Guy doesn't reply?

[Anonymous]

Have been seeing casually this guy, we usually text when we arrange to meet so the last time he was at my place brought some nice wine but didn't have opener so it stayed with me. He wrote me on his way home and I replied but didn't write smth requesting a response. I wrote to him again that I tried the wine and it's pretty good but he didn't reply yet (I noticed that he hasn't watched my stories today although he was one of the first to do). We are working together for a project which he shared his credentials with me to follow up so we are still connected. I'd have to enter and work on it but I'm embarassed after sending that message. Is he genuinely busy or slowly fading out? Many times we double text each other so don't think he'd mind me leaving that message but can't be sure and don't want to get paranoid about it.

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He opened my message but didn't reply neither he checked my stories.

[devilish-cutie]

How long has it been? If day or two, okay, i think u might be parqnoid or he just needs a bit space n maybe it has nothing to do w u or he didn't thought there was the need to write anything. If u work together i dubt hed try to avoid u as its practically impossible as u r working togwther. Also, focus more on how he is in rl rather than texts

[Asker]

He's very attentive and sweet in person and usually he always responds. It's just few hours but is unlike him. He told me we are casual so I hope my message didn't scare him away. I honestly thought wine was excellent (he knows I have a background on wines so he made an effort to bring me a good one and tried to acknowledge it). Is it related not viewing my stories for the whole day? I honestly don't mind it as he isn't using social media often and was just trying to be a bit flirty and thank him for the gesture. My friend told me I shouldn't have sent this text cause I'm not his girlfriend and it puts pressure on him.

[devilish-cutie]

Doeant seem qnything to worry about. The only think you should worry about is that u probs want more while he doeant

[Asker]

Yeah perhaps. He opened my message and didn't reply also hasn't seen my stories either. Do you think messaging him initiating a convo gave him this signal? I don't even know if I want more we have good time and its casual so haven't thought he would take it as a sign I want exclusivity or relationship cause I don't.

[devilish-cutie]

I see no worry as you dont want a relationship, leave him be for a bit

[Asker]

Yeah true. Thank you x