Lol, that's funny. Just to play along, ask for directions to somewhere, but somewhere not too obvious but obvious enough for a local to know how to get there. If he has time, ask him to show you. Then strike a convo. Another one, find something to complain and laugh about that he can easily chime in on, like wearing these masks all day. A Compliment goes a long way. Or just asking how he is in hopes of him asking it in return and then you strike up a convo from there.
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Hi would be a great start, but if you want to be more personal take in context of where you are seeing him? Do you work with him? You do see him during commutes? Is he a family friend? If so, maybe make that a starting point. Once you break the ice the conversation will flow. But if all else fails Hi is a start. Don't let this generations reliance in texting and overanalyzing take away from the fact that a genuine simple interaction is all you need sometimes.
Both sound kinda desperate to me. Where do you know this guy from? Work? School? Common friends?
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Being shy myself, I completely understand the stress... especially with someone you're interested in... what I can say, is don't trick him into a conversation, that really sounds like it won't go well... just... ask how his day is going, or tell him you've been wanting to talk.. I obviously couldn't say what he's like, but I know I always appreciate having someone who actually wants to talk. It makes me feel less alone..
In school when I’m trying to get a conversation started I tend to use things around me to start or talk about something that we’re doing or something like that and go from there. I know that I’m probably confusing you with the way I’m explaining this but If you need examples or advice or anything just reach out to me and I will do my best to help you if you want.
"There’s this guy who i wanna talk to but i’d rather not go up to him and start a conversation out of nowhere."
Well that's too bad, because that's how everyone does it, and that's the way that is most likely to lead to success. "Hi." It's not hard. Why do you girls have to make it more difficult for yourself?
Tripping him up? Tell him his pack is open? What if it's not?Guys have been trying to figure out the exact same thing with girls for a hundred years now. The results have been hit-and-miss since.
Usually it's been more miss than hit.
If you find out what works, let the rest of us know.Why do you like him
What do you like about him
What do you know about him that you also like
How's his backpack
what does he wear
what does he doNo offens, but both of your ideas really suck. Are you really 25?
Who is this guy? Where do you see him? EtcTrip him sounds like a bad idea. The same goes for the Backpack. How about just saying hi to him and initiate some small talk?
You seem to make the problem much harder than it actually is.Grow the fuck up. “Hi I’m __________ (shake hands) I’ve seen you around and would like to get to know you better”
25 years old and wears a backpack, or are you younger?
Just go up to him and say hi how are you? ask him about his day and stuff. Ask him about interests and what he likes to do. Its not that hard😂
Yeah commit yourself to those brilliant plans you've cunningly conjured
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