Why are most good looking guys dry texters and how do you get them interested?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

Good-looking guys have tons of options, and a constant stream of women contacting them. With so many choices, they're going to focus on who they consider to be the top 5 or 10 girls. They won't dump the others, but they won't put a lot of effort into them either.

Looks are obviously a big factor in being highly rated, but some girls have other things to offer that can sometimes boost their ratings. The obvious one is the girls who will freely offer sex, but it could be a girl who wants to take him on vacation, or who has tickets to a sold-out show of his favorite band. When you are competing for hot guys, you need to understand that the competition is fierce, and often, even women who are stunningly beautiful still have to offer more to get real attention.

To put it another way, you are reaching above your market value, and so you aren't really being taken seriously. It's like a guy who is 19 and works at McDonald's going to shop for Ferraris. The sales staff may answer a few questions, but they won't see him as a viable buyer, and will treat him accordingly.

Set your sights lower, and you'll have better luck being taken seriously.

[Novacane]

Exactly! when it comes to average guys they have to put in more effort because the woman is the one that is in control of what happens. Once she tries to go for better-looking guys especially one that has options he becomes the prize and the one in control now women have to put more effort if they want to add value.

[MCheetah]

Because good looking people in general and usually out in the gym or living life and aren't stuck to their g-damn phones all day.

[MzAsh]

Most men don’t text like women do.
Women chat just to chat. For them, it replaces phone conversations. For men, they like to chat long enough to make plans or say something important.

[MrOracle]

Absolutely true, at least for most men. There are exceptions, though - I've known a couple of guys who text all day long like a girl. That would drive me insane.

[InfobotLives]

Probably because they don't have to try hard. This is why most comedians aren't good looking, so they learned to be funny.

[spartan55]

Being any kind of texter has NOTHING to do with interest. Girls just can't/won't understand this.

[Shihab91]

Many different reasons:
- He isn't interested.
- he isn't not ready for a relationship and Don't want to fall for you.
- he has a girlfriend
- he is busy
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[Shy_Steve]

Us Guys don't like texting as much as you Girls so just ask him in person to do something with you if you like him.

[fred_durst]

Many good lookin people are like that , they think look are most important so they dont bother to improve themselves, especially the personality

[Joshua0213]

Because texts are for business, setting up dates, saying good morning/goodnight etc. Why get to know someone on text? Thats a waste

[TheBigGuy9]

You ever talk on the phone? Why text when you can hangout?