

[Asker]

Would you date a female simp?

[jasco]

nope, i don't mind her being submissve sometimes but personally i enjoy someone whose argumentive

[JosyJosy]

nice/submissive guys aren't bad. Simps are just desperate human beings. Pushovers.

[JakeGolding754]

I agree.

[Asker]

What about female simps?

[JakeGolding754]

I like them.

[Asker]

@JakeGolding764 dont you think femal simps are also desperate

[JakeGolding754]

I guess so, but desperate men get weird.
They turn into cuckolds and cry babies. It's just cringy to me.
Desperate women are just easy.

[Asker]

But you still like them and want to marry them. Women can be cucks too, not only men, you sexist idiot😊🙃

[JakeGolding754]

I'm not an idiot.
You're the one asking the question because you don't know.

[Asker]

😂😂😂😂👍. I am just saying that women could be cucks too

[JakeGolding754]

Very rare.

[JosyJosy]

same thing for me

[Asker]

So you saying women who share dick is rare.

[JosyJosy]

I also find it bad when they are

[JakeGolding754]

I just saying that finding a woman who will sit in the corner of the room while her man fucks a hotter woman and humiliates her is rare.
I don't find as many women who are that desperate and have that low of self esteem.
Desperate men take it to a whole other level that some other men find digusting.

[Guardian45]

@JosyJosy. Thank you for FINALLY this alien term 'simp' clearer!

[Guardian45]

For the record, Submissives are NOT ALWAYS Pushovers or Nice!

[JakeGolding754]

@Guardian45
It's true.
I'm somewhat submissive in that I love giving women massages and oral and making her pleasure a priority.
However I'm no Simp.
I don't take shit from anyone and I'm way too competitive to share my women.

[JosyJosy]

@Guardian45 No problem :) and ya you understand

[DiversityHire]

I recommend disregarding the opinions of the internet; my life became much happier.

[nodnol32]

I'm a submissive guy and idc. She has to be dominant for me.

[Liam_Hayden]

A SIMP is a guy who worships low-quality women, hence the phrase Sucker Idolizing Mediocre P*ssy.

[Asker]

Oh that is why men like simps

[Guardian45]

Why do women hate women for being 'simp' aka nice/submissive girls but also want men to be simps?

[Asker]

Read my update

[Asker]

I think everyone has a right to be a simp lol

[nawtee_me]

See, I don't classify people as simps or anything else. That is judgmental and I see them all as people, different as they should be...

[bklynbadboy1]

So you want a guy you can control. That's different

[TallAnon]

Do we really care though? Ain't that more of a joke anyway?

[lonlynchi5]

Does it matter if I'm very bi curious

[cootjuh]

Iam submissive

[pizzalovershouse]

Not all do