I know this may seem like silly question but im asking out of sheer observation.
For starters, im not a skinny girl; in fact I would fit more into the plus size chubby girl category. And because of this and wanting to achieve my goal weight in order to be healthy , I started going to the gym. However there was one experience where I was walking past a group of several guys working out. They all stopped and stared at me walk towards the changing rooms. It was slightly uncomfortable as it made me feel all the more aware of myself and self conscious
Im not a girl that most guys find attractive (which is fine) but what other reasons could there have been as I'm not sure what to think.
What does it mean when a group of guys stare at you in the gym?
The only thing I can think of is that they are attracted to you. Curvy is still attractive. My advice, if it makes you too uncomfortable, boss out a baggy shirt that goes over your butt, then they won't be as obnoxious. I see it a lot at the gym and I think it's a great defuser
Generally guys in a group will only "stare" at women if they find them attractive. A guy by himself will just "glance" at a woman he finds attractive, and may also have interest in her. So just specifically from the standpoint of personal attractiveness, the group "stare" a good thing. However I understand how that can also be totally creepy at the exact same time.
The same thing that women do when they get together and gossip in a group staring at a dude.
Prob talkin about your body in a sexual manner and trying to figure out what you're about.
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Take a lesson from Dr. Phil who says "You wouldn't worry about others were thinking about you if you realized just how seldom they are". People in general are self involved and if they are thinking of you, it's usually how it pertains to them. The fact that it was a group of them it literally could have anything. Just remember what you're there for. Unless you feel in danger. Then say something!
