How can you trust someone that you meet on İnstagram or other social media accounts?

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Now i started to Speak with a guy He is good looking and we talk about daily things but when i stalk him i saw that He just follows girls. There is not any boy in his account. I think it is weird. doesn’t he have any male friends? I am suspicious that if He is real or not. What do u think? He just posts his selfies and his Body.

Aakash_Hangargi · Accepted Answer

You too are stalking him and that's also creepy lol anyways guys are on social media just to see those onsta models and flirt around.

If his straight he will definetly follow girls just to see the half naked girls or them in biknis and what not it pure thirst based no intention of anything it's some like to show some like to see and the balance is maintained.

But to know him , you have to know him spend more time understand him.

If you go doubting in the initial stages itself what's the point where Is the trust talk to him try to meet him then decide.

meßis · Accepted Answer

thats weird at least he will have one or two boys in the acc but no one

Xoxocutekitty · Accepted Answer

If he only follows girls and doesn't seem to have any male friends, why do you want to hang out with this kind of person?

This is such a red flag. Next thing you know he'll come up with some weird thing about his past explaining why he 'had to' start his life over and make a new account. This is classic cheater behavior.

pretyyygirl · Accepted Answer

You shouldn't trust anyone you meet online, you don't know who's behind the screen

have_a_good_day · Answer

My gut instinct would be to tell you that he is flirting with all them bitches and blah blah red flags blah blah..
But then I look in the mirror 🤔
Even though I've had a Facebook account for 14 years now, I still has only 38 friends on there; 34 of which are women.
I just get along better with girls 🤷‍♀️
And I don't flirt with any of them, coz they all know they are "mah bishes" and are safe with me.
Then again, that's Facebook and I know them all in person.. Not some gay ass site light instagram which is a cesspool of creepy people and horny people and plates of food

SupremeWarlord · Answer

Watch videos and read articles about this.

The advice I heard is keep questioning them about little things such as age, where they live etc. If they lie at least once, no matter how minor, do not trust them anymore.

The thing is that if you question them a lot, from their perspective it seems that you are the one trying to get them into trouble, so it's hard.

At the end, you need to realize that trust is something you build up slow, it doesn't matter if it's social media or not.

thimmslicc · Answer

Thats his fake account. He is probably a catfish if he isn't real.
If he's real, thats his fake account to hold all his side girls.
If he's following only girls, you have more red flags coming through.
If you haven't met him in person, then he is definitely stringing you along only.

tatianamay · Answer

You have never met him, don't trust him or anyone you meet on social media. And if you see the social media following accounts for most men, it'd be filled with girls. He may be flirting with all of them or he just gets along with girls better. Many possibilities. Don't get too attached to him tho

Adam1978 · Answer

You should treat strangers as strangers ie you don't know them and you don't know if they can be trusted. That said a person that only post selfies and only follows girls is most likely a hookup account or catfish account and you shouldn't bother with it.

Starrisunset · Answer

He could be a catfish. If you get super suspicious you could always try to reverse image search his pics and see what comes up. Even if he isn't a catfish I imagine he's probably talking to other girls.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m gonna be honest I have two sisters and grew up around them and were introduced to all their friends and feel more comfortable around girls and I butted heads with a major male figure in my life so I’m more careful around males because in my eyes they are competition and danger. It could be the same way you also have to think about college or high school male to female ration and etc

Dakottaparent · Answer

I have and I gave her my I think information cuz if we were together for a minute and she stole all my money after I just got it deposited so I kind of lost my trust weather and she wants to make it up Jimmy Blount I can't trust you no more cuz I thought you don't take all of my money again

lovelyleo · Answer

If you're feeling a hunch that it's suspect, go with that.. it's not that big of a deal. You haven't met that person; so, I don't think it's going to be a loss from your life to just stop talking to them.

Vikkrram · Answer

Even you can't trust on anyone whom you know personally... But there will be a vibe that will make you feel that but it totally depends on your understanding...

kc_4308 · Answer

Why are you stalking this guy? Why must you trust someone whose on the internet you never met? I wouldn’t trust anyone on the internet unless you met them in person.

SirJohn42 · Answer

To be honest you really can't. To many players out there just wanting to hook up or into sexting.
So many fake people. If you meet someone make sure you double date or go to a safe place where friends can protect you. Never meet them alone.

Loveydove · Answer

Have you not seen Catfish the TV show? FaceTime him see if he’s real before you start catching feelings off a few pictures and some nice words.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

You ask for selfies. Question them about things. If they aren't who they say they are they'll get defensive.

teejay828 · Answer

Ask him to do a video chat. If he says no then he's obvie a catfish

oddwaffle · Answer

Do you think a pervert guy will follow another guy? Of course not.

K-I-S-S · Answer

You can't trust somebody you met on the street either. Take it slow, ask for a specific foto, meet in a public place.

TwoowT · Answer

Just please be careful with that and never let your guard down even if he seem cool and nice.

Anonymous · Answer

Before you meet someone in real life you should always FaceTime. And if he does not want to FaceTime you already know that there is something fishy going on.

HairyPoppins · Answer

Just chat with him through DM and use video feature. If he says no then you know.

Twalli · Answer

Ask for a unique picture. Like him holding a sheet of paper with your name and the date. If he can't, he's probably a Catfish

Shihab91 · Answer

Depends on how close they are, and where are they from. Its harder for online people to hurt you unless you allowed them. But i won't trust them 100%

Anonymous · Answer

This sounds like a catfish account if he only has girls as friends. Definitely doesn't sound real.

ToastyOats · Answer

You can't, you just have to meet them in real life duh.

dileep85 · Answer

You cannot trust then unless you spend enough time to know each-other.

Adam_West · Answer

no i can't fuckin' trust anyone on the fuckin' internet

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

You can't. But, if you use your gut, and trust your heart, you'll be able to tell.

Supernormal · Answer

You like him so much or

Ryfyle · Answer

See your first problem is the Social Media Part.

fonduegirl · Answer

You don't

anylolone · Answer

You can't.

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