Do some girls think I'm desperate because I make my intentions clear very early?

[Anonymous]

[Cheapskate]

It depends on how blunt you are about it. Consider how you would feel if you met a chick and she immediately told you she wants to take you for coffee to evaluate you as husband material. I mean, it would seem a bit weird, right? So yeah, social skills...

[Asker]

So would it be better if I ask for their social media and then text them?

[Cheapskate]

No, it's fine to invite someone out for coffee, you just don't need to be explicit about why. She knows why.

[TommyMountainFigure]

If your intentions are that you want marriage and 10 kids with her, then I'm going with yes!

[Abbycado]

I don’t know why that would come off desperate making your intentions known, unless those intentions are really of the wall.

[Asker]

Not off the wall. It's just asking a girl out during our first conversation

[Abbycado]

No, shouldn’t come off desperate in my opinion.

[HelpfulWoman]

some will, some won't. depends on "intentions" you say i guess

[Asker]

Making it clear that I want to go out with her to get to know her better

[HelpfulWoman]

some will, some won't.

[Pennywise_6]

it's good. To avoid confusion.

[Asker]

True. I don't want them to think I'm only friendly