This is for guys preferably in highschool or college!! :)
So I like this guy, I'll call him John. I sat next to him for the first couple months of a class, and he was super sweet and even asked for my snap at one point, but I didn't have it then, so I had to tell John no. He told me a lot of things about himself and he used to dance and fool around when we were near each other in any class or the hallways. I started liking him around mid-September, and in January I downloaded snap and added him. We haven't talked since about October, and I really want to again. I get a lot of mixed signals from him, but i really want to get to know him more. Is it even a good idea for me to try texting or snapping him? Every other time I try leaves me on opened. If it is a good idea for me to start a conversation, any ideas on what I should say?
So I like this guy, I'll call him John. I sat next to him for the first couple months of a class, and he was super sweet and even asked for my snap at one point, but I didn't have it then, so I had to tell John no. He told me a lot of things about himself and he used to dance and fool around when we were near each other in any class or the hallways. I started liking him around mid-September, and in January I downloaded snap and added him. We haven't talked since about October, and I really want to again. I get a lot of mixed signals from him, but i really want to get to know him more. Is it even a good idea for me to try texting or snapping him? Every other time I try leaves me on opened. If it is a good idea for me to start a conversation, any ideas on what I should say?
What Guys Said
Why haven't you talked since October?
He moved to another seat and just stopped talking and started staring at me.
So, why didn't you talk to him?
Well by that point I had already started to fall for him, amd so I felt awkward approaching him.
But you had already been talking to him, right?
Yeah, up until he moved.
Okay, I don't why you stopped talking to him. Why would it be awkward? He doesn't know you like him?
My friends have made ot very obvious, against my wishes, sp unless he's extremely oblivious, I'd say he knows. I stopped talking because he always initiated the conversation and I didn't really know how to after he moved.
Your friends? Ugh...
yeah, they can't keep their mouths shut sometimes lmao
So you have class with him daily?
Yes.
Okay well texting or Snapchat is stupid if you see him every day. Don't use those.
I don't know how to approach him. I feel like I'll make a fool of myself
Why do you think that?
every time I go to talk to him I just turn around because I think i will
But why, when you've already talked to him...
I really don't know. u just started getting anxious about it
You'll have to get over it. No way around it.
I know. any ideas on what to say?
Talk about something you did before. You said he told you a lot about him...
The same way to talk to other humans
He is human i hope