A guy asked my (obviously lesbian) sister out the other day, why do some men not have any thought or standard about themselves before they pursue?

[Slim57]

[Aguysopinion4799]

I don't feel like there is a obvious appearance unless they are wearing clothes that say they are not straight or have pride month merchandise.

I don't automatically categorise a girl who looks boyish to be in the LGBTQ community because it could just be that she is straight and likes to look that way.

And there are straight people who like to wear very colourful clothing, nothing wrong with it, why should clothing be the part that identifies your sexual orientation.

My clothing consists of almost entirely black clothes and snake patterns on my shirts, I wear two pieces of jewellery when I go out, one ring and one necklace, none of which gives a very LGBTQ vibe, it's because I don't see the sense in paying money to get merchandise that tells people something you can tell them yourself.


But guys do approach girls with that boyish appearance for the reason that you shouldn't assume that they are certainly not straight and if you like them then it is better to take a chance than to not do it at all an not know.

[rcljr]

Ok, so what does an “ obvious” lesbian LOOK LIKE? Because I’m pretty sure the fascists at LEFT THINK COMMAND highly frown on labeling folks by their looks or clothing, and I’m sure they think it’s sexist to assume both her gender and her sexual preference on her looks…. Inquiring minds want to know, does the left live up to their own inane drivel, or do they just spout whatever dumb shit comes to mind in hopes that nobody can keep up and will just stop arguing with them?

[Slim57]

Don't really care what they think honestly

[kyleelyn199723]

People try and push their limits. Some men think they can change lesbians to be straight since they still use strap ons and stuff. It’s their ignorance on why lesbians are lesbians

[MCheetah]

This is called "dick vision." Their dick blocks all judgment and common sense. It rarely happens to me, but does happen, from time to time.

[ChrisMaster69]

Some of my friends are bi, gay and lesbian and not really sure what you mean by obviously lesbian.

the straight guy in our group comes over more camp than the gay one.

[johnsmithjs]

In this day and age nothing is obvious and to assume someone is gay or lesbian is inviting the mob to your front door.

[Slim57]

They can kiss my ass, its my own sister too so whatever

[Dchrls78104]

Some men think with one head---not the one located between the ears.

[princeofromance]

He probably did not realize that she was a lesbian.

[beebella]

What do you mean "obviously lesbian"? 😂

[Slim57]

You know what I mean haha. Tries to look like a man

[beebella]

Does she actually look butch, tho?

[Slim57]

Other than her small frame, yes absolutely

[beebella]

He could've thought she was a tomboy or he could've just been an idiot. 🤷‍♀️

[Joker_]

He's into lesbians

[Slim57]

Probably

[Joker_]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

Maybe thought she was a tomboy