That's a hard question.
I think first you should tell him what you said exactly in that last sentence: "I'm thinking about it (the date), but honestly, I don't want to be forgot about again if your ex re-enters the picture"
See what his reply is, then it'll be a little easier to determine if you should give him another chance.
If he says something along the lines of "I know that was messed up, I'm sorry, I won't do that again" ask "how do I know my time won't be wasted if your ex re-enters the picture" (but in your own words). If he assures you that it would be unlikely, give him another chance and tell him that you really like him but this is his last chance. "I really like you so I want to go on this date, but this is your last chance, if you mess up I'll have no choice but to go"
If he says anything else don't give him another chance. Anything that sounds like "but...", "I couldn't help it..." or puts him in the victim mentality/I was right mentality belongs in the trash.
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No don’t give him a chance he is the one that turned you down and gave up the friendship after 10 years of knowing you that’s not right
Be upfront with your concerns. Sometimes timing can really screw things up.
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It's a legit concern, and you should ask him about that.
Naw, he had his chance. He chose someone else.
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