Do people only give their seats to weak looking women?

[Ayanna240]

I have noticed that men never give up their seat for me on the train or bus. But they do so for other women. Usually its an older woman such as 40 years + who they give up their seats to. Could it be that they notice that I am a very strong and sturdy, big young woman so they think I can stand on my own?

[MrOracle]

More-or-less that is correct. Not only are younger women more physically able to ride standing, but they're also more likely to be feminists, and much less likely to show any appreciation. Men have adjusted their behavior accordingly.

[Ayanna240]

i like it if men offer their seats to me.

[MrOracle]

Men like it when their sacrifices are genuinely appreciated and respected, but that happens much less often than you get given a seat.

[Ayanna240]

If you're gonna give up your seat for someone, you do it because you care. Not because you want a standing ovation from everyone else on the bus. Do you want me to give you a kiss because you gave your seat to me?

[MrOracle]

No, but I don't need your contempt either. And that's why you're standing.

[Ayanna240]

I don’t think you’re the type of person who would give your seat to any woman. Your misogyny reeks

[Ayanna240]

It’s always the old guys that are misogynists. Nowadays it’s almost impossible to find a modern young man in his 20s-30s with your kinda attitude.

We all see your passive aggressiveness against women on GAG.

[NamerOfStars]

They give up their seats to those they think need them more than they do. Why would you think chromosomes would give you a better claim than they have?

[TurboKid]

I usually only do for pregnant women or elderly men/women. Otherwise, I would never be able to sit down on a train.

[Anonymous]

Why should they give you their seat just because you are a woman?

[Ayanna240]

Men are hard wired to biologically to protect women and children. I didn’t force men to give up their seat for me.

[Opinion Owner]

No, men are not hard wired to give up their seats to women. It's a learned behavior, and one that is no longer being taught to boys, and for good reason. It's the equality you women have been asking for, and now that you have it you complain about it.

And no, you didn't force men to give up their seat for you, but you are here complaining about the fact they don't.

Regardless, you haven't answered my question. Why should they give you their seat just because you are a woman?

[Ayanna240]

Yes it is biological behavior. The survival of human species depends on males to provide and protect their women and children

Women like men who protect and provide. Men like to protect and provide for women. Men prefer short women while women prefer tall men.

This truth hurts you which is why you refuse to acknowledge it

[Opinion Owner]

Protect you from what, standing? LMAO! Give me a fucking break. Your question here has nothing to do with protecting and providing and everything to do with your classic female entitlement. You are a shining example of why today's women are considered the biggest hypocrites in the history of humanity.

The only one hurt by the truth here is you, the woman who is wanting men to give up their seat for her and isn't getting what she wants and think she deserves.

Sorry sweetie, but it's time for you to put on your big girl pants and stop expecting to be pampered because you have a vagina.

[Ayanna240]

It’s not my fault people of your gender are instinctively wired to protect women. Don’t take your anger and frustrations out on me. Men who give up their seats for women , want to do so , not because of social obligation or because they want attention

[Opinion Owner]

Again, protecting women has nothing to do with giving you their seat in a bus. Nothing at all. The only reason men do it is because of chivalry, which is almost completely dead, and will be soon.

The only reason you posted your question is because men are not giving you their seats. And that's because most men have realized there is no longer any valid reason to do it. So you can complain about it all you want but it won't change. You women have made that bed for yourselves and now you get to sleep in it. Your hypocrisy about gender roles has been exposed and now you get to enjoy both the good and the bad that comes with gender equality.

Get used to standing on the bus. It's not that hard to do.

[Ayanna240]

oh ok, so there is chivalry, so why do men tend to only offer their seats to older women 40+? I rarely ever get offered a seat.

And where does chivalry come from? the male instinct to PROTECT. It didn't come out of nowhere did it?

[Opinion Owner]

Men AND women offer their seats to old people. Are you an old person? No? Then shut the fuck up.

Chivalry comes from the same place where women not being able to vote or drive came from.

[Ayanna240]

Its men who give up their seats , usually to someone who is 35+. Men give up their seats way more than women. Its just an observation. And it all boils down to the biological need for men to protect women.

Chivalry did not result from nowhere. It began as a result of a biological need to protect women.
Its the same reason why men prefer shorter women. Men like to feel like they can protect their wives and girlfriends.

[Joshua0213]

They give up there seats to old people not women is what you're saying?