Some guys are like this, my boyfriend included. I think it comes down to trust, and not freaking yourself out because he’s taking longer to reply. Here’s the thing love — you can’t twist his arm into being the man you want him to be. Maybe you feel reassured by steadier conversation and when he gets cold/quiet you panic, so you really want him to stop doing that. But clearly that’s just not him, since you’ve mentioned this more than once to him and yet he continues to upset you time and again. So you’re left with a big decision on your end, which is to accept this hot and cold trait and be done talking about it or walk away because you want someone who will acknowledge your distress the first time you mention it and stop doing the bothersome thing.
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When women do this to me (and yes they have before) I just drop them completely. If he can't respect your time with at least some effort to communicate better then don't wast the effort. Because it seems like you are applying more of the effort to communicate than he is. Don't wait for him to change or try to convince him to be better. Just leave him. Tell him if he isn't going to put in effort then your gonna leave and find someone who will, because believe me, there are guys out there who are willing to put in the effort.
CAUSE maybe he feels your either making a big deal over something thats minor or your constantly blowing up his phone so after awhile it get tiring and repetitive to text back the same thing he's already explained 4 times in 3 days
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