I stay away from my crush, anyone else been in this situation?

[Anonymous]

So there's this girl that I can't stop thinking about or missing when she's not around. However when she is around I try to stay away; Because I know she doesn't think or feel the same way that I do... But I'm not quite sure what I'm feeling... I hope I'm not going all stupid with this; but could it be that I actually do feel something for her or just obsessed? Anyway please do tell me what happened with you if it did; and help me if you can; take care ;)

[trinababy_x]

I am this way with my boyfriend I can tell that he is very much into me; I love him, just not as much as he loves me, I am a bit of a bitch sometimes I don't really show my feelings and I act like I don't think of him as much (even though I do all the time) and I try and pretend I am not that into him, and I brush him off for my friends and sh*t.

What he does now is act the same way I do around him, and he becomes distant and has mood swings which makes me cling on to him and want him even more, he doesn't show that he cares for me that much anymore which makes me sad and leads me wanting more of him, I think you should be the same way my boyfriend is with me.

[Asker]

Thx for the help ;)

[Margit]

I am feeling the same... I am missing this guy when he´s not around, I am thinking about him all the time, but when he is around I try to stay away too and when he is around I am not sure what I'm feeling... not that interested...

But I just can't stop thinking about him and that sucks. However I think that I'm in love with him, he is a really great guy...

Are you sure that she doesn't have any feelings for you?

I think that its not an obsession because you are not stalking her or anything.

[Asker]

Thx, well now I don't feel like I'm the only one feeling strange...thx again for you're help

and no I'm pretty sure she doesn't feel anything for me... :( :p

[originalmountaindew]

I feel the same way too! I never liked/noticed this one guy and then I started talking to him more and thought he was nice. Suddenly he doesn't contact me like he usually does and I can't stop thinking about him!

Does anyone have an explanation for this?