Girls, Can this be bad to say early on?

[Anonymous]

I have been texting this girl for about two and a half weeks, and it's been pretty much every day except for a day or two. In our last few texts, she asked about my week, and I responded and asked about hers. She asked me a few questions about the stuff I responded with about me, and then she told me that her week has been exhausting so far. She has been dealing with some house issues and mentioned that she has had to call someone every day this week to fix something. She previously told me about this and how it's been a pain to deal with after work. In my response, I told her that I was always there if she needed to vent. Its been a day without receiving a response from her, which is not completely unusual, but I keep playing the response in my head and wonder if it could have potentially scared her off? The more I think about it the more I should of just asked questions about what she told me to keep the conversation going. If a guy said this to you after two and a half weeks of talking, and I guess the other important piece is only been on one date with the second one scheduled. Would it be off putting?

[Anonymous]

If a person is interested in you, they'll put up with nearly anything as long as you have good fucking intentions. There is no fucking harm in offering your help. Watch the janitors flag this as "explicit" while their own opinions are literally shitty advice with rudeness. And my opinion hits the nail on the dickhead. ﾠ

[Opinion Owner]

Ask my mentor @butthurttroll how he likes to date and behave during first 3 weeks of a texting relationship. Perhaps he hates sex and "being there for him" will scare him of the possibility of seeing your horror cock.

[ButthurtTroll]

Dealing with a butthurt troll over text can be challenging, but there are some strategies you can use to minimize their impact on you and others. One approach is to simply ignore them and not engage in any conversations or interactions. This can be difficult if they are specifically targeting you, but sometimes the best defense is to just walk away and not give them the attention they crave.

[Opinion Owner]

I now wonder. Since I anonymized and since this question is girls only and you could comment only because of my mention. Since my mention is disabled. Can you still reply?

Also I think I will let sushi stay #1 MHO... I'll only tear her down as a punishment if she interferes with my business.

[SueShe]

Well, the fact that you placed this question in the "Dating" topic, leads me to believe that you must have some intentions with her otherwise, this question would rather have found its way in the "Family & Friends" topic.

Now, yes, you probably did scare her off because she perfectly realizes what you are aiming at by suggesting that you would "always there if she needed to vent".

To be always there for a person implies that you are very good friends or more but you cannot say something like that to a person that you know for just a little over 2 weeks. That indicates that you are up to something and that is a warning sign to a person that you barely know.

[Nikki1989]

If you want to be taken seriously, stop wasting her and your time with texting.