Guys do you think there’s something going on here with my boss? Is he flirting with me or just being friendly?

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I really like my boss. He’s a great guy and very attractive and he’s single but 20 years older than me. I haven’t seen him act like this with anyone else in my office in the 2+ years I’ve worked with him so I don’t know if he’s just being friendly or if it’s more...

He recommended me for a promotion and told me I was getting the job before they advertised it. Then they even interviewed my other colleagues for the job too and he told me I was getting it regardless.

He’s sometimes quite touchy, holds my arm and shoulders when we talk or he nudges me when he walks past as a joke.

He always holds doors open for me and a few times he has puts his hands on my waist to let me through.

One time he put his hands right around my waist and pushed me through a door as a joke because he said I was in his way and I almost dropped dead. 🥵

I catch his eye a lot and he apologised once for staring at me and said he was watching someone behind me.

I notice him staring at my boobs sometimes and he’s tall so I’ve noticed him look down my shirt sometimes. He’s mentioned certain photos I have on Facebook and told me I look amazing and has told me he likes my boobs (in these Facebook photos) I went bright red and changed the subject and he asked me if I had loads of guys chasing me and said I make him want to start going to the gym more.

We were off work for a week and I was posting stuff on my stories and he always watches them. He replied to a few and kept in touch with me when we were both off work. He’s never been like this before and I’ve worked with him for over 2 years.

He’s 20 years older than me so I don’t know if he’s just being nice or not? Just recently a lot more things have been happening that’s got me thinking he’s maybe not just being nice and I don’t know what to do!

I’ve started to get so nervous around him because I do really like him as a person and he is an attractive man but I feel like I’m being really stupid here.
Guys do you think there’s something going on here with my boss? Is he flirting with me or just being friendly?
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