Guy at the gym walks REALLY CLOSE TO ME, why?

[Anonymous]

When he's passing me by he walks REALLY close. Why walk really close if you're not going to say anything. I don't get it

[revreese]

he maybe hoping something deep down will inspire him to get the courage to spark up a convo

[Asker]

What can I do to help?

[GrumpyMedic]

Is it possible you're over analyzing. I mean, if I'm in the gym, and I drink water, will every female there think it's some signal to her.

[Asker]

Well... I've noticed on a couple occasions he's always close to me. And he gets really close to me walking by...

[GrumpyMedic]

Still not enough to go by. And there's always the possibility of confirmation bias. You may have thr suspicion and when he does it you assume it's for the reason you suspect which may or may not be the case.

[Asker]

Then what do I look out for if he's interested?

[GrumpyMedic]

That's a very open question. Already we can see you've got a predisposition. That's the problem with questions like these. Unless someone is there to witness, no one can really say. They just have your word and you're already biased.

[Shihab-91]

The hunter is circling around the prey first ;)

[Asker]

🤣🤣 you think he's interested or trying to scare me?

[Shihab-91]

Scaring you? No but males are the hunters that's who we are. Now tell me do you think he is attractive?

[Asker]

Yes I do😍

[Shihab-91]

Ok then let him do the hunt when you catch him staring smile a little ( just a little ) then turn your face and keep working out.

[spartan55]

He isn't even thinking about that.

[Asker]

What's he thinkin?

[spartan55]

I don't know, does he even look at you? Why can't you talk to him?

[Asker]

Yes he looks at me all the time. It's hard to speak cause I'm working out hard and I'm really shy

[spartan55]

You can't speak because you working out so hard? 😂😂😂 That's bullshit. Really?

[Asker]

I don't know what you want me to say I did admit I was shy... I'm a bit tounge tied

[spartan55]

So then you wouldn't be able to talk to him anyway, because you are working out too hard, right?

[Asker]

🙄 anyways...

[spartan55]

Just say hi.