Why do guys get shy and nervous and blush around their crush?

[Anonymous]

why do guys get shy and nervous and blush around their crush?

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your welcome to share about your crush experience when it happens to you

[Nikola321]

They get nervous cuz they like the girl :D
When they have a crush on a girl, they think very highly of her, and usually consider her to be leagues ahead of them. Shy guys (like me) get extra shy cuz they don't consider themselves worthy of her at all. Blushing, well, that's what everyone does when near their crush.

[Asker]

nice, so only shy guys get shy and when they have a crush on a girl? how about the confident guy or not shy guy?

[Nikola321]

No, all get shy, even confident ones. But confident ones manage to fight that shyness and in the end they ask her out or smth. Shy guys usually don't overcome their shyness and therefore girl must make the first step if she wants smth w him :/

[Bigboi11]

We like them. So the feeling of not messing up things in front of them gives us anxiety which is shown when we blush or become nervous.

[Anonymous]

It’s usually because they’re really attracted or nervous about talking to you or looking at you and they’re not sure about if you like them and don’t know how to make the move. This is the case for me and my crush. He actually admitted to me that he was checking me out for months but he just wasn’t sure if I was attracted to him or if I would date anyone in my workplace or if I like guys with long hair or tattoos or whatever he just didn’t think that I was attracted to him or was actually interested in dating or getting to know him. He eventually got me a gift on Valentine’s Day and after that he was so nervous that he just didn’t catch my eyes he didn’t talk to me he avoided me and he would blush every time I saw him until him a thank you letter for the gift. I also put inside of it that I liked his hair and tattoos and I gave him my name and I added like my phone number at the end Lake Lake if you want to talk like here’s my number. He texted me that day and he was like that was so cute hey it’s me and now we’re dating. ◡̈

[Asker]

where do you both work at? are you co workers?

[Opinion Owner]

We both work at a grocery store.

[virtue2332]

Because our bodies produce adrenaline causing our blood vessels to dilate. This increases our blood flow and oxygen delivery which will come in handy for other physical activities☺😘. Since our blood vessels are spread out and in higher numbers in our face you oxygenated blood equal brighter reddish blood cells and you call it blushing. All of that work for little I'm you. Remember that next time it seems like guys do nothing for the women they like. At least I think that's what's going on provided you I haven't made him angry or embarrassed for another reason.

[forgag102]

If you get shy & nervous around her, how much do you actually like her on a scale of 10?

[virtue2332]

It would depend on how well we knew each other. For me it would more signal my attraction to her. Now I'm curious about the reason for the physical change in appearance has to do with the feeling of being attracted to the physical parts of them.

[FlutteringFeelings]

It seems to me that it’s hard to tell if a guy is nervous. A man asked to join me when I was sitting outside a frozen yogurt shop and he told me that he’s nervous and I looked at him as if he was crazy. I had no idea that he was nervous till he mentioned it and I was surprised. How can men keep their composure? I cannot tell if a guy is nervous so I wouldn’t know. Lol

[msbrightness]

Because, if they don't drive it to proposing - which they'd probably want to do/that is how they feel - she will get offended, possibly furious, wreck hers or their life.
Women can be horribly flimsy, impatient and flippant when it comes to their rosy expectations.

[kamalravi25]

So that he can hide his feelings and prevent himself from getting embarrassed or awkward.
And express it only when he feels its the right time.
His confidence depends on the signs that his crush sends to him.

[Rok4bakAR]

Those guys don’t have enough experience with a woman that’s why. When I say women I mean good looking women. Damn acting like that will probably cost them a lot of girls turn away from them.

[forgag102]

Why must it be specifically good looking women?

[Mangospacho]

The stock photo are the same people from that meme where the guy is checking out the girl walking by and the girlfriend looks pissed so that’s really cool to see they’re getting along in the new photo.
What was the original question again?

[2018life]

oh haha there was another meme where the guy is the students and the girl walking by is in person school, and the girl the guy is walking with is online school... lol

[Mangospacho]

@2018life That was a good find. It’s the only reason I clicked on the question.

[BillHe1]

Because she's so beautiful, and why would she consider me?

[Diamondsdiamonds]

I’m experiencing this now with this reallyyyyy hot boy lol
I joke about him being so shy around me and he denies, but when he video called me recently two times he doesn’t show his face. That’s how I know I’m 100% his crush haha

[milo675]

They dont want to make a fool of themselves. They dont want to say the wrong thing. I personally hide who i truly am until i get to know the other person and their opinions.

[forgag102]

If you get shy & nervous around her, how much do you actually like her on a scale of 10?

[virtue2332]

What benefit would that have? I'm not saying that your wrong I'm just curious how that would be beneficial?

[Asker]

and why They dont want to make a fool of themselves. They dont want to say the wrong thing?

[TonyMetal___86]

Later in life the word shyness starts to become extinct...
I was a very shy teenager but now crush or no crush, it's all normal!

[smb930]

Does the same not happen to girls? It's a natural reaction.

[Asker]

like whats the reason or the reaction?

[FilmGuy93]

Why would a woman do the same? Exactly. Sometimes the easiest answer is the right one.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Same reason why girls get shy and nervous and blush around their crush

[TheBigGuy9]

It’s the way we were built. Humanity. Such person has feelings. See that as a good thing.

[friendzoned4life]

Simple if we ask you out chances are 99,9% you say no. So we get scared as fuck

[forgag102]

What do you think the girl should do then?

[friendzoned4life]

Well I don't know but with saying no Just keep it at no and saying nothing more than that it's mostly what comes after no that we get really hurt by

[Guardian45]

For the same reasons that girls get shy and nervous and blush around their crush!

[Anonymous]

Because women have a power over us that they will never understand.

[Iron_Man]

The same reason you do too it’s a part of life

[AmeerX]

What else do you expect?

[Jmmmfi4]

You answered your own question... nervous

[forgag102]

Does the girl have to be pretty in order for him it be nervous?

[Jmmmfi4]

@forgag102 definitely makes a difference

[forgag102]

If a guy has a crush on a girl but she isn't that good looking, would he still be nervous & shy around her?

[ALoser]

@forgag102 A crush is a crush, so ofc he'll be shy

[Nikola321]

@forgag102 Every girl is beautiful in her own way. Even if a girl is ugly to some people, she can be the cutest and the most beautiful in smn's eyes. Also, not everyone is attracted by the same things, so that explains it :D

[SamFromFL]

You are over 30, right?

[msc545]

Hard to know what to say.

[Rohaan2020]

i wish we knew... so we could work on it

[will34]

You didn’t make any sense whatsoever

[MysteriousDarkness]

@will34
You didn't understand it even though it makes sense.

[Anonymous]

I get a woody around crushes

[Asker]

seriously?

[Anonymous]

I don't know ask mother nature.

[ceraunophile]

Doesn't everyone?

[RickVienna]

So do girls?