Girls, do you consider me desperate or more like unfortunate?

[Anonymous]

So i was born ugly (not my fault) and throughout my life it's been my dream to hold hands with a girl hug her and be loved by her 😭but it's never going to happen because no one would even look at a 4/10 guy for more than 3 seconds.
I still dream everyday about being loved by a girl but whatever i guess i should give up.

[Anonymous]

First off no one was born ugly, just because only a few girls didn’t find you attractive does mean the whole population is to. You really hate yourself your really calling yourself ugly why give me a reason, who hurt you what did they say? You need to grow up, start believing and seeing yourself as hot. Start loving yourself maybe you are the problem. Because you think yourself is so low and insecure people see straight through you. They don’t want to be with you or be your friend. Attract what you attract go write nice comments in your mirror so then everyone time you wake up or go to bed you get positive. You need to help yourself stop believing the lies of the enemy Satan the Bible says he comes to steal, kill and destroy. John 10-10 Jesus came to give you new life. John 3:16! Anyways stop believing what the world and what people say like who cares. We can’t help you if you aren’t willing to work with the body of what God made you. Actually it’s your body go to the gym, go get plastic surgery. love your life. Stop taking yourself for granite and throwing everything away and be grateful. Some people are born deaf some people are born blind some people are born with 3 fingers. Stop complaining please and be grateful. Half of these I see on here people just want attention calling themselves ugly but they are really beautiful people.

[Asker]

STOP GASLIGHTING ME

[Opinion Owner]

You asked buddyyyyyyyyyyyyhh

[RaveWorthy]

What you need is a decent therapist to help you deal with your sever self-image problem, She will also suggest you see a Psychiatrist to evaluate you to see if you have clinical depression or something. That way she can get you started on medication that may be the only way that can help you get better.

Make sure you talk to therapist about your dream of finding love with a girl. She can best help you deal with that and will let you know when she knows that you are ready to even attempt to date and start looking to be in a relationship with another. Until then, seek and heed their medical and mental advice they give you.